Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?

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spoilt (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #160 on: July 23, 2009, 05:06 AM »

Who said its exaggerated? Show me that person.
Childbirth is definitely the worst pain I have experienced and endured. It hurt. I thought i was going to pass out. I could feel the baby doing whatever it was doing in there trying to get out. It was the wierdest feeling of my life.  No position was comfortable. I sat, I stood, I walked, I crouched, I rolled.Labor left me incoherent and seeing things. I was just begging God to save me from this baby.
I was begging for that epidural like it was crack. I needed relief. Ive never begged for anything like that. As soon as i got it i felt instant relief. My panic subsided and i was calm. As soon as my baby came out I was crying more in relief than anything else. It was like I had been set free.

I was kind of traumatized. Physically i was ok. But mental recovery was a long time coming. A looooooooong time. Still havent done it again.  Undecided
sexyLeamon (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #161 on: July 23, 2009, 02:27 PM »

even more scare now Cheesy
mcgboye (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #162 on: July 23, 2009, 03:33 PM »

 ;d
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #163 on: October 28, 2009, 03:17 AM »

Quote from: sweetpie23 on July 21, 2009, 09:27 AM
childbirth is like going through a physical pain and experiencing an emotional joy afterward.


~And you would know because. . . . Undecided
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #164 on: October 28, 2009, 03:21 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on July 23, 2009, 05:06 AM
Who said its exaggerated? Show me that person.
Childbirth is definitely the worst pain I have experienced and endured. It hurt. I thought i was going to pass out. I could feel the baby doing whatever it was doing in there trying to get out. It was the wierdest feeling of my life.  No position was comfortable. I sat, I stood, I walked, I crouched, I rolled.Labor left me incoherent and seeing things. I was just begging God to save me from this baby.
 I was begging for that epidural like it was crack. I needed relief. Ive never begged for anything like that. As soon as i got it i felt instant relief. My panic subsided and i was calm. As soon as my baby came out I was crying more in relief than anything else. It was like I had been set free.

I was kind of traumatized. Physically i was ok. But mental recovery was a long time coming. A looooooooong time. Still havent done it again.  Undecided


~Me & You Both!! I'm ceratin i dont want to do it Again!! Yeah I'm that Selfish!! Grin
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #165 on: October 28, 2009, 04:39 AM »

Quote from: mohawkchic on October 28, 2009, 03:21 AM

~Me & You Both!! I'm ceratin i dont want to do it Again!! Yeah I'm that Selfish!! Grin

nah . .  .one more would be enough Tongue
sweetpie23
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #166 on: October 28, 2009, 11:38 AM »


Quote from: mohawkchic on October 28, 2009, 03:17 AM

~And you would know because. . . . Undecided

my mother tell me so.
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #167 on: October 28, 2009, 09:15 PM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on October 28, 2009, 04:39 AM
nah . .  .one more would be enough Tongue


~No Ta! Grin It's more a Lifestyle choice than the actual experience of giving Birth for me. . .

~I wudnt want to scare off any Wud-be-Mums Cheesy

mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #168 on: October 28, 2009, 09:17 PM »

Quote from: sweetpie23 on October 28, 2009, 11:38 AM
my mother tell me so.

~O! You'd forgive for thinking You might have actually experienced it! Grin
Fhemmmy
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #169 on: October 28, 2009, 10:26 PM »

Go into the labour room with a woman and let her hold your hands while in pain, and you can come back to answer the question
lexandra (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #170 on: October 29, 2009, 10:51 AM »

Sighs, deep breath, sighs again!!!

Now my fears are worse, I had this same fear as I was growing up in my early twenties, so I went to my mother and asked her, " mummy is true that child birth is sooooooooooooooo painful to the point of death?" She simply said NO, afterall she had seven of us, that if it was that painful, she would not have continued having children up to 7 and that if she still wanted more children, she would have continued, And my dad's mum( grandma) had 18 births, which is true, I actually remember this very well, Infact I  witnessed my only sister being born.

My dad was not in the country that year, so my fathers mum (grandma) came to stay with us because my mum was almost due, but we all slept in separate rooms. Then suddenly my mum called me and said her tommy is turnning her, u know ,  she complained of slight abdominal pains and rolled off her bed to the floor, my immediate elder brother and I sat by her side,  and in a few mins she said, Alexx pls. go and call grandma, now grandma was sleeping in the next room to ours in same flat, coming back in a few seconds, my only sister was already born and was crying,  right there by my mum alone, and  in the house. By this time my grandma was by her side and took over from there.

By day break she went to see her doctor in the hospital with the baby and still came came back with my sister that same day , she was adorable and sweet, I still recall.
My mum later told me that she was not due that day, but the baby just came, but still mother and child were  healthy and ok.

In a nut shell I believe it varies, and like in most cases , peoples situations are not always thesame, and before I wrap it up, an instance is menstrual pain or cramps, mine is excrutiating pain, it used to be so bad that there was a particular month I passed out, I just slumpped in the middle of the pain and felt peace, but I later  I woke up in the hospital. On somany occassions I was admitted, just for menstrual pain, it was that bad back then, to the extent that my family members took it upon them selves to also fast and pray about it, but still each month that came it got worse.

Then one day my dad said "GOD TAKE THIS PAIN OF MY LITTLE GIRL PLS, IF THERE'S NO WHERE TO THROW THIS PAIN, PLS. GIVE IT TO ME AS HER DAD, , AS A MAN I BELIEVE I'LL BE ABLE TO BEAR THE PAIN, MUCH MORE THAN HER" I can't forget this, am sure popsi has forgotten because so much time has rolled by, but to me its like yesterday. But my sister does not even know what this pain feels like, she does not feel the slightest of pain when she's on.  I believe same applies to childbirth. But with God all things are possible to them that believe, and at thesame time can do all things thru' Christ that strengthens me.
agathamari (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #171 on: October 29, 2009, 05:42 PM »

put it this way your squesing a cantelope out of a hole the size of a quarter.
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #172 on: October 29, 2009, 08:47 PM »

Quote from: agathamari on October 29, 2009, 05:42 PM
put it this way your squesing a cantelope out of a hole the size of a quarter.


~ Cheesy
agathamari (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #173 on: October 29, 2009, 10:36 PM »

go on youtube and watch some videos of people giving birth
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #174 on: October 30, 2009, 12:23 AM »

~I've got a mental pic of my personal experience. . lets just say Giving Birth isnt on my list of "Things-I-Will-Do-All-Over-Again"  Grin
sweetpie23
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #175 on: October 30, 2009, 01:34 PM »

Quote from: mohawkchic on October 28, 2009, 09:17 PM
~O! You'd forgive for thinking You might have actually experienced it! Grin

no Undecided
aysometin (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #176 on: October 30, 2009, 05:23 PM »

 i am scared to my bones  Undecided Undecided

Going to do some research on epidural straight up!!
Thumps up to everyone that has passed through it
queenesthr (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #177 on: October 30, 2009, 05:34 PM »

The first child birth is usually more painful than the subsequent ones.
But the pain disappears the moment the baby comes out.
Like another poster said, avoid CS if you can, it's worse than normal delivery.
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #178 on: October 30, 2009, 11:19 PM »

Quote from: queenesthr on October 30, 2009, 05:34 PM
The first child birth is usually more painful than the subsequent ones.
But the pain disappears the moment the baby comes out.
Like another poster said, avoid CS if you can, it's worse than normal delivery.

not every woman experiences that dear.
sandee575
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #179 on: November 06, 2009, 02:30 PM »

sexyLeamon, since you have been able to handle passing hard stool, the feeling is similar.
rokiatu (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #180 on: November 06, 2009, 02:32 PM »

Quote from: sandee575 on November 06, 2009, 02:30 PM
sexyLeamon, since you have been able to handle passing hard stool, the feeling is similar.
Rofl what a joke Grin
ayomidej (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #181 on: November 06, 2009, 02:40 PM »

To some its very painful and others just have it easy, whatever be the case just take it easy.
honeric01 (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #182 on: November 06, 2009, 03:57 PM »

Watch this video, this woman didn't even make any noise nor did she struggle. i think it depends on the individual.
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #183 on: November 10, 2009, 01:20 AM »

Quote from: honeric01 on November 06, 2009, 03:57 PM
Watch this video, this woman didn't even make any noise nor did she struggle. i think it depends on the individual.


true. childbirth is just of those things you cant actually describe to someone. i mean  like telling the person its the most painful or easiest thing in the world because its just a personal thing that one must experience themselves in order to know it.

so i'd say knowing whether childbirth is exaggerated or not means, you really have to experience it yourself because its just a personal thing
honeric01 (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #184 on: November 10, 2009, 01:02 PM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on November 10, 2009, 01:20 AM

true. childbirth is just of those things you cant actually describe to someone. i mean  like telling the person its the most painful or easiest thing in the world because its just a personal thing that one must experience themselves in order to know it.

so i'd say knowing whether childbirth is exaggerated or not means, you really have to experience it yourself because its just a personal thing

Exactly my point. some people can't tolerate pain while some can,  that's life.
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