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Igwe.
How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« on: April 26, 2009, 02:50 PM »

Hey guys!
How can we overcome loneliness when we have our life partner  living in another city or country?
Smiley
whitesturd (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #1 on: April 26, 2009, 04:16 PM »

simple.u ve 2 alternatives.1)start readin your bible as u wud be led by the holy spirit not to do anything funny and keep ursef.
2)start phockin all da girls startin 4rm your area.by d time your gifrfriend is back,i promise u,your name wd ve entered guiness book of records.the choice is urs.i pray u pick well
IFELEKE (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #2 on: April 26, 2009, 04:39 PM »

Occupy yourself/Time in meaningful activities, Lonliness is a function of Idleness and an Idle mind is the devil's workshop.
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #3 on: April 26, 2009, 05:23 PM »

Quote from: whitesturd on April 26, 2009, 04:16 PM
simple.u ve 2 alternatives.1)start readin your bible as u wud be led by the holy spirit not to do anything funny and keep ursef.
2)start phockin all da girls startin 4rm your area.by d time your gifrfriend is back,i promise u,your name wd ve entered guiness book of records.the choice is urs.i pray u pick well
Huh
Are you talking from experience?

@IFELEKE
I heard that ''all work without play makes jack a dull boy''. . . . . . . how do we strike a balance?
thank you Smiley Smiley Smiley
whitesturd (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #4 on: April 26, 2009, 05:30 PM »

so which one are u picking?
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #5 on: April 26, 2009, 05:36 PM »

As a christian or Muslim ?
IFELEKE (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #6 on: April 26, 2009, 05:43 PM »

Quote from: Igwe. on April 26, 2009, 05:23 PM

@IFELEKE
I heard that ''all work without play makes jack a dull boy''. . . . . . . how do we strike a balance?
thank you Smiley Smiley Smiley
Sure all work no play makes jack a dull boy but there are many ways to play aside towing the way of infidelity and am sure you know that.
lady bam (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #7 on: April 26, 2009, 05:46 PM »

Quote from: Igwe. on April 26, 2009, 02:50 PM
Hey guys!
How can we overcome loneliness when we have our life partner  living in another city or country?
Smiley

my bf is far far away. but i'm learning to deal wid it
i dont no now, but so so
whitesturd (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #8 on: April 26, 2009, 05:50 PM »

Igwe,As xtian,muslim,WHATEVER
Mai Suya (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #9 on: April 26, 2009, 05:51 PM »

kai! its not easy, gaskiya! As for me, I dey kano, my babe dey Lag. . . . sometimes temptation can be verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry strong. . . .  Embarrassed Embarrassed

Lord lead me not into temptation!
whitesturd (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #10 on: April 26, 2009, 05:53 PM »

lady bam.dnt worry.God wld help u in dealing with it.it is well
y me (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #11 on: April 26, 2009, 05:54 PM »

amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #12 on: April 26, 2009, 05:57 PM »

Is no easy ooooooo!  . I wish Chelsea and Man u  go dey get match every time. Cry Cry Grin Grin
Czarskit (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #13 on: April 26, 2009, 06:52 PM »

~ Movies, Music, Books, Hanging Out with friends, Marijuana, Cocaine, Alcohol & a lot of Sleep ~
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #14 on: April 26, 2009, 07:39 PM »

I'm back, men! e no easy oooooh. thank God tomorrow is monday Smiley Smiley Smiley

Getting used to new life!!!!!!!!! Grin Grin
kiethatela
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #15 on: June 24, 2009, 08:51 AM »

Divert your self to some other productive activities. Don't just sit down and relax, keep your mind busy and keep going. Loneliness will invisibly cease. Be positive. I also read some articles that helped me overcome my loneliness,  You can try this one out, maybe this might help you too. http://www.solutionbay.org/problems/loneliness , God Bless!
izeek (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #16 on: June 24, 2009, 08:55 AM »

Quote from: Czarskit on April 26, 2009, 06:52 PM
~ Movies, Music, Books, Hanging Out with friends, Marijuana, Cocaine, Alcohol & a lot of Sleep ~

like they compare to the real deal.

men i look forward to weekends like hell.
sometimes self this work dey vexperson.lol
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #17 on: June 24, 2009, 10:59 AM »

I'm missing you dearly, my sweetest of them sweeties Cry Cry
xynerio (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #18 on: June 24, 2009, 11:46 AM »

If u are workin u cannot do anything stupid at work abi u dey jobless. When u reach house watch some cartoons then do some exercise before u know it night don reach read your bible u go from there dose off. Note: dont watch romantic movies cos u will end up sexin u neighbour.
whitelexi (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #19 on: June 24, 2009, 11:54 AM »

A woman's place is by her husband side, what r u doing languishing in loneliness?
izeek (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #20 on: June 24, 2009, 11:59 AM »

Quote from: xynerio on June 24, 2009, 11:46 AM
If u are workin u cannot do anything stupid at work abi u dey jobless. When u reach house watch some cartoons then do some exercise before u know it night don reach read your bible u go from there dose off. Note: dont watch romantic movies cos u will end up sexin u neighbour.

 seriously where did u grow up, cos i know how enviroment can affect a man's upbringing.
luxoire (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #21 on: June 24, 2009, 12:03 PM »

NL
friends
games
books
music

these kept me occupied when he was away on business for a while - lol - yes the madness on NL kept me laughing and typing eveyr evening after work till me bed time
tmontana (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #22 on: June 24, 2009, 03:11 PM »

Get yourself a PES3 and stop whining,
obuekwe (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #23 on: June 24, 2009, 03:47 PM »

u can overcome loneliness in a lotta ways,remove yo mind from anything sexual,make your mind blank and blind to sex and lust,theres a feeling u can derives from keeping your body to yo partner a special kind of joy, untill she walks into your life again from wherever she been to, instead focus your mind on pure friendship and meditates on your future and obligation as a living beign, asalemaleku,
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #24 on: June 29, 2009, 07:47 PM »

wow!  . . . . .Atimes when in a midst of dem beautiful chicks, it feels like grabbing one of them by the waist or kinda hugging and kissing thing,  Undecided

You know what I mean? stepping down the car all alone, Sad
Feeling like talking to somebody at night. Sad

Now what do say about this?  Waking up in the morning without her by your side. Sad

You wanna know more?
OOOOOOOOh! Seeing dem couples hugging and holding themselves in your presence, now holding the next sisi by your side won't be a bad idea, but  Nope! the more you think of it , the more her memories hunt you and you began to feel guilty of the crime you 've not yet committed. Cheesy

hmm! Funny how love can be!  : Cry Smiley
coolfaced8 (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #25 on: June 29, 2009, 10:00 PM »

Quote from: Igwe. on June 29, 2009, 07:47 PM
wow!  . . . . .Atimes when in a midst of dem beautiful chicks, it feels like grabbing one of them by the waist or kinda hugging and kissing thing,  Undecided

You know what I mean? stepping down the car all alone, Sad
Feeling like talking to somebody at night. Sad

Now what do say about this?  Waking up in the morning without her by your side. Sad

You wanna know more?
OOOOOOOOh! [color=#000099]Seeing dem couples hugging and holding themselves in your present, now holding the next sisi by your side won't be a bad ideal, but  Nope! the more you think of it , the more her memories hunt you and you began to feel guilty of the crime you 've not yet committed
. Cheesy

hmm! Funny how love can be!  : Cry Smiley[/color]

I just can't stop laughing about your comment on "feeling guilty of the crime you've not yet committed"  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Thank God there is no earthly Jury that can convict one of this type of crime. If there's a court here on earth for this crime, how many will stand?

The truth is, it's not easy at all! It seems when one is single and prolly not looking, you cope well. But for some reason when there's someone you care for, you begin to see all the things couples do. And being far away from each other is simply killing!

Perhabs, you should start planning right now to see all possible ways you can eliminate the distance, so you will not be found guilty of the crime that you may eventually commit! Wink
190 (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #26 on: June 29, 2009, 11:04 PM »

 Cry Cry see what lonelines has done 2 igwe
hes goin haywire!
Enockia (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #27 on: June 30, 2009, 12:27 AM »

give urself work to do
mama-gee (f)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #28 on: June 30, 2009, 01:18 AM »

Getting a job. Grin
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #29 on: June 30, 2009, 08:22 AM »

Quote from: Enockia on June 30, 2009, 12:27 AM
give urself work to do
Ain't saying idle mehn!

Quote from: mama-gee on June 30, 2009, 01:18 AM
Getting a job. Grin

How many hours do you work in a day?
Taken (m)
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #30 on: June 30, 2009, 08:27 AM »

@ Igwe

1.  Do whatever it takes to join your partner.
2.  If you can not join your partner as quickly as possible, connect with him over the phone and be creative while at it such as phone sex and stuff.
3.  Find things to do.
4.  If all fails, may God helps you then!
Igwe.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness?
« #31 on: June 30, 2009, 10:40 AM »

Quote from: Taken on June 30, 2009, 08:27 AM
@ Igwe

1.  Do whatever it takes to join your partner.
2.  If you can not join your partner as quickly as possible, connect with him over the phone and be creative while at it such as phone sex and stuff.
3.  Find things to do.
4.  If all fails, may God helps you then!

Hey!
The bolded  portion kept me wondering,  Cheesy whilst it is not possible to join her in school Cool everything is not sex, moreover, it could be risky when one got stuck in the middle of it, out of network failure. Cheesy

Yeah! God will surely help moi!


Quote from: coolfaced8 on June 29, 2009, 10:00 PM
I just can't stop laughing about your comment on "feeling guilty of the crime you've not yet committed"  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Thank God there is no earthly Jury that can convict one of this type of crime. If there's a court here on earth for this crime, how many will stand?

The truth is, it's not easy at all! It seems when one is single and prolly not looking, you cope well. But for some reason when there's someone you care for, you begin to see all the things couples do. And being far away from each other is simply killing!

Perhabs, you should start planning right now to see all possible ways you can eliminate the distance, so you will not be found guilty of the crime that you may eventually commit! Wink
Lol @coolfaced8,  she will soon be through with the course she's gone for.
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