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smoothg
Sex For Job (should I?)
« on: March 25, 2009, 08:37 AM »

I am currently prospecting a job in two companies on the Island. Both bosses at the companies guaranteed giving me the job out of a combined 37 people that applied for same job in the two companies. I can't say i'm very pretty but similar demands have been made in almost all the places I've applied for jobs before and I always lost out because of not giving in. To make matters worse, these men are married and in their middle or late sixties (or thereabouts). Personally, I don't want to give in because the torment in my soul will be everlasting but, i've been jobless since graduation (2006). I'm at a crossroads. Thoughtful advice is needed from you.
Zingal
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #1 on: March 25, 2009, 08:51 AM »

Thought I was alone! Maintain your stand if there is any dignity left in you.
Ojoisacc (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #2 on: March 25, 2009, 08:55 AM »

Maintain your integrity, God will provide your job
Terries
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #3 on: March 25, 2009, 09:18 AM »

Dear, I have respect for you. You are far better than someone's wife, who wedded barely three months ago and attended a crusade last weekend, only to be convicted by the Holy Spirit and she came back to her husband, who trusted her beyond measure to drop the bombshell, she had slept with three different men after her wedding without protection for an exchange of money, not even for a job. Ironically she is a prayer warrior, claims to be a christian and everyone sees her as one. She just finished her youth service. Ain't you better off?
inemesit a (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #5 on: March 25, 2009, 11:04 AM »

Baby that job is not for you. Be patient you will get your own job with ease. Don't degrade yourself. I was in your shoe a year ago but later i was call for an interview and after the interview i never expected i will be called  but after two weeks i was offer the job and nothing like that was demended for. Put your trust in God.
jabbok (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #6 on: March 25, 2009, 11:18 AM »

Quote from: smoothg on March 25, 2009, 08:37 AM
I am currently prospecting a job in two companies on the Island. Both bosses at the companies guaranteed giving me the job out of a combined 37 people that applied for same job in the two companies. I can't say i'm very pretty but similar demands have been made in almost all the places I've applied for jobs before and I always lost out because of not giving in. To make matters worse, these men are married and in their middle or late sixties (or thereabouts). Personally, I don't want to give in because the torment in my soul will be everlasting but, i've been jobless since graduation (2006). I'm at a crossroads. Thoughtful advice is needed from you.
As far as I am concerned, u r blabbing. Listen to urself. The spirit is strong n d flesh is weak huh? Given your tone, it's difficult 2 advise u, but I'll say "go jump in d lagoon".
dominic tj (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #7 on: March 25, 2009, 12:01 PM »

What guarantee have u they will offer u the job after having their way and how sure are u they have not given such condition to the other 37 applicants. Baby gal, stay tight and keep away from them. God shall provide u a job at the right time. Remain blessed.
goldenvett
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #8 on: March 25, 2009, 12:05 PM »

 Shocked Shocked Shocked

if you have come this far,why give in now?This is a temptation you can overcome but only if you want to.

Don't lose your  dignity and self respect because you may give yourself and still not get the job and there is nothing you can do to them and even if you get the job,you must be ready to satisfy the he goat when ever he demands.

Trust God and forget those jobs,they are not yours!
onlysose (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #9 on: March 25, 2009, 12:16 PM »



The reality here  is  that  no  one will know you  have slept   with  them  before   getting  the job. besides   you  are not  married, so  if you  can give  this  thing to  some  of these  boys  for pleasure why  not  for  a  job.  why  do you  think banks  employ  more women  than men the  ratio is  10:1 in favour  of   women.

Na all  dogs dey eat shit oh!
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #10 on: March 25, 2009, 12:19 PM »

Quote from: jabbok on March 25, 2009, 11:18 AM
As far as I am concerned, u r blabbing. Listen to urself. The spirit is strong n d flesh is weak huh? Given your tone, it's difficult 2 advise u, but I'll say "go jump in d lagoon".

i agree with this post.

i believe threadstarter has almost made up her mind. all she wants is support to bring it to fruition.
douxange (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #11 on: March 25, 2009, 12:21 PM »

Thank God  you've stayed away this long.
I think you should check yourself and make sure its not something in you that makes them ask for sex.
Check your mode of dressing that might just be it.
Stay strong.
infomegaly (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #12 on: March 25, 2009, 12:25 PM »

personally i would say it is wrong to give sex to get a job. the choice is yours at the end- to be or not to be THAT IS THE QUESTION!! chose one!!
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #13 on: March 25, 2009, 12:32 PM »

Topic

NO!
faakay (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #14 on: March 25, 2009, 12:33 PM »

BrashLY   NO!  Grin
penfold (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #15 on: March 25, 2009, 12:36 PM »

If the pay is not less than 180k per month, go ahead (seeing that you have no moral qualms about it anyway) but if the pay is less, its not worth it, wait for a better offer. At least if you are "prostituting" it should be worthwhile!!!!
adventure (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #16 on: March 25, 2009, 12:39 PM »

Quote from: OMO IBO on March 25, 2009, 12:19 PM
i agree with this post.

i believe threadstarter has almost made up her mind. all she wants is support to bring it to fruition.


FORGET ABOUT THAT, DRESS CODE OR NO DRESS CODE,  BABE GIRL LEAVE THOSE HE-GOAT MAKE THEM KILL THEMSELF,  GOD TIME IS THE BEST, WOW TO THEM,  GOD WILL JUDGE EVERY MAN.
ijleke (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #17 on: March 25, 2009, 12:43 PM »

@ poster, my dear please hold your PRIDE you will get a job without having to sleep wit any man. If you do it and get the job,  YOU ARE TRAPPED its a continous process.
chikito1 (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #18 on: March 25, 2009, 12:46 PM »

When you come close to your breakthrough, that is when the devil and his aides come tempting. You have come this far and i

want to believe that your breakthrough is closer that you think, so just hold on.
faakay (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #19 on: March 25, 2009, 12:50 PM »

but I can't believe this is happening! it's unparliamentary! because you wanna offer some1 a Job! you have to XE with SEX! thats craP!
ijleke (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #20 on: March 25, 2009, 01:04 PM »

@ FAAKAY you just read my mind i think something needs to be done, but the only problem is that most gals STILL do so those he-goats take it as a normal thing
faakay (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #21 on: March 25, 2009, 01:08 PM »

Quote
most gals STILL do so those he-goats take it as a normal thing

Yo!  Grin
server34 (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #22 on: March 25, 2009, 01:16 PM »

If u enjoy having sex, there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. Look at it like killing two birds with one stone. U could even rise quickly to a managerial position in the organisation, while u continue enjoying sex and developing your bed skills.
honsule (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #23 on: March 25, 2009, 01:18 PM »

@poster.IF U FAINT DURING THE PERIOD OF ADVERSITY,YOUR STRENGTH IS LITTLE.BE A VIRTUOUS LADY.
rachiwise (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #24 on: March 25, 2009, 01:20 PM »

@ Topic

wat gives u the assurance that you will get the job after the sex??

You can ask ppl that have done it b4 , it doesnt worth it. even if u get the job there will be no rest of mind for you.

graduated 2006?no probs ,there r many good job offers out there ,just be patient o!

honsule (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #25 on: March 25, 2009, 01:25 PM »

Quote from: penfold on March 25, 2009, 12:36 PM
If the pay is not less than 180k per month, go ahead (seeing that you have no moral qualms about it anyway) but if the pay is less, its not worth it, wait for a better offer. At least if you are "prostituting" it should be worthwhile!!!!


Quote from: server34 on March 25, 2009, 01:16 PM
If u enjoy having sex, there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. Look at it like killing two birds with one stone. U could even rise quickly to a managerial position in the organisation, while u continue enjoying sex and developing your bed skills.


warped minds
dayokanu (m)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #26 on: March 25, 2009, 01:30 PM »

Have you considered that If you sleep with him and he says you are nt good enough in bed, Still n job for you.  Or better still you might be required to do it multiple times to secure and keep the job.

Also what makes you think if the men see a prettier lady who is better in bed, they wont fire you and give the position to her.

Maybe the only productivity required of you from the jobs is SEXUAL
dj limse
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #27 on: March 25, 2009, 01:32 PM »

dayokanu WHERE R U FROM, ARE U NWANKO KANU'S BROTHER ? Cool
Marymos
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #28 on: March 25, 2009, 01:34 PM »

I just imagine how many people those men have slept with?Maintain your stands.You have your integrity at stake.When your job comes,you will see the hand of God in it.
dj limse
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #29 on: March 25, 2009, 01:40 PM »

smoothg , GOING BY your NAME, ONE COULD SAY U HAVE A SMOOTH BODY,  WITH THIS, IF I WRE U I WOULDNT EXITATE DOING WHT EVER HE ASKED ME 2 DO,AFTER ALL ITS WONT LAST FOR LONG "USE WHT U GAT TO GET WHT U WANT", DJ LIMSE Wink
JJYOU
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #30 on: March 25, 2009, 01:57 PM »

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I am currently prospecting a job in two companies on the Island. Both bosses at the companies guaranteed giving me the job out of a combined 37 people that applied for same job in the two companies. I can't say i'm very pretty but similar demands have been made in almost all the places I've applied for jobs before and I always lost out because of not giving in. To make matters worse, these men are married and in their middle or late sixties (or thereabouts). Personally, I don't want to give in because the torment in my soul will be everlasting but, i've been jobless since graduation (2006). I'm at a crossroads. Thoughtful advice is needed from you.

Quote from: honsule on March 25, 2009, 01:25 PM

warped minds
say it again sir. warped minds indeed.
Quote from: adventure on March 25, 2009, 12:39 PM

FORGET ABOUT THAT, DRESS CODE OR NO DRESS CODE,  BABE GIRL LEAVE THOSE HE-GOAT MAKE THEM KILL THEMSELF,  GOD TIME IS THE BEST, WOW TO THEM,  GOD WILL JUDGE EVERY MAN.
thank you.  i cant believe  a lady was talking about dress code in the first place.  most naija old men are ugly pot belled evil men. they sleep with anything in skirts. this is normal thing i know in "moral" nigeria.

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Dear, I have respect for you. You are far better than someone's wife, who wedded barely three months ago and attended a crusade last weekend, only to be convicted by the Holy Spirit and she came back to her husband, who trusted her beyond measure to drop the bombshell, she had slept with three different men after her wedding without protection for an exchange of money, not even for a job. Ironically she is a prayer warrior, claims to be a christian and everyone sees her as one. She just finished her youth service. Ain't you better off?
as for the prayer warrior ashewo, God help us. that is made in nigeria christianity for you.  talk right and live wrong. thank God for the power of the Holy Spirit to still shake the hardest of sinners.  this are surely the last days
emiemi (f)
Re: Sex For Job (should I?)
« #31 on: March 25, 2009, 01:59 PM »

Maintain your integrity dear (although this can be very difficult especially when you see ladies (who you know) who aren't as smart as you living flamboyantly). Don't envy to be in their shoes because when those shoes start to pinch you wouldn't want to be in them then. Soon enough you'll get a job deservedly.

Good luck sis.
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