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Eurphoria (f)
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girlie, my bed is calling i got to love you and leave you now, goodnite, the boys are back at your thread by the way they may need company  |
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Radiant (f)
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lol. . .  |
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kimba (m)
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Children are a gift from the Lord, only that this one is an unexpected gift.
Usually such things happen when girls can't say NO!!!
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mamaput (f)
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If the lady is telling the truth that means she did not know that he was married And he told her that his villagers will disown him. Mybe he is really a Nubian Prince and her baby is the first son. By the way are you people having fullmoon on your side of the Earth.?? I |
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choongtin (f)
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@ mamput what is the prove that she is white, i dnt believe it man she isnt white probablly sum black girl that is pregnat to some man living aboard she has got this nigerian mentality the way she talks because a real white girl wuld go bk to her country wuld get benefits and all man
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Radiant (f)
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I thought I was the only one.
She should come let me draw her the map of the man's village and show her the way to the man's house. let me hear anyone come on this site to say rubbish again. Nonsense!
Where's the woman? I ask again. Have you given birth?
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Eurphoria (f)
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hehe Rad easy ooo I agree with choo |
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Radiant (f)
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Eurpho, I'm sick of all this nonsense. And they all make it sound like Nigerian men are good for nothing. That's how the other freak who claims she's Oriental came up with her own rubbish. I don't blame them.
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Eurphoria (f)
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ROFLMAO Rad please please i beg you have pity on my skinny ribs please , oh my goodness we'll chat later ok lol
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Radiant (f)
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Ok Sweetie. |
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mamaput (f)
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Well if she is not white then ,
I too hate fakes like the wannabes rich people and dobble DR titles.
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Rad, you go! give it to them bo, their own too much, even draw her the map to my house and i will lead her by hands to the man's house,  |
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munai (f)
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What type of which chick writes english like that? Poor sentence construction and grammer.
I will keep replying to all postings that seem fake because really its not fair to waste nairaland member's time.
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munai (f)
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Let me rephrase my statement "What type of Which chick sounds like that?".
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Eurphoria (f)
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What type of which chick writes english like that? Poor sentence construction and grammer.
I will keep replying to all postings that seem fake because really its not fair to waste nairaland member's time.
MANY DO ACTUALLY . some don't even know how to speak english correctly take Jade Goodie from BB she is a white girl on telly who can't speak english so don't be surprised. |
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choongtin (f)
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yer they can't speak good english but when they write u can tell when a nigerian person is writting and when a white person is writting
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Radiant (f)
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between, miss "white" where you @? I got them map and directions ready. You changed your mind or som'n? lol
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Eurphoria (f)
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lol forget her, long gone, i said she has a bambino to care for, she don't have time for NL
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Radiant (f)
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She better be gone!  |
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Eurphoria (f)
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Rad leave this woman , lol
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Radiant (f)
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OK!  |
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fellybabe (f)
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poor girl,i feel for you
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beyunce (f)
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If he does not want anything to do with the child both fatherly and financially and your capable of raising the child on your own without needing help financially. you can do it on your own.
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BigSis (f)
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Bioye,
When a man insertsh is bare privates into a woman's vagina, ejaculates, without a condom, he gives his consent. He is fiancially responsible for that child. I would make him pay. He would not get away free. If he did not want a child, then he he should have taken the necessary percautions to prevent prenancy.
Yes I agree that this woman is too old to be so stupid. Like someone said Naija men often have multiple woman, with the consent of their families. He is lying.
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Leilah (f)
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Gemmie, please consider and weigh out your options, single parenthood is not easy.
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eezzy (f)
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Gemmie, please consider and weigh out your options, single parenthood is not easy.
So what are you suggesting Leilah, that she throw out the innocent inconvenience, ABEG!!! There are enough single mothers in the world for her to know that she is just adding to the statistics - but we all survivie and the children do grow up and move on with their own lives. I don't even know whether you are reading this thread anymore, but Gemmie, go ahead and have your child, she/he may bring you the greatest joy of your life and at 35, you are mature enought to handle the situation. God bless. |
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spoilt (f)
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@ poster Sorry you had to fall for a bum. Some nigerian men will travel abroad without the family and seek out the warm laps of other women to fight loneliness. They lie through their teeth to these women. Gets me mad i tell you!!!! Go ahead and have your child. We have single mothers who are like troopers and juggling raising a child with career. No mean feat i tell you. Right now meeting his family will do you no good. Most nigerian mothers really discourage their sons from " 'messing ' with those white girls" when they go abroad to study or work. This whole thing is too fresh. If anyone should spill the beans it is him. Its his job to tell his folk not yours. Should he provide upkeep for the child? absolutely! Should you take steps to make sure he does? of course. File for child support if you have to. Why a man will have unprotected sex and then think he has been trapped into fatherhood is beyond me and beats me hollow!  please even if he offers to marry you just run for your life because that would be making you wife number two. You don't want to get into that. Right now you should end the relationship if you havent already. He's a liar! |
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kattrina (f)
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I do not get some of the people responding to this post!! I mean the poster asked for information about naija culture and customs because her child's father is Nigerian, but there are some of you going on about whether or not she is white!! First of all she said Korea, that is Asia. Second how a person talks does not necessarily dictate one's ethnicity, for instance white people in hawaii speak horrible english; it is all hawaiian pidgin. Third white girls DO CARE ABOUT THEIR CHILD'S CULTURE!!!!
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Blackcat (f)
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Please this is not the first time a white girl will get pregnant for a Nigerian man or a married one for that matter. We have also had cases of white men impregnating Nigerian women and leaving the country without the girls or the children. Please, if the man wants nothing to do with the child, then thats his decision. Keep pictures, know the full names of the father, which tribe, state and L.G.A. The child will decide if he wants to find his father in future or not you just keep all the necessary information ready for when it is needed.
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adeboo (f)
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Please this is not the first time a white girl will get pregnant for a Nigerian man or a married one for that matter. We have also had cases of white men impregnating Nigerian women and leaving the country without the girls or the children. Please, if the man wants nothing to do with the child, then thats his decision. Keep pictures, know the full names of the father, which tribe, state and L.G.A. The child will decide if he wants to find his father in future or not you just keep all the necessary information ready for when it is needed.
Blaccat has hit the nail on the head. Although the topic was started a while ago all the advices are still relevant. Girl make sure u find out everything about him - cause the way he is sounding girl he is going to do a runner and u will not find it. There are so many mixed race kids or half nija kids walking around that don't know their dads cause they have run away. We know u don't need him but that child does for medical purposes etc. |
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