How To End An Affair? (I'm Married)

I met a babe in a plane on my way back to Lagos from Abuja recently.
One thing led to the other, I went back to abuja for a wedding recently and
we met again in my hotel room. She passed the nite and we had
it all nite. Now she wants me so much that she flew to Lagos.
I Got a place for her and we screwed each other for three days.
The problem is now she doesnt want to let go. I am married with 2 kids.
How do i tell her to stop. Dont want to hurt her as though i used and dumped her.
She is a big girl with cash. I am Telecoms biz man doing well too.
Though just a fling, she wants more.
Pls help!!!

Tell your wife all you did and she will help you make up your mind.

why did you not  make her understand that at the beginning?  

as in married with 2 kid

i didnt tell her i was married initially because we didnt discuss that and she never asked.
I thot she should know cos i am in my mid thirties.
she was devastated when i told her but she didnt call it quit.
I feel very gulty and wished i never allowed it in the first place.
She is a good person but i love my family.

Mr Anything Goes,
Tell her you are no longer interested in the affair,state your reasons and wait for the consequences.

Enjoy it while it lasts, it wont last much longer than u really think. The crime has already been committed so commit it very well so that when u r to pay the price, the punishment will be justified. The wifey will be hurt but you have no excuse for your kids.
You can draw some consolation from the fact that u r not the only one in it today, in fact millions of people [including some of the girls and guys saying they hate u on this thread, some have slept with married men and women] do it so its not such a huge deal.

You need to go and make peace with your creator and desist from any form of adultery in the future!

Apologies to all womenfolks. Sometimes it happens without plan.
I feel for her. She is love but am not. I just hope she finds a place in
her heart to forgive me. I guess i allowed it to grow in her cos
i called her always, send romantic texts, advice her on her job,and
even make sur she takes adequate care of her self.

its a lie. this man just watched that new beyonce flick and came to serve us bobo gist.

and na so all of una chop the boli

 my guy, im not married but there are things a guy shouldnt do if he's got someone serious.

first of all, you dont cheat. but if you must play away, you don't call her with your main phone.
if this woman is the crazy type, you are in for a big wahala when you eventually tell her you were only sampling her her cunchas.

good luck homie and i hope she doesnt know your address.

Very frankly i feel very bad about this.
I had probs with my wife that maybe gave me the
push. But all that is history. My wife actually
saw some of her texts. But i guess my wife was
willing to protect her marriage rather raise any querrel.
I love my wife. We have fully reconciled.
Its a terrible mistake for me to do the"short" date
and its getting me in bad light. I deserve it. I need her to forgive me.
Never Again.

Yo man, even though u having probs with your woman, it dont mean that u shuld go out there na! I'm not married o but i have been in relationships. EVERY couple have ups and downs, good, bad and the ugly times too. Marriage i thought was suppose to be sacred and a "for better for worse" biznezz. Anyways, good thang u and yo wife is good, u better just pray to God that your concubine will be cool when u break the news that u no dey do again. If you havnt been giving her attention, it wouldda been easier. Dunno what to tell ya!

anyways, Gluck.

the guy asked for advice not ''i told you so's''
Shhhhhhhh, quiet!

u dey curse am?

OH MY GOD yes.

I read there sometimes and those whores make me want to vomit.

They support each other thru DDay's, share tips on how thier MM can stay under the rador, support each other when the MM are with thier families and cant see them, share sexual tips for when they do see thier MM and when the MM dumps them and goes back to his family, either cuz of a DDay or cuz he is just done fcuking her they have a forum for helping them cope.  

These women actually believe they are in r/s with thier MM men.  It is quite scary the lengths these women will go to, to cover thier tracks, to keep "thier men", to decieve the wife and to convince themselves that he loves them more.

It is very sad and sick.

lol@ she should have known cuz u r in your mid 30s, look, dont u know dere r men your age and older that are yet 2 marry?