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pinky lady (f)
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there are always obstacles to the way of success. I believe this is just a test of faith that will eventually lead to
your testimony if handled in a right way. please i beg of you hold your head up high and the result afterwords will be beyond
your imagination.
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newjay
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well it's all up to you and your conscience. But note that there isn't much difference morally between sex with a sixties man and sex with a young you ain't married to. weigh your options
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mikson (m)
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hmmm, pls dont, cos d job wont last, i assure u.
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Secretz (f)
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well it's all up to you and your conscience. But note that there isn't much difference morally between sex with a sixties man and sex with a young you ain't married to. weigh your options
 How can you even compare? This is a different situation! Well, the simple answer is NO! Because of a job? You maybe required to do more 'favours' later on down the line for a 'promotion' or even sacked for not doing other sexual favours! I believe this is a test of faith, from both the Devil and God. Are u not eating, sleeping, being clothed and sheltered? How will you explain yourself to your creator? There is a time for everything! But it seems to me u have made up your mind and your seeking approval! |
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Nobleman4l (m)
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Dont give in. You will surely get a job. contact me on 08028621243 so that we would talk more.
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Secretz (f)
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Dont give in. You will surely get a job. contact me on 08028621243 so that we would talk more.
Abeg!!! what for? so you can request favours from her too? Dont even call this one! |
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too_soon
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Abeg!!! what for? so you can request favours from her too? Dont even call this one!
na wah for naija women ohhhhh, na only dere boyfriend and pastor dem trust. Nobleman4l did not mention sex in his post, you have started crucifying him, den how will the applicant get a job? abeg make i go eat b4 dem begin ask me which one be my own. @poster, i am still waiting for the names abi you don start work for the place already!!!  |
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seedord247 (m)
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i will advice you to call the man and tell him you are HIV positive and see whether he would give you the job or not.
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Secretz (f)
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i will advice you to call the man and tell him you are HIV positive and see whether he would give you the job or not.
lmao EXACTLY!  |
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agabaI23 (m)
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i will advice you to call the man and tell him you are HIV positive and see whether he would give you the job or not.
You forgot that people living with HIV are still disciminated against in the workplace and during employment in Nigeria. That would be mean no job for her. Do not forget that the randy goat could ask to take her for a test. |
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joobreel (m)
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@poster
u f**k this men dont mean u ll get d job. If u get d job, be ready to f**k d job giver anytime he demands. My advice, check urself, pray fervently and be patient. All the best
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seedord247 (m)
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come to think of miss poster. are you a graduate or a passout since you cant secure a suitable job since 2006.
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Theblessed (f)
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Sorry, it doesn't surprise me. Though you did not mention which country these men come from but it can not be anywhere else but Nigeria, It's mainly in the third world, especially, Nigeria that women get this kind of abuse from these BASTARDS who abuse their positions. Too bad for single and married women in jobs in Nigeria and that's why many of them still kept their job if not, what else? You have to do LUNCH on a regular basis with these WRINCKLED OLD men (who are abusing young and married women) to keep your job. I can assure you these men are already dying of HiV/Aids themselves and want someone to take with them - pity their so called girlfriends and wives at home, what else can they do? . I don't blame them, blame politics and Nigerian culture generally. As I have always said, the culture is set out that way to CONTROL and use women as sex slaves. I bet, their own daughters, their wives, their mothers are women too. What goes round will surely come round for them. Lady, I understand your predicament but I can not offer any positive advice to you because desperation can make people do what they would not do under normal circumstances therefore, I suggest you do not do it. However, should you go ahead with the offer please, insist on wearing CONDOM and double one too because these men are already MAGNET FOR HiV/Aids. They have been sleeping around with so many dirty TARTS (who sleep around too)you can not even begin to imagine let alone count. Their wives, I am too sorry for!!!! Please, protect yourself if you choose to, because at the end of the day it's not only this one lunch they would expect from you - severals in order to oil the wheels of your employment and you can not say no to them in the end, you 'd ruin your young life but who is to be blamed? These old pigs have led their lives and you haven't, remember!!! Good luck with your job search! |
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Pepeye (f)
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That’s blackmail, you re worth more than some cheap sex
It’s obviously a generic way for him. . don’t give in to him
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agabaI23 (m)
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@Theblessed
It is done everywhere not only in Nigeria. Many women (not all) who have made it to the top slept their way through.
You sound like you have been a victim though. pele.
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Pepeye (f)
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But poster search yourself well. How do u present yourself to these men? Something must be wrong somewhere. . Some men are like predators, if they see u ve got nothing else to offer they take undue advantage of the situation unlike if a girl who knows her onions. . No one would make immediate pass at her
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SeanT21 (f)
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NOPE
Keep your interigrity in check.
A good name is better than gold
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Double N (m)
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Don't give in to any of them,when the time is right you will get your job.
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m9 by me (m)
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jabbok which kind of answer is that now, thats not nice oooo. if you ask me i'ld say you should keep your honey to yourself else you have made yourself a whore, shikena!!!
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server34 (m)
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Look where I am today. If not for sex, I wouldn't have this job, not even the position I command at the moment. I think you should go for it.
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felifeli
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Look where I am today. If not for sex, I wouldn't have this job, not even the position I command at the moment. I think you should go for it.
LOL . Where are you now ? Sorry I don't really want to know You don't have a homo boss do you ? |
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meldylove (f)
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My dear sister, it is quite unfortunate that many ladies have sold their dignity for the sake of jobs, money etc, hence ladies are seen as 'objects' that can be exploited; u don't need to belong to their class. Many ladies have got their job through decent ways, i just got one without any sexual harassment; just wait for God's time. Have u forgotten that God alone knows his plan 4 u, plan of good and not of evil- to give u your expected end. Also God says that the expectations of the righteous will not be cut Short, do u believe it? if u do, take those men to God in prayer and watch out for the result, For he that promises is faithful. Don't cheapen yourself, cos u'll live to regret it.
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factbox (f)
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lol, it is no more a news thet this kind of ungodly things are happenning in our society of today,because i once exprienced the same thing but your mind matters most in this case, because u may ask 4 advice after seeking several opinion u still go ahead to give in out of desperation,my dear it is not easy being jobless 4 years since only the shoe wearer knows best how hurtful it is.but personaly my sincere advice to u is that try and take your mind off that job it is not meant 4 u,god shall provide u with better one it is trial time 4 ufrom god because god is not an author of confusion pray more and fast more then wait unto the almighty and see what he can do.pls let us join hand and correct the malady from all these old hags giving conditions b4 offering jobs only god would judge.
pls dont give in to temptation,u shall get there. gbam
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Secretz (f)
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LOL . Where are you now ? Sorry I don't really want to know You don't have a homo boss do you ? YES!! I think he has! Look where I am today. If not for sex, I wouldn't have this job, not even the position I command at the moment. I think you should go for it.
God will soon take you down off your high horse!!! |
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spoilt (f)
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You should not have to exhange sex for a livelihood. Walk away.
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shileowo
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wooomen, hear as it sounds. no woman go tell u story about her new guyand end it with "we then had a lot of sex". all the women advicers on the this thread are not married and they are not virgin,yes that na true talk. lord have mercy
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kingzli (m)
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Lady, dont do it. Those guys probably told the other girls there the same thing. They are probably planning on using you and leaving you with nothing
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marmaduke
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Eyah! Sad Story!
Hang in there sha!
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bayonle1 (m)
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@poster
i understand how bad you must be feeling,that is just the reality of life and the randiness of some men.i strongly believe that your own job is waiting for you somewhere u havent been too,trust in the lord,he wud never make your goodness pass you by,remain steadfast.i wish you all the very best dearie
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