intimacy For Job (should I?)

If the job is a good one and the future is promising, then I think you should open your legs wide and think of your career prospects  

Temptation comes to all--even to Jesus when he walked the earth.  It is not a sin to be tempted, but it is sin if we yield to it.  And when money is tight and the pressure is on, most will weigh the matter back and forth in their minds until they come to grips what is more important--pleasing God and maintaing your integrity and dignity or sinning, dishonoring yourself, and selling yourself for money.

I hope and pray you realize that God is able to open a door for you the honorable way, and you will feel good about yourself when you land that job by trusting in God--rather than lying on your back for it.

Hello,
One big question: Are you looking for the fat pay jobs which those bastards fully know they can use to take advantage of the unemployed victim? If yes, then see this reason: start with somewhere small, acquire the experience then move on after a year or two.
Second question: Do you have more body that brains? (I mean are you really bright and intellectually fit for the job offer other than the luciousness of your body on which they think they can capitalize on). If yes is the answer, then you have to start your carrier with a medium profile company. I won't blame you for wanting to work in a place with good pay, but along with any progress in life, there is a problem (if not problems) attached.
Send an sms to 07028245318 and let's see if you can fit in an IT comapny based in Pedro, Palmgrove.
Good luck.

Trust me girl its something about you is making them ask for it, you might be the type of woman that believes flirting gets you everything or you might dress too provocatively (we know nigeria has plenty of limits when it comes to dressing!!) remember you are going to a job interview and not a hotel to meet a chief!!
at the same time you really shouldnt consider it, it might seem harmful but thats how it starts, before you know it youll be sleeping with men for every little thing you need!! i know time seem hard but you will get there!! take everything a day at a time gurl xx

SISTER, I THANK YOU FOR YOUR STRENGT! YOU MAY NOT BE A JOB OWNER, BUT YOU ARE A ROLE MODEL AND A HERO TO EVERY WOMAN IN YOUR SUITIATION. FOLLOW YOUR HEART, IT CAN NEVER LIE. HOW MUCH WILL THEY EVEN PAY YOU THAT WILL BE WORTH YOUR PRIDE AS A WOMAN. EVEN IF IT'S ONE MILLION DOLLARS IT'S WORTH NOTTHING COMPARED TO YOUR INTEGRITY!
THERE ARE MANY PPLE WHO HAVE VERY GOOD JOBS WITHOUT intimacy . THAT SHALL BE YOUR PORTION !

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@ Topic

Nawa 4 some men o,  some men go still knack winch wey go wowo them life all in the name of playing god

I don't agree that it's a man's world,and I'm as feminist as they come,but look at it this way. .  You're a strong independent woman doing all she can to get to the top. It's just intimacy,you give it up for free anyways so why not get something for it this one time ? intimacy is sooooooo overrated.

poor you gal but then, be still, the right job for you will definitely come your way. sure, you may be desperate for one considering the level of hardship in Nigeria today i guess but then, you may not earn the job after having intimacy with them. may God help us all, we are not innocent of such crime.

@ Agaba123
Tks 4 d compliments. isi na adim hot yaka mji na aza akaraoku, lol.Anyway,what are we in ds life for; if not to be our brother's keeper.Still waiting for OP to send me her cv as i've checked my inbox and she has'nt sent any.
Just hope this is no feasting??

at the point it is, its very complicating to advice whether u should give in or not cos what ever u end up doing, we will not know at the end? Morrally speaking it is wrong but factual speaking u are moving close to doing it than befor. u are saying since 2006 u finished school and u are at crossed roads. baby girl follow your mind, cos some people will take it as an abomination let alone nursing the thought to the point of getting to cross roads while others will assume what if it was for runs? nothing spoil. so follow your mind.

i don't believe you sleeping with those old ennuogh to be your father will give u job even though they are single can even give you job. You have to exercise patience and wait for your place of work; but "do you know His the Son Jesus Christ as your saviour? He is the number ONE guarrantee for saftey in Nigeria and all over the world.

i belive you jare my ph sister. fter all it is supposed to be more common in ph and u know its bad. she beeter learn from the wise

what is wrong with sleeping with a man old enough to be once father.
dint David the man next to God's heart, the apple of God's eye kill a man just to take his wife , who is way younger than him
dint Abraham whom God called his friend take in a girl young enough to be his grand daughter
dint Solomon the one and only man whom God loved so much to give all the wisdom surrounding his throne marry and still keep outside his home women young enough to be his daughters and old enough to be his mother.
yet God loved all of them.
the ways of God is not the ways of men and the thoughts of men are not the thoughts of God.
in the end all that matters is LOVE, and only one thing brings that.
COMFORT.

The morally correct answer should be an emphatic NO! But you give room for one to doubt your moral strength. Your concern seem to be their age and the fact that they are married.

Since those alone are your concern then; WHY NOT? Young ladies bang married-old-men all the time for "small" change

Nne O na imaro na I di oku ka akara oku? Lol. You are welcome. Jisie ike inu!
I wonder what is keeping her from sending her CV. may be she don chop the forbidden fruit and . . . .

we should not be thinking about those thing. why would a man ask some1 to sleep with him in other to get a job. think about this if it was our own child would u like her to do it. (answer ,  YES or NO. any way who ever that those that i pray to God to reward u in a BAD way.