Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?

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Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #96 on: April 01, 2009, 12:32 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 12:31 AM
for me child bearing is really felt in the last stages where u will be under certain diet & mayb the part of delivery but the other part might not seems so difficult to handle
We're talking about labor.

If you don't know what the thread is about, kindly take your leave,
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #97 on: April 01, 2009, 12:33 AM »

Quote from: tope2000 on April 01, 2009, 12:30 AM
u still here? when is your internet run outta money??

i seriously think he is looking for someone to pick up an argument with on such useless topic

so like you said, i will keep my peace Wink

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 12:32 AM
We're talking about labor.

If you don't know what the thread is about, kindly take your leave,

Ebony, no mind him. just keep your peace. he aint worth the extra time Wink
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #98 on: April 01, 2009, 12:36 AM »

I'm very peaceful, I just hate it when men try to bring women down.

Hmmm, maybe I'm kinda a feminist. Just a little  Cool Cool

@Sissy
You seem so knowledgeable when it comes to kids. . . .I know where I know my part from. . . .are you a mother, elder sister, or a student?

If you don't mind me asking  Wink
*Hauwa*
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #99 on: April 01, 2009, 12:39 AM »

given that no epidural in those days, i wonder how parents managed to rake 9 10, 11, 12 and more kids.  Undecided
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #100 on: April 01, 2009, 12:40 AM »

Quote from: *Hauwa* on April 01, 2009, 12:39 AM
given that no epidural in those days, i wonder how parents managed to rake 9 10, 11, 12 and more kids.  Undecided

Watch the first scene of Kunta Kente  Grin Grin
You'll see
tope2000 (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #101 on: April 01, 2009, 12:40 AM »

Quote from: *Hauwa* on April 01, 2009, 12:39 AM
given that no epidural in those days, i wonder how parents managed to rake 9 10, 11, 12 and more kids. Undecided


My sister took an epidural n she said she doesnt know the purpose cux it still hurts like hell. Undecided
sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #102 on: April 01, 2009, 12:44 AM »

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 12:32 AM
We're talking about labor.

If you don't know what the thread is about, kindly take your leave,


i guess u arent geting my pt. didnt u read where i said the painful part is the delivering part(labor). before getting 2 labor do u knw the pains u feel b4 & after. . the first labor is kind of painful but thereafter the pains arent felt much
sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #103 on: April 01, 2009, 12:45 AM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on April 01, 2009, 12:33 AM
i seriously think he is looking for someone to pick up an argument with on such useless topic

so like you said, i will keep my peace Wink

Ebony, no mind him. just keep your peace. he aint worth the extra time Wink
na u be the poster,  u supose de sleep now abi na aus u dey
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #104 on: April 01, 2009, 12:46 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 12:44 AM

i guess u arent geting my pt. didnt u read where i said the painful part is the delivering part(labor). before getting 2 labor do u knw the pains u feel b4 & after. . the first labor is kind of painful but thereafter the pains arent felt much

now you  r on topic!

so wot was that your ranting about eve eating and all that about them Undecided
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #105 on: April 01, 2009, 12:47 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 12:44 AM

i guess u arent geting my pt. didnt u read where i said the painful part is the delivering part(labor). before getting 2 labor do u knw the pains u feel b4 & after. . the first labor is kind of painful but thereafter the pains arent felt much
So where does the serpent and eve come into this?
You're trying to start the inferiority thing again, aren't you?

This should have been your first post to this thread.  Wink
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #106 on: April 01, 2009, 12:47 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 12:45 AM
na u be the poster,  u supose de sleep now abi na aus u dey

do u have sleeping pills, cox i cant seem to fall asleep, mister?

or better, come and tuck me in then?
factbox (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #107 on: April 01, 2009, 12:51 AM »

 Cool Cool Cool Cool
if it is worth the pain then who cares,even some virginity give pains more than childbirth since it has to be done like 3 to 4 times b4 the hymen eventually breaks off.so better be positive about  it, though i have never xprienced it b4 but so sure to cope when the time finally comes with God Almighty.ce finni.
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #108 on: April 01, 2009, 12:55 AM »

ROTFLMAO!!

SMH
sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #109 on: April 01, 2009, 12:57 AM »

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 12:47 AM
So where does the serpent and eve come into this?
You're trying to start the inferiority thing again, aren't you?

This should have been your first post to this thread.  Wink

i knw. but just wanted 2 chill my ass 2 the seat 2 conc on d topic proper,  its one reason y d whites dnt like much kids. but the blacks are strong to withstand such pains cos our immune is more boosted,
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #110 on: April 01, 2009, 12:57 AM »

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 12:36 AM
I'm very peaceful, I just hate it when men try to bring women down.

Hmmm, maybe I'm kinda a feminist. Just a little  Cool Cool

@Sissy
You seem so knowledgeable when it comes to kids. . . .I know where I know my part from. . . .are you a mother, elder sister, or a student?

If you don't mind me asking  Wink

sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #111 on: April 01, 2009, 01:01 AM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on April 01, 2009, 12:47 AM
do u have sleeping pills, cox i cant seem to fall asleep, mister?

or better, come and tuck me in then?

i get coffee&kola wit me,  mayb i go wire am electronicaly for u,
abeg i dey feel for una wey de go child birth, abeg make una take heart,  the part i hate is when the labour goes otherwise, i have lots of experience wit ladies that got operated cos the baby stuck during delivery
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #112 on: April 01, 2009, 01:03 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 01:01 AM
i get coffee&kola wit me,  mayb i go wire am electronicaly for u,
abeg i dey feel for una wey de go child birth, abeg make una take heart,  the part i hate is when the labour goes otherwise, i have lots of experience wit ladies that got operated cos the baby stuck during delivery

yes thats always the scariest part coz then it is do or die Embarrassed
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #113 on: April 01, 2009, 01:07 AM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on April 01, 2009, 12:57 AM
Ebony no vex oo, i didnt see your question b4 Embarrassed

okay, i'm three of those description you posted there Cheesy

elder sister, sister, and medical student, studying to be a pediatrician (almost finish yay) Cheesy Cheesy

again sorry, i didnt see your question Kiss Kiss

and you?
No wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!

OMG!! I loff you!!  Cheesy Cheesy

You just described me Cool Cool Not yet a Med Student, thoguh.

Girl, go for it and strive for the best  Wink

Do you go to the hospital ? That's what I love abt my school, we're allowed to shadow the nurses and docs.

No wonder!!  Wink
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #114 on: April 01, 2009, 01:10 AM »

Y
Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 12:57 AM
i knw. but just wanted 2 chill my ass 2 the seat 2 conc on d topic proper,  its one reason y d whites dnt like much kids. but the blacks are strong to withstand such pains cos our immune is more boosted,
Next time you come to a thread about women where you see women talking abt labor, watch what you say o Tongue
sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #115 on: April 01, 2009, 01:13 AM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on April 01, 2009, 01:03 AM
yes thats always the scariest part coz then it is do or die Embarrassed
i understand,  my wiffy wont undergoe such. i heard kids born thru operation arent much smart. but they still have to undergoe intensive care. sometimes u see the baby coming out with the wrong part maybe the legs first, such cases are very bad, thanx for the modern era where u get the facilities to treat any disorderliness and also provide sedatives for the woman on labor so the pains might not be much felt
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #116 on: April 01, 2009, 01:15 AM »

Once you do C-Sec, you do it for the rest of your babies also.

So no C-sec ppl  Cheesy
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #117 on: April 01, 2009, 01:20 AM »

Quote from: sley4life on April 01, 2009, 01:13 AM
i understand,  my wiffy wont undergoe such. i heard kids born thru operation arent much smart. but they still have to undergoe intensive care. sometimes u see the baby coming out with the wrong part maybe the legs first, such cases are very bad, thanx for the modern era where u get the facilities to treat any disorderliness and also provide sedatives for the woman on labor so the pains might not be much felt


who fed you with such pathetic lies?

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 01:15 AM
Once you do C-Sec, you do it for the rest of your babies also.

So no C-sec ppl  Cheesy

nah, due surgical technique today, vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC) is possible in many cases. In fact, 60 percent to 80 percent of women who try VBAC have a successful though it is not right for everyone but it is very much possible
Ebony-Silk
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #118 on: April 01, 2009, 01:24 AM »

Quote from: ~Sissy~ on April 01, 2009, 01:20 AM
who fed you with such pathetic lies?

nah, due surgical technique today, vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC) is possible in many cases. In fact, 60 percent to 80 percent of women who try VBAC have a successful though it is not right for everyone but it is very much possible
Would you go through with C-sec?
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #119 on: April 01, 2009, 01:26 AM »

Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 01:24 AM
Would you go through with C-sec?

thats not my first choice  Cheesy Cheesy but if complications arises i wouldn't give it a second thought
sley4life (m)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #120 on: April 01, 2009, 01:29 AM »

@sissy thats wat i heard. somtimes u dnt question those that brought such statements. babies i heard born thru operation goes thru alot.  its what ive heard long time ago but some might be lucky to come out sucessfuly & stil bcome smart like ones born thru d normal child labor process
hassymo5
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #121 on: April 01, 2009, 06:03 AM »

I work in a clinic, i have neva enter d labour room cos i'm a laboratory personel, but when a woman is in a labour room about to deliver her scream tells me she is in a serious pain. So its very painful my sister. That's the reality.
chaircover (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #122 on: April 01, 2009, 06:36 AM »



Quote from: Ebony-Silk on April 01, 2009, 01:15 AM
Once you do C-Sec, you do it for the rest of your babies also.

So no C-sec ppl Cheesy

Not always true you can have a c/section and go on to have a normal delivery. I think it depends on the reason for the first c-section


My first was an emergency C-Section after they found my babies cord wound tightly round his neck after 4 hours of labour. I had an epidural for this one and you are right the needles look like spears our fore fathers used to hunt with!

I was trying to be the martyr during this birth and wanted to feel some pain so I lied to the anaesthest, so everytime he asked me if I wanted a top up I would say no & I was just fine. Anyway this went on until they discovered my baby was in distress and had to operate immediately. Too bad for me as because I wasn't pain free enough they couldn't wait to top up the epidural so they rushed me straight into theatre and gave me a general anaesthetic to knock me out completely. . . . Serves me right. If I hadn't been messing about, I could have had my baby whilst wide awake.

My second was a normal delivery which was so quick we nearly didn't make it to hospital in time. The poor ambulance men had to stop twice on the way to hospital thinking I would have her in the ambulance. Labour was only 3 hours from the first niggly feeling to birth. She was born with no pain relief at all  - no time for all of that  Shocked
Em2va
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #123 on: April 01, 2009, 06:52 AM »

 :-x
BlueDiva (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #124 on: April 01, 2009, 07:24 AM »

It depends on ones ability to stand pain.
Personally, i can endure pain.
It wasn't that painful.
Again, i think local anesthesia would help.
7eleven
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #125 on: April 01, 2009, 07:37 AM »

the first time i was glad to be a man, was when I saw the pain women go thru during child birth-I was 9 at the time. Since then I've always respected (and pitied) the women folk. But I hear that the joy of seeing the child take all the pain away,  THAT'S THE STRENGHT OF A WOMAN!










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dellynash (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #126 on: April 01, 2009, 09:34 AM »

yes its the most most painful thing but once the baby comes the pain subsides.
emiemi (f)
Re: Is Childbirth Really The Most Painful Thing Or Is It Exaggerated?
« #127 on: April 01, 2009, 09:40 AM »

It's better undergone than have someone describe whether or not it is a painful process.

Then and only then can you grasp the true meaning of pain and joy just about the same

time.

Go on and have your SIX beautiful children!!!  Grin
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