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okwanuzo3 (f)
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a friend of mine would like to know how to ask her boyfriend of 4 months for money. She's hinted a lot of times and doesn't seem to understand (or pretends not to). How can she do this without losing his respect?
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Memunah (f)
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well for me i don't like asking guys for money(if it gifts i can take it) but if your friend needs money from her guy she can simply ask him but it depends on the financial status of the guy and the level of the relationship but she can ask if she needs money.but for me i don't ask guy for money
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Dalby (m)
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Boy, are you guys from another planet, come to Port Harcourt girls are making requests from their so called "boyfriend" by their 2nd meeting after the "ok" answer to the relationship request. Its easier for the school girls, they just say they want to stay off campus, and she is sharing with her friends. Her father has given x amount and whats left is y, pretending not to be telling you directly. Some better still when you call them and ask why they have not been calling, that opens the door for you to contnually send credit. I am really surprised at your remarks 
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Yusufadeto (m)
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I don't it a bad idea, but it depends on the level of the relationship, i can't meet a girl first or second or third times and she came to ask for money from me, she will not have it because i will surely realise that this one, accept my proposal because of my money. So it depends on the level of the relationship and the thinking faculty of both partners
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kokoletz (m)
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Guys do ladies need to go to school before they can handle there guys oh gosh. Girl the power and the trick is inside of u, just study d guy weigh him at all level then strike that's all. Abeg o soji ara e.
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segun111 (m)
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@okwa,
It depends on the level of conversation for the past four months and what she needed the money for. If it was a genuine use of money say to help someone who is in need or helping her folks, yes by all means ask and she shall receive but then it depends on the level of conversation and who he is.
If it was me; I will evaluate how deep our conversation was such as: can she be trusted? And if our conversation was in the level of respect on both then I won't hesitate to give her what she wants. I hope that helps,
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kennyuche (m)
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Jst giv him a good f**k and he will giv u the whole world.
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segun111 (m)
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So sex is all the answer in the world, correct? Please get real,
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omofineboy (m)
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As for me the intent, purpose and relationship are very important, I have discovered that if youare too nice with your money, they term you to be 'mugun', if I have and my girl geniuely need the money for something rewarding I will give but mind you the mindset matters definitely if you are after my money Iam sure to the high heavens that you wont get it. Also a girl you claim to love mustnt ask before you give, if she is asking and not a gold digger then you are not caring.
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Dalby (m)
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If it was a genuine use of money say to help someone who is in need or helping her folks, yes by all means ask and she shall receive My brother i don't understand, who does not have a need. Even you giving the money hava some unsatisfied needs. I think that it should be treated on case basis. The only thing i would advise is for girls not to make themself lose all self esteem(appear cheap).
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kennyuche (m)
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Y must u probe her before givin, its either u dnt hav or no trust. If so, when she bcoms too demanding, place her on salary n make sure u get the best of her services(f**k). Women hav always bn seen as a liability to men. Take it or leave it.
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Busta (f)
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just ask him out straight. It's either he has or doesn't. He gives or doesn't.
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acidrop (f)
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i ask my boyfriend money the same way i ask my dad, but i have a job so its definatly not all the time, and in the same reverse method, they 2 ask me 4 money althought its mostly change
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Agartha
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i also agree with seun.as for me i find it hard to ask even my parents for money not to talk of a boyfriend. its not bad because it depends on the guy u r dating and strenght of the relationship.
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acidrop (f)
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y can't u ask ur parents 4 money, what that is like my weekly routine, i always have a shoping list, 4 my dad, not so much 4 my boyfriend though 
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iice (f)
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So did she now get the money?
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segun111 (m)
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After reading some of the post here I hope some of the guys here have sisters so they can relate to women rather that sex as the use for services. Anyway, I thought about one more thing and that is why is she contemplating asking him for money in the first place? Think about it!!!!
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iice (f)
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Maybe she has a problem? like she has to help her family, or a friend or maybe its for a good cause.
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segun111 (m)
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iice,
Thanks, you get my drift, it must be for a good cause and I will say yes ASK him,
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naija_diva (f)
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just ask him. that's it.
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O king (m)
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As for me the intent, purpose and relationship are very important, I have discovered that if youare too nice with your money, they term you to be 'mugun', if I have and my girl geniuely need the money for something rewarding I will give but mind you the mindset matters definitely if you are after my money Iam sure to the high heavens that you wont get it. Also a girl you claim to love mustnt ask before you give, if she is asking and not a gold digger then you are not caring.
omofineboy i agree with u completley.for me u said it all.i never give any girl my money except she ask with sincererity and not through innuendos(like giving the impression that "no money no show") or because she thinks she has seen a "mugu".
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afolayangs (m)
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just give him a call that u will like to tell him something then when you meet discuss the stuff with him and be sober so that he will do all things possible to get the money for you
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McDoe (m)
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I don't see anything wrong in making simple and affordable requests if there is love really. It's just that ladies have become so bare-faced, such that their requests sometimes potray lack of love. In other words, they do that with this notorious maxim of theirs, " use what u have to acquire what u want" at the back of their minds. It is this bad.
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lizzy 47 (f)
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@ Memunah &Agartha I'm in the same line with u guys, i completly agree with u guys.
@dalby not all PH girls are like that. stop being biased
@Kokoletz shebi my brother
@omofineboy it doesn't happen all the time ( i mean being called a mugu for being nice) besides u shouldn't allow negative things and people change u.
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