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Chinie (f)
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i want u guys to advise me-my boyfriend just broke up with me because i refused to have sex with him.do u guys think that i should give in to the next guy i'm going to have a relationship with?i'm confused here
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EbonymanUK
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@chinie
What was your reason for not having sex withyour ex boyfriend
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needeeg (m)
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well, for me gurl if this ur guy is nice to and start talking about sex which ur not ready for it is better u guys should set and talk to each other as maturity, not that u want to give to another which is bad for me oooooo, relatioship goes with this sometimes!!
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Chinie (f)
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call me old-fashioned but i still believe in waiting till i'm married.
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EbonymanUK
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@Chinie
So if thats the case why do u want to give in to the new guy you have a relationship with
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needeeg (m)
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@Chinie
So if thats the case why do u want to give in to the new guy you have a relationship with
abi oooo!! since ur talking about till u married, so don't think of giving another boo boo!! |
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Oracle (m)
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Chinie, if you can, wait till the right time
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dominobaby (f)
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Hi chinie, i guess you should define the purpose for which you 'decided' to wait till marriage. You know, when purpose is not defined, cause is inevitable! You refused to give in to the first guy, but now you are thinking otherwise, think deep, if you find the reason for which you want to keep yourself till marriage, stick to it and don't let any pressure in. My advise to you is to not give in! please,
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sstar (f)
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hi chinie,i think u kind of contradicted yourself.buh i'ld say u should juss follow your instincts n hold on to your beliefs.
All d best,
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sammyjl (f)
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Hi chinie, i guess you should define the purpose for which you 'decided' to wait till marriage. You know, when purpose is not defined, cause is inevitable! You refused to give in to the first guy, but now you are thinking otherwise, think deep, if you find the reason for which you want to keep yourself till marriage, stick to it and don't let any pressure in. My advise to you is to not give in! Please,
I agree wait till u are really sure and make your first time really special especially to yourself. because once its gone, its gone!! |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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i really admire you for not giving in.don't mind him it just goes to show that he dosen't love you but was there to get in b/w your legs  .and please stick with your plan not to giving in.and God would surely see you through.  |
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Frgy
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Givin in wont solve ur problems.look at it like this:its nt ment 2 be.cus if he is d right guy nd it was ment 2 be he'l know that it is a BIG PLUS 4 a matured girl 2 intact in this 21st century.if me see that kind girl,wey correct, omo i go die dia ni o.no rush girl. (hiss)sumtin wey go taya u later.2 TUMBS UP!
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twinkledew (f)
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If you've waited this long and you are trying to loose your virginity all because your last boyfriend dump you means you are not motivated enough to wait till u get married.
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fredie (f)
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I don't advise that you give in. sis, you are not alone. in lost ended a relationship for the same reason because i knew that my body is the temple of the Holu Ghost. Though it was tough for me but I survived it. You are not missing anything by refusing to have sex with. The things you are missing are STDs, abortions, heartbreak and shame. If he insists, chuck him out. Be strong sis, you are not alone.
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ugodaniel (m)
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He's your boyfriend and you're refusing him sex, so if i may ask, what are yu peeps relating about?  |
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tuburu (m)
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Sex is important in a relationship.I am not a puritan,everyone has his or her weaknesses.I believe the next person that tells u not to give in hsa had a roll in the hay several times.So,if he is still available go back to him and apologise.At least there are safe ways of having sex and who cares about marrying a virgin these days.
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Sharn06
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@tuburu. who cares about marrying a virgin? true but being a virgin till wedding night gives a lady more dignity in the sight of her husband. i'm sure you know that. my feel is that you stick you brick, go on cold turkey - keep being celibate. it's just for a matter of time.
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Love J (f)
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I agreed with u for not letting him to have sex with u because if u get pregnant he is going to deny u. I don't think U should even have sex with a guy no matter what he tells u but just be yourself and don't let them to deceive u. U can still go in for another guy if u want to but u have to decide what kind of thing u have to do with him only before accepting any relationship
be careful
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fashigiggs (m)
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@chinie, i envy ur courage its good to keep it till then but this days we hav 1 out of every 10 man who is expecting such. If u hav to keep it and hav another u must put so many things into consideration. Is he thd right person, am i in a true LOVE relationship, is this a temporary affaire, am i looking for a future partner now etc, If u hav agreed to hav sex now must always use a CD with this u are 99% safe. If at the end of the day u need more advice just mail me direct with d subject @chinie exponencial2002@yahoo.Com |
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