'True Love' Versus Campatibility And Understanding

don't really understand what you mean by exhibiting true love?being compactible sexually is one of the major pointers in keeping a relationship,in other words if you are happy making love to your partner then you will happy to love them and be with them for the rest of your life

love is a subjective term.

"LOVE" is only a word. What matters is the connection the word implies.

@ Seun

That's true, in this life love is all about been compactible with your partner and also understanding.

APART FROM COMPATIBILITY AND UNDERSTANDING, ANOTHER THING THAT MATTERS SO MUCH IN A RELATIONSHIP IS TRUST. IF BOTH THERE CAN BE TRUST, GUSHHHHH YOU GAT NO PROBLEMS WHATSOEVER. BUT WHO CAN BE TRUSTED THESE DAYZ? YOU ARE THERE THINKING YOUR GIRL IS FAITHFUL AND SHE'S THERE SCREEWING ANOTHER GUY(S) WHAT A SHAME,

lmao, there's nothing like true love or fake love. Love, as a term, is relative and should be defined subject to the underlying issues, whether understanding, compatibility, comfortability, perseverance, and the lots

This is a good one! First of all, i think true love does exist. But it comes with time. compatibility and understanding will definitely help the love to grow between two people and make things easier. I have known two people who loved each other dearly but could not be together at the end of the day because they were not compatible so they remained best friends.

For two people to be married, love alone can't save them, they have to be compatible as well.

Spot on

i agree with Seun,they all co-exist,but the word TRUST got to be there.i strongly believe that true Love encompasses all these and much more.

Adekan has a good spirit.

Love does not make a relationship.  I quite a relationshp from a guy i love so much, he couldnt believe it. Compartibility, understanding and trust matters most, love is interwoven with the three anyway.

Presently, my best friend is finding it so hard to quit a relationship that is engulfed wit disputes. sometimes i pity him because he seem trapped in love. So for me love stands distinctly from understanding, compartibility, trust and the rest if 'em; they only determine whether a love will go sore or grow stronger,  A book 'opposites attracts' by Tim La'haye explains better. 

@falcipawhatever,  is like there is no guy out there that is ready to love and share. i don hold my self any way

Well it's amazing how this topic has gain a lots of popularity and well meaning and interested men and women has expressed their views in this very matter in the past. And i must confess that am most delighted to opine my views, well before now i have atticulated the minds of some folks on this same issue and i consulted some authors too still was not satisfied with the responds reasons being that they all spoke well and intelligently though i must say but it was from their individual piont of view hence was not absolute. Still with a currious mind i decided to ask the all knowing , God and He referred me to His word the Bible, (the manual for man). When i was done i realize that  the popular saying that "you don't give what you don't have" is indeed true which means like what Adekan said it takes God's to be able to 1st love yourself and then some else. Now the joker here is How much do YOU love yourself? will determine how much you can love someone else and when one does not have God inside, he can only love based on conditionalities. Mind you the subject LOVE is different from relationship and friendship. Compatibility and understanding are just the ingredience of friendship, permit me to expain in a second these varrious terms, and how they are related, Love is God as simple as that so outside God what u have could perhaps be reciprocations of mere feeling which could be inspired by lost, infatuation, hormones yes hormones b'because it's this biological component that''s responsible for homesuxuality coupled with evil spirits. And others conditions like facial look, talents and material aquisations (money). Friendship is God's gift to us so we can co relate and co inhabit  and the beauty of friendship is that is based on Respect, the Joy of friendship is that based on Trust while the Strenght of friendship is that is based on LOVE. This is what it takes for two to be in relationship and the relation between them is friendship which they share in common just as the relation between you and your biological maternal parent is that she is your mother. In other words relationship simply means to be related,  two folks or more having something in common in a ship,  And haven given a clear picture of these terms you can now deduce that any friendship or relationship without God (Love) is weak (strenghtless) hence can't stand the test of time or doesn't end well. And if u don't have it then u can't give it to someone else as simple as A.B.C, on this note i rest my case.