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luvchild (f)
Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« on: October 05, 2006, 08:03 PM »

I recently run into a few Nigerians who look down on those without college level education. I was  talking to this guy just a few minutes ago, he called these people without education low lives without humility, integrity, drive in life is low and their jobs and life stink.  He said he would never marry a woman without education or upper level status is what he called it. That he rather stick with his class of women. I was floored and took me a while to get over that shock he caused me.  I was, hurt in a way because I only have high school education. My question is why is it I am finding this more in the Nigerian culture than mine? Why do they  think that college education puts them above others? Would you marry anyone without college level education?  I heard that money changes people but I would have thought Nigerians would be the last to be changed by this they seem so caring for people.
Free (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #1 on: October 13, 2006, 01:57 AM »

maybe i would
maybe i wont Undecided
ama1117 (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #2 on: October 18, 2006, 02:02 PM »

well i might not. but it all depends on the level of love  u have for each other. Cheesy
ama1117 (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #3 on: October 18, 2006, 02:03 PM »

well i might not. but it all depends on the level of love  u have for each other. Cheesy
jammin (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #4 on: October 19, 2006, 03:01 PM »

The people who build the US and possibly most of Eurpope were'nt in the most part, college educated. However we can easily see their genius, as it is reflected in their standard of living and their country's developement. Remember "Education" is not intelligence,  it is merely an opportunity taken. Show me the state of a man's house and you'll be showing me his 'smarts'. Never feel intimidated nor insecure by the behaviour of egotistical jackasses.

i do hope you catch my implicit message.
osegwu (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #5 on: October 21, 2006, 01:01 PM »

Jammin you are right, after all Bill Gate is a drop out
see what he is today. well as for me the lady i have
decided to marry is not educated, no not in the least
but she is very industrious and that is one that most
so called educated ladies are not. I have masters degree
and so have seen different size and shapes of the
educated ones and believe me they are not worth the shit.                           
please, pardon me, some of them. atleast some are cool if you know what i mean.
carpenter (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #6 on: December 20, 2006, 07:19 PM »

Being educated goes beyond attending some grad school. For me once a partner shows some form of literacy and we can relate very well, then i am ok

Godbless Nigeria!
angelz
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #7 on: December 20, 2006, 07:34 PM »

Educatn is good. It easy 2 claim nt 2 av any qualms wit marry sm1 wit colege educatn, bt when such ones make sm minor blunder we wnt hesitat 2 relate that 2 dia educatnal level. It beta u marry one wit a beta educatn, bt smtims u c sm1 wit a basic educatn wu is more knowledgeabl n smart dan an 'educatd' felow. Jus chose ur love.
angelz
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #8 on: December 20, 2006, 07:36 PM »

Educatn is good. It easy 2 claim nt 2 av any qualms wit marry sm1 wit colege educatn, bt when such ones make sm minor blunder we wnt hesitat 2 relate that 2 dia educatnal level. It beta u marry one wit a beta educatn, bt smtims u c sm1 wit a basic educatn wu is more knowledgeabl n smart dan an 'educatd' felow. Jus chose ur love.
angelz
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #9 on: December 20, 2006, 07:37 PM »

Educatn is good. It easy 2 claim nt 2 av any qualms wit marry sm1 wit colege educatn, bt when such ones make sm minor blunder we wnt hesitat 2 relate that 2 dia educatnal level. It beta u marry one wit a beta educatn, bt smtims u c sm1 wit a basic educatn wu is more knowledgeabl n smart dan an 'educatd' felow. Jus chose ur love.
Busta (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #10 on: December 20, 2006, 07:43 PM »

education is good but no college and he's rich. . i'm game! Grin
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #11 on: December 20, 2006, 07:44 PM »

We all know your pre-requisite of money money money Busta!  Tongue
Busta (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #12 on: December 20, 2006, 07:46 PM »

Quote from: JosBoy4Lif on December 20, 2006, 07:44 PM
We all know your pre-requisite of money money money Busta! Tongue
yes oh, can't blame me.
sufferhead and poverty is a disease.
carpenter (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #13 on: December 20, 2006, 07:49 PM »

Well, I agree sometimes we do have issues and one might be tempted to say some stuff that might make the other party feel bad about the fact that they didnt get enough education. but the truth is that we should be immune to the opinons of others.
mukina2 (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #14 on: December 20, 2006, 07:52 PM »

Quote from: Free on October 13, 2006, 01:57 AM
maybe i would
maybe i wont Undecided


maybe i would if he's  Lips sealed
maybe i wont if he's a  Lips sealed
ima1 (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #15 on: December 20, 2006, 09:17 PM »

okay this is all from the guy's point of view, if i was a guy i would marry someone who isn't as educated as me, but then i am a woman and education is important to me, i am working on my master's degree and i am determined not to date anyone that isn't in my level educationally, because someone has gotta work to bring money in, and without education in nigeria, except if you are from a rich family it would really suck for you. well some guy i use to date was all sweet but he hasn't done anything with his life since he graduated from high school in 1998, he says college is not for him and even made references to bill gates, and i am like atleast bill gates tried to make something of his life.

so girls please answer this, WOULD YOU MARRY A GUY WHO ISN'T EDUCATED
My parents wouldn't even let me do that. it would be easy for a guy but for a woman, i really can't think of it happening, call me shallow but education is really important.
jammin (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #16 on: December 20, 2006, 09:51 PM »

Education is only as important as the society you live in. Lots of American and Brits don't have a uni degree yet they hire people and "Lord "it over people who does.
Having an Education is a fairly decent guarantee of a life that is above mendicancy and homelessness. This however, is true if you live in a society that have a productive capacity to accommodate your skills. There are countries where Masters degree holders are going to their bed hungry because of lack of opportunity.
While on the other hand High school dropouts in a different society is making more money than some Masters Degree holders will see in a lifetime.
So the question now become, is it the learning i am looking for in a partner? or the ability to sustain a quality of life where finances become a non issue?
edmondo (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #17 on: December 21, 2006, 05:34 AM »

@jammin,
i think i agree wit u bt education is very important in this 21st century.
i u re educated,men i pity u
MyPeace (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #18 on: December 21, 2006, 08:47 AM »

Education is very important.  I once dated a guy after my secondary edu, while i went back to school, he was busy trying one biz or the other, which never worked out.  After my college edu, am now employed and he is still FLOATING.  I had since quiet the relationship.

Education is very important especially in nigeria society these days, alteast it gives you an edge. 


Even their thinking mentality is so annoying.
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #19 on: December 22, 2006, 12:18 AM »

Why do we always gotta play the "ethnic" card  Cry Cry
Honey_pot (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #20 on: December 22, 2006, 02:26 AM »

Jammin, u are quite constructive in your arguments.

Education is very relative. It can be formal or informal, so most people become 'educated' at the end of the day. It appears formal education can even be counter productive, i've seen graduates whose levels of literacy beg the question, and those people though saddled with loads of certificate are not educated in my opinion.

I'm not so keen on paper qualification, i can go for an intelligent  girl (not necessarily educated) who has got ideas on how to manage a home. She will still have the willingness to improve her qualifications in the future. I met a nigerian girl who couldn't write simple sentences but was doing her postgraduate diploma in one of the colleges in London. I kept wondering how she coped with her undergrad and high school. I'll rather go for a high school grad than for such uneducated graduates.

''Educated' nigerian girls are more likely to shop around for graduate hubbies, simply to fulfil their parents' unchecked desire for a lawyer, doctor, engineer, ,  as son-inlaw
MyPeace (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #21 on: December 22, 2006, 08:24 AM »

@ Honey Pot

Story story story.

Once upon a time, time, time.

ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #22 on: December 22, 2006, 12:44 PM »

hhhhmmmm Undecided
jammin (m)
Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education?
« #23 on: December 22, 2006, 02:33 PM »

I was playing devils advocate Tongue
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