How To End An Affair? (I'm Married)

It's rather interesting how most folks here are quick to cast aspersion and pass judgement on others.The poster has been honest about what happened and i don't really think there is any big deal to the whole thing.it is just been real.I am rather surprised by the holier than thou attitude of most rejoinders in here,i am very sure that most respondents have at one time or the other done worst things,hence why crucifying this guy.Ofcourse what he has done left much to be desire but for crying out loud who amongst us all here is a saint?When are we going to stop being hypocrate and be real for once?@Poster,if you are trully sure you don't want this affair any longer,just be firm about this and move on,after the initial pain and emotional stuff everybody will get on with their lives,wish you all the best and try to stay off tempt, 

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Mr bob,the crime has already been commited.dnt mind all thes religious fanatics telling u u'll reap what u sow and bullshit! Face facts,dis is NAIJA,d worst dat cn happen is your wife moves to her father's house after a while she returns,it's nt lyk she'll sue you to court and take half your properties, if your enjoying your affair enjoy it WELL! Just dnt tell your wife YOURSELF,and if d away chick tells your wife,DENY it 4 d sake of your marriage and kids, women'll always believe wat u tell them when it comes to cheating cuz deep down they want to believe its not true,]

@ tudor  U ARE THE BEST MAD MAN IN THIS THREAD SORRY your ASS!
How could you advise your fellow man this way, wishing him untimely death? Read his story line, he has concience thats why he seeks NL help. I know people like you do not have a bite concience and can kill and still.
You are the type that the Bible said that '' are born to be destroyed'' I have no doubt.

Mr B, Please be a Man and tell yor wife all she knows and do not know so that you sought things together and live a happy home. Again a womans mind whebn purged and hidden is worst than an Acid, better allow her to open it up so that things will be settled on time.

Stop trasmitting STD to your wife just because you had little misunderstanding with her.

you have got issues men I guess you need to get your head checked You have 2 kids wtf you are/have ruining/ruined  your family pity the kids and the woman married to a sorry arse loser like you

heeeeeeeeeee oga bob james abi bob jonas, na wa for you oh,u don eat her national cake finish you wan run,she don hook u for throat you de find rescue, de time wen u wan do am,u tell us for nairaland so that we go advise you, no!!! after u don eat punani finish u now love your wife who know if u neva carry disease,u go give am to the innocent woman wen de house de wait for you. why!!!!!!

anyway, my advise for you, hope u use condom sha if not go for test first, then call your wife sit her down tell her everything  and ask for her forgiveness then call the lady tell her that u never expected it to be serious that u are hapily married with kids that u cant continue, that she should wait on God she will get her husband instead of sharing her punani anyhow.

But Bob James you no do well atall ask God for  forgiveness abeg.

heeeeeeeeeee oga bob james abi bob jonas, na why for you oh,u don eat ha national cake finish you wan run,she don hook u for throat you de find rescue, de time wen u wan do am,u tell us for nairaland so that u go advise you, no!!! after u don eat punani finish u now love your wife who know if u neva carru disease,u go give am to the innocent woman wen de house de wait for you. why!!!!!!

anyway, my advise for you, hope u use condom sha if not go for test first, then call your wife sit her down tell her everything  and ask for her forgiveness then call the lady tell her that u never expected it to be serious that u are hapily married with kids that u cant continue, that she should wait on God she will get her husband instead of sharing her punani anyhow.

But Bob James you no do well atall ask God for  forgiveness abeg.

@poster, u are a con man. u have more than 2 id here. ive read your other post and i know u will create another similar post soon. Stop fooling urself here asking for help. Creating threads for fun. Im suprised your post is put on the main page, pls moderator u guys shuld avoid puting post from bob james or Goergey as a header or in the main page

Ok Ok, this guy made it up for fun.
It could really have happened.
But the way pple cursed was unbelievable
Hey guys, NL is about fun.
I have enjoyed myself.
IT IS NEITHER GUD TO FORNICATE
OR CHEAT ON your WIFEY/HUSBAND



This is a product of a creative mind.
Am writing scripts for nollywood.
I may invite a few for audition.
Enjoy your day folks.
Am good.

Hey Mr Jones

You dont need to strees urself over something that is not a big deal, just tell the babe its over or have you promise are marriage?

@Poster.

Two can play the game and as a naija man, I'll tell you most of us don't like this game at all (as some women---especially stay-at-home wives can be really really scandalous!!!!)

Funny enough while you're seekin braggin rights on NL by postin publicly you shagged a chic other than your wife, imagine what your wife was doin when Oga wasn't around.

U guys should read the poster. Nothing happened. He is jst using us to write a script. He is a moron & i guess we shuld further ignore any post bearing his id. He thinks we are retards here,  Go to H*ll,

You seem to be an Actor.

I don't know who is more stupid, the poster for posting a fib, or the voluntary therapists who have consistently reared their ugly head on this thread

Is this the new tactic? Shio.

@boliatepa,

And why that name-calling? The ethnic-venom you often get in this site is unbelievable.

Obviously, the post generated so much interested a new twist occurs while you're typing?

When will we ever grow up

shameless man, you assumed she knew you were married, shame on you

quote from sistawoman
"Tell your wife all you did and she will help you make up your mind."

@ sistawoman
u wan make d guy wife break bottle on his head