So Confused About My Relationship - My Boyfriend Beats Me

You better run get your ass out of that relationship before he kills you..

I'm a good guy, single and available   

  thanx a lot for all the nice words, got my ass out sometime ago but the memory still lingers on and on and on and i keep thinking what REALLY went wrong in the first place. but like oprah said u can't make a man stay if he doesn't want u and if he wants u- nothing can keep him away, but it all happens that the ones that just won't go are the ones u ain't attracted to at all- irony of life 



      alley mcbeal

I'm glad you're out of that relationship hale and sound too. you should be more concerned about your health now, don't worry about them guys. love will find you and most times, it's when you're not searching. at least you are alive to talk about it, some aren't, so be happy k.

@ alley, go and get rid of him and get hooked up with mamba

i am so glad you got out of it.
men who beat up women need to be CAGED..not locked up but CAGED.like the animals that they are.
some of these men its deeply rooted in their childhoods.an e.g.my kid sister was dating this guy like 5 years ago...this guy comes from one of the FAMILIES in naija..(u know the type where you can't open citypeople or ovation without seeing them??)well he always beat my sister like 5 times a day at least..and i mean so bad that she started haviing more sunglasses than clothes in fact to cover her black eyes.everyone told her to leave the egbere alone..but no..my sister was in love.(so she thought)one day he came into our  house in london to pick her up,and she wasnt ready..lets just say he got RAVING MENTAL..because he told her 8pm.and she was still looking for which shoes to wear by the time he came.he rushed to her room,picked her up and threw her down the stairs.all the while screaming..b*&&h..when i say 8..i effing mean 8.trust oyinbo neighbours they called police...the guy was taken away...my sister was rushed to hospital..by the time i got home the house was a mess..glass everywhere etc..i was filled in on what happened...and when i saw the omo ale...i asked him WHY?guess what the didirin said?MY FATHER HAS BEEN BEATING MY MOTHER FOR THE PAST 35 YEARS AND SHE HASNT DIED..SO YOUR SISTER TOO CANT DIE...can you all imagine??so it was NORMAL to this looney..lets just say..no one told my sister again before she carried her two left legs and left him....GUESS what?just last week someone brought a copy of city people to my place in london...and who was there smiling like a prized goat?MR.IJAKUMO HIMSELF..yess people..his wedding featured on one of the top weddings of 2005...and i felt so sorry for the poor girl standing by his side smiling like YESS...this is my man...if only she knew...and don't tell me he has changed 6 girls he dated after my sister all RAN away for the same reason....and there in the magazine i saw his parents smiling....and something told me..mummy might have chopped some beating from daddy just before leaving home for the church.....VIOLENCE should not be condonned in any form.....

fire for fire. get him drunk, tie him up, beat him silly and bail...

dejiolowe u never fail to amze me with u input needless 2 say u are a clown u got me laughin though this is a serious topic weldone =D>
@ ally mcbeal i beg of u take a long walk and don't look back
@papermoon i wish u had given that punk ass a taste of his own pill, u suppose beat 2morrow comot 4 im body

if u watched Diagnosis Unknown on DSTV enough, then u know rat poison is real. and in naija where police don't know jack, u can send the guy to hell ASAP. but the cost of burying will ruin u.

me clown? duh!

lafta is the best medicine.

  please left that man alone, 

how ironic! and am here looking for a girl that i will never raise my hand to strike while a girl is making life so difficult for me. few days ago, i posted a thread here about a  delta girl. she is alright but her attitude is some thing else. we quarreled for over a week now and she did not call neither did i call her. just yesterday she text me and guest what she said in her text? i will read it to you all.

"Austin how is everything? hope fine. it is good when good friends say goodbye but is bad ones don't say good bye. have a nice day."

When i looked at the text, i just laugh aloud. here comes my reply to her.

"Listen, i feel u wanted a time off by your self that why i let u be. i told u before we started this relationship. i love u and want to marry u. we are not yet married and we have started quarreling like children what if we get married? what would we be doing? just to romance u before sex is a problem how den do we enjoy sex? i really do love u. i never wish one day both of us would be quarreling when we both have to think about the future and the family we would both raise and u are now distracting my attention. tell me, are u been fair to the both of us"?


I then send her another text this morning,

"peace, good morning. hp all is well with u. so am now a bad person. i never knew. all this while we were together trying to please u and in return it's insult from u am good but when i let u be am now a bad person. thanks. i will pray and ask god to change me back so that u will be insulting and taking me for granted. have a nice day."

she is yet to reply this text and frankly speaking, her attitude has really changed my feelings towards her. i never have that desire feeling that i once have when i met her at first.

this is the person i call my girlfriend. you see sometimes i really don't get upset when a man beat his wife or a guy beats his girlfriend. some girls deserve to be treated like dogs. am really sorry to say that and a thousand apologies to all girls in the house either good or bad.

cheers.

I'm sorry but your man is a creep! He is still your boyfriend and he beats u! Honey he wont stop! If u go on with d relationship he'l continue beating u! Can u handle that? Honey it aint worth it! Dont throw your future away for/on this jerk! I beg of u

I'm married but searching*

I put up with beatings before real bad from my former moroccan fiance. One day just came when I could not take it I was terrified. When it forst happened I thought it would not happen again (as he promised) I was not even allowed to possess a mobile phone. I ran away and I'm glad I did.