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Odeku (m)
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Do believe a man need more than one wife? In fairness to all the women out there, I don't think a man needs more than one wife. This are my opinion. Now what do you people think?
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layi (m)
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Not only in fairness to women but also to d men. Its a burden marryin more than 1 wife (even if u hav the money).
However as a man if u want to marry more than 1 wife, be selfless enough to allow your wife to marry as many husbands too. They are humans as well. You don't own her. She was made to help u not serve u.
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Odeku (m)
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Do you think a Nigerian or African man will allow his wife to <snip> marry another man? No way Oga.
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Scorpio (f)
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More women, more trouble
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nddy (m)
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i personally need more than a wife
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fabian (f)
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As you men say,
1 wife, 1 trouble
More wives, more trouble!
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nddy (m)
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men its one wife more trouble , more wife more competition for you
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Odeku (m)
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This is interesting to see what other people think of this issue. I personally think it's selfish for a man to have more than one wife. it's not fair to the kids and the 1st wife. some people see it as a way to fit among friends to display their wealth.
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kelvin (m)
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What's a man doing with more than one wife? Aint one wife already enough trouble...
Anyway if a man and a woman really love each other, then they should be able to do with each other Alone ....Forever
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layi (m)
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.................., then they should be able to do with each other Alone ....Forever
Tell them o. Nor be the same peppersoup another woman go give u? na just the way them serve am diff. Tell your wife too to change her serving methods. Peppersoup here isnt d literary meaning |
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fabian (f)
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So what kind of soup do ya mean?  |
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gentleone (f)
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@ layi, na real change her serving method i agree with you ooo  guys, more women, more trouble ooo so stick with your wife! |
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layi (m)
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@fabian
Read between the lines...how many dey there sef..ok read between d words.Well, Just read between something sha!
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michelin89 (f)
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in this though I'm atheist i completely agree with the bible: one man one woman!
this is not only a fairness to your companion but a peaceful way to live your life. Any one who has watched "games women play 2" will surely understand what I'm talking about! And also when a man and more women are involved it's worse because women are more competitive than men when it comes to love and they won't give peace neither to themselves nor to you
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NduGod (m)
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l don't think there is a reason why one man should marry more than one wife. call it selffish or wealth. to me it is ignorant. try to find out, and you would discover that those who marry more than one wife are not alway happy with there marriage.
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otokx (m)
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i don't think a man needs more than one wife, look at Adam the first man.
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Odeku (m)
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Adam and Eve were not married, Look at David, and Saul.
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razor (m)
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A man doesn't need more than one wife. What would he do with many that he cannot do with one. Beside, one wife, one trouble; two wives, two trouble;...............................................
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damygurl (f)
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seriouzly in my opinion that is one of d problem we got in Nigeria. when a guy who can't even feed himself go ahead and marry 3wives and they got 13kids. how is d child not gon start stealing? yall said it all not DAT we ladies r troublemakers but no lady want to be sharing her man with someon else. definitely not me!!!!! if a man got more Dan 1 wife no matter how much d ladieslike eachother there is still gon be competition and jealousy then they start hurting eachother. Most of d times d innocent kids r d one who get hurt d most.
I'm all 4 One Man!One Wife!!!!!!!
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layi (m)
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Adam and Eve were not married, Look at David, and Saul.
They were not married?  GOD bethroted Eve to Adam. What else is needed? ooops what is marriage then.? |
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Odeku (m)
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Layi she was his companion, LMAO
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layi (m)
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Just companion? And they had kids?
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Oracle (m)
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it depends on your belief
some people believe in having more than
1 wife while some think otherwise
but i personally would want one and only one wife
FOLLOWING RELIGIOUS DOCTRINES
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IAH (f)
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Put religion out of this and look at it from all other perspectives. You'll see that a man doesn't need more than one wife.
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angela k (f)
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Does it really matter if a man has more than one wife ? Because we all know that most likely he will have more than one girlfriend outside that will give the one wife at home heart ache!
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fabian (f)
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Not all men have girlfriends outside oh! Some do, not all.
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nana (f)
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No,i don't think so because,one woman is a problem not to talk of two or more women..........
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tamia (f)
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most of the time my guy friends come to me and they be like "can one have more than one wife in Africa?" n i tell them yeah! then they be like "dang that is where i want to be - in Africa"
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allonym
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sometimes, one woman isn't sufficient to meet a man's needs
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Scorpio (f)
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explain please
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Seun (m)
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Some men are used to having sex with a lot of women, and once established it's an addiction that's difficult to cure.
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allonym
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or the guy has a large drive but the wife only feels like it once a month. . . lotsa frustration there that isn't cured by knitting
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