How To End An Affair? (I'm Married)

Na you be the guy?

Which kain advice I go give am?

So he can get out of this one clean free and try the same process again?

I don't sympathize cheaters, I can't tolerate them and I hope they. . . .they. .  better if I don't say it.

Of course temptation abounds.
But if you know how to resist temptation, you don't have to fall in it.

Dude, so you're telling me that just because temptation exists, we must not fight to resist it?

Right. .  . .so plz tell our fellow men to grow some balls and learn how to say no

THE WOMAN IS ALSO  HUMAN, SHE IS LIKE A HORSE. IF THE HORSE SAYS NO, NO MAN WILL MOUNT IT, DONT FORGET. ALSO DONT FORGET THAT THE DIRTY GIRL KNOWS NOW THAT THE GUY HAS A FAMILY, AND YET SHE FLIES TO LAGOS TO OPEN YASH!

We do not have the information about the girl. If she knows about him and his marital status.

Mr man, do not use this opportunity to bash naija women. I won't have it

You're right. You're so completely right.

I'm tired of blaming the men only. I don't have that energy anymore.

It's a two way street, both of them are to be blamed.


But that does not mean I have to sympathize him. I want him punished. It won't be fair if he gets away clean. It just won't. 

Sharlom. Are you jew or sth?

I also want him to tell (that's what I meant by pain). But I hope she doesn't forgive him easily.

I thought you guys want us to spell it as "IGBO". Igbo man? hmmm 

Can you plz lower your caps, makes me feel like you're screaming at me

I want one of his balls cut off. That's the only price he can pay

Umm, ferdiii, why did u quote me?

WELL, I WILL ONLY ADVICE YOU TO LEAVE 'US' 'MEN' ALONE AND HOLD YOUR OWN MAN WELL. YOU MAY BE WHERE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR OTHERS TO PLUCK THEIR 'BALLS' AND YOU NEGLECT TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR MAN, AND GUESS WHAT WILL HAPPEN, THE SAME THING THAT HAPPENED TO THAT GUY'S WIFE ,  BUT THAT IS NOT YOUR PORTION!!!

@topic

I find it difficult understanding why young beautiful and financially stable ladies fall for old married men.
Just yesterday, a female friend of mine almost jump off from a skyscraper when her sugar daddy, his wife and their 10 years old son showed up to call the 6 months relationship quits with her.
She made it clear that since the man is her first and only love, there are only two options for her;
1. continue the affair with the man
2. Suicide.

I was mad at her cos she knew right from the word go that the man has a family. I would still check her up today to find out if she visited her doctor as we agreed.

@OP

Call it quits if you can and bear the consequences of your action.

Im sure you meant Fatal Attraction 

Well really this guy came on here to open his mind and he did that well and not holding back about it ,he knows hes done somethings wrong and just  need advice from you guys on how to tell the lady in question that he needs to stop the affair .
Now all the ladies in here are opening their mouth and yarning dust,if he had told the girl rudely that he is not interested again  and the girl comes up here with a post that "i just got jilted "y'all will still come on here and talk rubbish about that man.
dont you get what the guy wants ,he is not having problems with is wife but he does not want the girl to feel terrible cos he is back to his senses.
come to think of it how many of you guys have the guts to come here and talk about whats troubling you ,with the fact the nobody knows or sees you ,
if na girl come here now dey ask for forgiveness from a guy ,all the ladies here go open mouth dey follow am beg but if na man dey beg una go crucify am gosssssssssshhhhhhhhhhh     being self centered  can not help in any situation,learn to view things fro all sides and not only from your gender position

Mr bob,the crime has already been commited.dnt mind all thes religious fanatics telling u u'll reap what u sow and bullshit! Face facts,dis is NAIJA,d worst dat cn happen is your wife moves to her father's house after a while she returns,it's nt lyk she'll sue you to court and take half your properties, if your enjoying your affair enjoy it WELL! Just dnt tell your wife YOURSELF,and if d away chick tells your wife,DENY it 4 d sake of your marriage and kids, women'll always believe wat u tell them when it comes to cheating cuz deep down they want to believe its not true,

i cant believe i'm hearing this!  , i would seriously hate to be married to a man like you. your INNOCENT  actually trusted u, what u think only guys can have affairs? u think women dont admire guys the same way guys admire ladies? is that waht u think?. well u're very wrong cus we do mister, its just that WE WOMEN are too RESPONSIBLE to sleep around after we have made a decision to stick to one person!!!
,  and u've got two kids!!!, jesus!! 2kids man!!!, what the hell were u thinking!!! now u want your cake back, after u've eaten it. how come u dint ask for advice when u were about to screw around.
 now that u have actually screwed around, u want advice, i've heard of guilty conscience after one time, but urs has been more than once,  i think if the girl had totally agreed to leave, u would have done it again with another girl!!,
  , i wish Dicks were detachable, men!!! huh!!!!

Haba, you harsh o, the guy has come for advise, instead of telling him the way forward na to rain abuses on him.
You fit detach your man's own