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IyaKadijat (f)
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I know what I find sexy about them as an AA woman, but I'd like to hear you guys opinion. I like their accents, the fact that they are usually fluent in more than one language, their alpha-male mentality- "what I say goes! If you don't agree, that's your own wahala!" LOL,
And of course, their lips, mmmm-mmm good!
What do you think?
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michelin89 (f)
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Sexy?  For where? With their bushman attitude??? 
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dae (f)
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Sexy?  For where? With their bushman attitude???  Hahahahaha, Girl, you crazy!! --- plus their " I know everything, i am all that" mentality. I dislike people with those nasty attitudes, and they Proud too. ughhhh, i can go on and on!! Just a few of 'em are nice and sweet, Problem though is that (no offence) they are the ugly ones. 
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michelin89 (f)
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Hahahahaha, Girl, you crazy!! --- plus their " I know everything, i am all that" mentality. I dislike people with those nasty attitudes, and they Proud too. ughhhh, i can go on and on!! Just a few of 'em are nice and sweet, Problem though is that (no offence) they are the ugly ones.  You nor lie. Some dey wowo! 
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IyaKadijat (f)
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LOL-yall are bad! I actually like that proud attitude. Even when dating AA men, I always look for that kind of personality that's bordering on conceit. I'm just weird that way, lol!
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y me (f)
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character they need respect love cuddling(few)of them tho  you must have the right curves at the right place you must show them you are hardworking E T C 
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michelin89 (f)
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character they need respect love cuddling(few)of them tho  you must have the right curves at the right place you must show them you are hardworking E T C  Sometimes I wan take frypan smooth their head for that thing.
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dae (f)
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LOL-yall are bad! I actually like that proud attitude. Even when dating AA men, I always look for that kind of personality that's bordering on conceit. I'm just weird that way, lol!
ohhhhohoh, trust me girl, i dont think you have met a "very typical" proud naija dude. That Shyt will irritate you so much that all thats running thru your mind is "Oh i wanna put some Ducktape and glue on his mouth so bad"
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IyaKadijat (f)
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I was with a proud Naija dude for 8 years. Turned out to be the wrong one, but trust me, I know about wanting to ductape their mouths shut, ooo! It did't deter me tho-if not that it would shame me, I'd probably go after some of his fine-ass friends right now! I know at least one of them needs papers in this country, lol!
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michelin89 (f)
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ohhhhohoh, trust me girl, i dont think you have met a "very typical" proud naija dude. That Shyt will irritate you so much that all thats running thru your mind is "Oh i wanna put some Ducktape and glue on his mouth so bad"
Naija men aren't absolutely proud but only to their women. Theirs is sexism, not a strong will.
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dae (f)
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I was with a proud Naija dude for 8 years. Turned out to be the wrong one, but trust me, I know about wanting to ductape their mouths shut, ooo! It did't deter me tho-if not that it would shame me, I'd probably go after some of his fine-ass friends right now! I know at least one of them needs papers in this country, lol!
hehehehehe --- ah!! if na paper, they'll claim to love you till the end of time and they will even say they love you more than their papa and mama, LOOL
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stillwater (f)
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Sexy? They wish!!!
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IyaKadijat (f)
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Naija men aren't absolutely proud but only to their women. Theirs is sexism, not a strong will.
Their definitely is some sexism there, but I think they just need their frame of minds re-trained. The majority of them change their tunes when they come to the US because they see women are treated differently and have a greater say here. Also, I think it helps if you are old-fashioned-in fact I think that's the only way you can deal with a Naija man if you are AA. I believe and carry out "the man is the head of my household" mentality. I cook, clean, try to make sure he makes his money and still manage to maintain work and school. It's a full plate but it's something I enjoy doing. You not right! LOL!
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dae (f)
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LOL, my friends BF bought car, and he no go even let person hear word. He'll be like -- i wan go wash my baby, oh, the tires look like they going down, oh, i am going for an oil change, oh who is the a-hole that scartched my baby, hey, do you like my car? and im like ohhh my worddd --- shut the F up!!!!
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IyaKadijat (f)
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hehehehehe --- ah!! if na paper, they'll claim to love you till the end of time and they will even say they love you more than their papa and mama, LOOL
LOL-no lie there o!
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IyaKadijat (f)
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Naija men do love their cars. I've watched my child's father forgo buying meat for the house so he could get something on his car fixed. Shaking my head.
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whitelexi (m)
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Naija men too much - No long story about that one 
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dae (f)
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Naija men do love their cars. I've watched my child's father forgo buying meat for the house so he could get something on his car fixed. Shaking my head.
That is soooo messed up!! if i were you, in the middle of the night, i'll go put a nail under his tires and deflate that sucker! then we gon see who da boss.
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y me (f)
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Lmaooooooooooooooooo naija men, some of them act as if they are too much meanwhile they are nothing generally any way not only naija men tho 
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IyaKadijat (f)
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That is soooo messed up!! if i were you, in the middle of the night, i'll go put a nail under his tires and deflate that sucker! then we gon see who da boss.
No need-I have an extra key to his car(well it's really a truck). I have thought about getting up in the middle of the night and parking his truck somewhere so he can go crazy looking for it-maybe even think it was stolen. hahaha! I would have so much fun with that one!
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dae (f)
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Their definitely is some sexism there, but I think they just need their frame of minds re-trained. The majority of them change their tunes when they come to the US because they see women are treated differently and have a greater say here. Also, I think it helps if you are old-fashioned-in fact I think that's the only way you can deal with a Naija man if you are AA. I believe and carry out "the man is the head of my household" mentality. I cook, clean, try to make sure he makes his money and still manage to maintain work and school. It's a full plate but it's something I enjoy doing.
I dont really blame them. I guess the mentality of "omo, if i was in naija i would not have had this" is also another factor. The excitement of materials they see when they travel abroad gets into their head. *what a pity*
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Secretz (f)
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I LOve their BIG bellies when they each too much poundo and drink plenty STarr !!! NOT!!!
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chikeobi (m)
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I LOve their BIG bellies when they each too much poundo and drink plenty STarr !!! NOT!!! Hope u are not describing me ooh 
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Secretz (f)
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lol, you never know sha! I take it when you finish everyting on your plate plus 7 bottles of starr, you now sit back and use the same old toothpick to collect every piece of bush meat that had remained in your teeth? lol 
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chikeobi (m)
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lol, you never know sha! I take it when you finish everyting on your plate plus 7 bottles of starr, you now sit back and use the same old toothpick to collect every piece of bush meat that had remained in your teeth? lol You know better thing walahi  make i go see weda i go find shine shine bobo buy sef. I no dey use toothpick ooh na broom stick i dey use. 
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davidylan (m)
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lol, you never know sha! I take it when you finish everyting on your plate plus 7 bottles of starr, you now sit back and use the same old toothpick to collect every piece of bush meat that had remained in your teeth? lol  isnt that a sign of a good wife?
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whitelexi (m)
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Take heart, when ladies say one thing, they usually mean the direct opposite 
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chikeobi (m)
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Take heart, when ladies say one thing, they usually mean the direct opposite Na to day? "no be today we begin see awusa with bow" we know them wella. Especially when they say i hate you out of anger na the opposite.  isnt that a sign of a good wife? ehe dem don carry come.
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Secretz (f)
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isnt that a sign of a good wife?
lol, 
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