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kokoletz (m)
Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« on: October 04, 2006, 11:27 AM »

Tade and Binta had been in relationship for 5yrs wit every passing day like paradise on earth. Tade works as a teacher in one private school with a meagre salary hoping to get a good job one day and propose marriage, while Binta works as secretary. Then the unfortunate happen when Binta called Tade and told him it was over why? Tade ask ' I am going for greener pasture. Tade unable to convince Binta fell sick and was taken to the hospital when his blood pressure was high. How can a man of 31yrs take love affair this serious was the question his family keep asking one another. Tade got out of d hospital putting evry thing behind him and move on wit his life. After few months Tade got a job with a big Consultancy company and his life changed. 2yrs later, one saturday morning Tade's phone rang hello a female voice said, who is am I speaking with please? Tade asked this is Binta on the line how may I help u then Binta start to narate how she was forced to marry an American base who already has a wife abroad and the man beat her freqently making her lose two pregnancy and how she decided to end the marriage. please Binta dnt call this number again was all Tade could say to hurt Binta but knowing at the back of her mind dt he still has feelings for her and would love to her for a wife but the problem is Tade's friend and family telling him dt Binta is another man's remnant. Now to the guys in the house can you marry another man's remnant.
Dvampire (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #1 on: October 04, 2006, 12:17 PM »

nice story. the point is a lady who puts me through such an emotional and health stress should not be given a 2nd chance. Angry
twinstaiye (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #2 on: October 04, 2006, 01:44 PM »

You did not told us whether the girl has gotten a child for the other man or not? In all, I don't see the reason why the guy could not marry the girl if he still love her and if the girl also loved him. The truth is, she has learnt her lesson and she wont do so again. Sure, I can marry another man's remnant, and in any case, every woman is another man's remnant so long as she is not a virgin.
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #3 on: October 04, 2006, 02:57 PM »

Really Binta had no child for her husband because she lost two pregnancy to the numerous beating she had as u can read from the story. Hmmmmm it wil take the grace of God for me to accept because what gives me d impression dt she is not coming back because of my money.
Dvampire (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #4 on: October 04, 2006, 03:07 PM »

she is just coming back because of the money QED
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #5 on: October 04, 2006, 04:05 PM »

Money dude ladies loves money
twinstaiye (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #6 on: October 04, 2006, 04:09 PM »

I don't think she is coming back because of your money, she is coming back because you are the one she trusted. I tell you, she has tried another man, she is damn too sure your option is the best. Tell me you don't love her, and I will understand, but for any other reasons, it is not suffice for you not to take her back. Having said this however, the ball is in your court, you are the one who had been in love with her, share the same joy and sorrow in the past, knows her dos and donts, and what she can do and not do, you are the best person to take the decisions, but if you need my candid opinion, i will say take her back because if she mean so much to you so much that when she left you, it landed you in hospital, then it will be difficult to fill her space in your heart.
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #7 on: October 04, 2006, 04:20 PM »

Twinstaiye really it did nt happen to me but if it did how do I find it in my mind to trust her again with her wit her not looking back on her action in the first place assuming I died would she had marry my dead body. Kai commot for there. gbam!
lauryn (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #8 on: October 04, 2006, 04:23 PM »

Everyone is a remnant
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #9 on: October 04, 2006, 05:05 PM »

I dnt blieve that, there are still virgins in our midst, though very few atleast I go try get one even if its going to take me 10yrs.
Dvampire (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #10 on: October 04, 2006, 05:42 PM »

@kokoletz: sometimes i get this weird feeling that you are a guy and not a babe as you have indicated on your profile
naijafan (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #11 on: October 04, 2006, 05:57 PM »

@lauryn
r u serious? so u've been nacked! was just about asking you out  Smiley
naijafan (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #12 on: October 04, 2006, 05:59 PM »

@dvampire
kokoletz is female. couldnt hav possibly been the man. except she's binta trying to get everyone to support her move baack to tade  Smiley
anon101 (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #13 on: October 04, 2006, 06:14 PM »

there is nothing like another mans reminant, thanks
naijafan (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #14 on: October 04, 2006, 06:33 PM »

@blacknbold
console yourself.
anon101 (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #15 on: October 04, 2006, 06:58 PM »

Hi naijafan, my bad i just cheked the spelling its actually spelt remnant,

and the definitions are as below according to my dictiona,
REMNANT
def.1 , Something left over; a remainder. -------- we are ladies or rather a lady not a remnet and definitely not something
def.2 , A piece of fabric remaining after the rest has been used or sold. , u definately agree with me we aint fabrics
def.3 ,  A surviving trace or vestige: a remnant of his past glory. , self explanantory
def,  4   A small surviving group of people. Often used in the plural.

AND SOME MORE DEFS, BELOW

rem‧nant  /ˈrɛmnənt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[rem-nuhnt] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation

–noun 1. a remaining, usually small part, quantity, number, or the like. 
2. a fragment or scrap. 
3. a small, unsold or unused piece of cloth, lace, etc., as at the end of a bolt. 
4. a trace; vestige: remnants of former greatness. 
–adjective 5. remaining; leftover. 


SO TO BUTRESS YOUR POINT THAT U ARE A REMANT CAN U PROVE IT TO ME, because I HAVE PROVED AM NOT, THANKS

HOPE TO HEAR FROM U SOON
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #16 on: October 04, 2006, 07:36 PM »

Guys am so sorry dt d sex column in my profile is showing female instead of male as this has been causing problem in da house I will correct this very soon please bear wit me because all my post where through my phone. I have loads of work outside my office dt didnt give me d time to go to browsing centre.
lauryn (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #17 on: October 04, 2006, 09:01 PM »

Quote from: naijafan on October 04, 2006, 05:57 PM
@lauryn
r u serious? so u've been nacked! was just about asking you out Smiley


 Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
Scorpio (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #18 on: October 04, 2006, 09:03 PM »

Quote from: naijafan on October 04, 2006, 05:57 PM
@lauryn
r u serious? so u've been nacked! was just about asking you out Smiley
hmm! c finish at it's best. this boi, no pass ya limit biko Cool
lauryn (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #19 on: October 04, 2006, 09:06 PM »

hehe Grin shots fired Grin Grin
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #20 on: October 04, 2006, 09:29 PM »

Lauryn please never there post mind u most of u will nt get married if we bent on not marrying another man's remnant.
lauryn (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #21 on: October 04, 2006, 09:30 PM »

Quote from: kokoletz on October 04, 2006, 09:29 PM
Lauryn please never there post mind u most of u will nt get married if we bent on not marrying another man's remnant.

translation, plz
Scorpio (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #22 on: October 04, 2006, 09:31 PM »

Quote from: kokoletz on October 04, 2006, 09:29 PM
Lauryn please never there post mind u most of u will nt get married if we bent on not marrying another man's remnant.
easy easy easy sis, shiiiieeet! firin shotz to innocent people like me
fayalitte
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #23 on: October 04, 2006, 09:37 PM »

no way i cnnot take a second hand material
kokoletz (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #24 on: October 04, 2006, 09:50 PM »

Sorry about the missing letters lol I mean never mind d post of those dt called u a second hand. We guys will never get married if we are all looking 4 new chases.
don jazzie (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #25 on: October 04, 2006, 10:31 PM »

Quote from: fayalitte on October 04, 2006, 09:37 PM
no way i cnnot take a second hand material

na today.
na u sef go rock tokunbo.till death do you apart.

@ topic
let the chic go.she's ain't worth it
Scorpio (f)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #26 on: October 05, 2006, 03:08 AM »

@ don jazzie,,Yesu! na person get alla that Grin Cheesy
segun111 (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #27 on: October 05, 2006, 03:46 AM »

@koko, why do you call that case another man's remnant? As a lady you should know better, love is all about caring for someone without any time limit, therefore, as a lady you should be able to sympathize to her saga.

Yes, she went abroad to marry someone for one reason or another but when she called him on the phone it was the love that both shared that makes her call and no matter how you people feel she couldn't help herself but to face her past her love. Also, do you know what it takes for her to call him and confront him with her problems? It took a lot of gut!

Yes, I will marry her because of what they feel for each other and if he still loves her then he has the best wishes any man can go through. Now back to your title "remnant," meaning used good or unwanted good; but who told you that she is a used good or unwanted lady?

Sorry, I just hate the way we use words for ladies because I have a sister and if she was in this situation I won't want anyone to call her a remnant,  I hope I didn't offend anyone. Just my thoughts.
naijafan (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #28 on: October 05, 2006, 11:05 AM »

Quote from: blacknbold on October 04, 2006, 06:58 PM

def.1 , Something left over; a remainder. -------- we are ladies or rather a lady not a remnet and definitely not something


you're missing the point!
naijafan (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #29 on: October 05, 2006, 11:06 AM »

Quote from: lauryn on October 04, 2006, 09:06 PM
hehe Grin shots fired Grin Grin

@lauryn
didnt see any
don jazzie (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #30 on: October 05, 2006, 11:33 AM »

Quote from: Scorpio on October 05, 2006, 03:08 AM
@ don jazzie,,Yesu! na person get alla that Grin Cheesy

u say?
tukur2002n (m)
Re: Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?
« #31 on: October 05, 2006, 12:52 PM »

@ topic

Forget it she no worth am . my response is not because she is tokunboh or chassis, but lets both look at the issue critically she claimed to be forced on an American based man abi, did the American man put gun on her head and ask her to call tade and throw in the towel without even thinking about the consequence ahhh!!!  Huh Huh.

bros she no get heart and Na ruin she come back to do to Ur life let her just go and find Ur missing Ribs somewhere else OK.
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