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Abz
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at least you're not considering divorce or bringing a second woman home, a happily married man with a loving wife doesn't think of having affair; and when the temptations come, he will always find a way out. I guess you're really repenting because of your kids. Blame your wife my friend, and look after the kids, they are the most important. Because of your deed, doesn't mean you can't be a loving and supportive father, but if your wife is a loving, supportive, good mother, trustwothy woman, then you really screwed up.
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emelumgini (f)
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ABZ, why are you being sacarstic about women.The man did not tell you that it was the wife that caused it.He said that he met this lady in the plane and from there one thing led to another,so i dont see how his wife is to blame for a husband that cannot keep his 2 legs together.You should advise him as your fellow man or should i say your partner in crime.
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Niga Lurva
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You should advise him as your fellow man or should i say your partner in crime.
I can advise you on how to cheat and get away with it. Women hate cheating because they think they will caught. Hit me up and I will give you a trusted method. Lets get it on. |
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Bob James (m)
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Very beatiful contributions have been made,
lately the lady came around and have been wanting to see me but
i politely refused to see her because it could further create some stupid private scenes.
Even though she has said she will be the last person to break my marriage,
i still dont want to throw caution to the winds. I love my family and i would want to risk a lifetime thing for
what is temporary and that also could mar my destiny.
The mistake have been made. I fell. But must i remain fallen? No way.
She's got to move on and let God give her the man she desires.
I showed so much care for her, i was everything to her, i satisfied her so well in bed, and now am quitting.
Its not going to be easy for her i know but hey, its a mistake.
Guys, i face a lot of temptation. Thats the truth.
Iknow a number of guys do. Even the so-called saints who have timelessly hung me on the cross have done worse.
Even pastors have come face to face with issues like this. Some fell but they got up, picked up the bits and pieces and moved on with God.
I have moved on. Thats my joy now.
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Bob James (m)
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i dont like the idea of caling the lady a ho.
she is not a ho, she is a vey decent woman who just found herself
in a situation she never thot could happen to her.
pls and pls it pains me to call her a ho
she is not.
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finemocha (f)
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o boy, well goodluck. now u see y some men just hire prostitutes or go to strip clubs. no strings attached
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George_D (m)
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My friend, you have taken the right step. Please stick to your decision and let her go.
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Gadols (m)
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Pls cut it out quickily. i had a similar experience. I almost lost my head. Do all you can to save your marriage.  |
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oluwafemi113
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Nigerians! Crying more than the bereaved.The man only ased for advice and not insults.Pls if you have nothing meaningful to say,shut ya trap!! So many of us if given the opportunity will even do worse than Bros.
na true you talk |
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George_D (m)
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Who is crying here? Or am I missing something?  We are only offering advice that's all and I think that is what was demanded. Pls read the title of this thread again before posting. Thanks. |
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biola44 (m)
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@poster: its up to u to end it since u started it n its all your fault cos, stand up n be a man or keep on rocking so dat u'll have enough good memories at the end of your adventure,
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George_D (m)
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You have spoken well.
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sley4life (m)
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Poster, u ar a moron
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George_D (m)
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has it come to this now? |
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yjay (f)
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i was actually going to be polite & say JUST CUT HER OFF & then u go ahead & make this Statement Very beatiful contributions have been made,
lately the lady came around and have been wanting to see me but
i politely refused to see her because it could further create some stupid private scenes.
Even though she has said she will be the last person to break my marriage,
i still dont want to throw caution to the winds. I love my family and i would want to risk a lifetime thing for
what is temporary and that also could mar my destiny.
The mistake have been made. I fell. But must i remain fallen? No way.
She's got to move on and let God give her the man she desires.
I showed so much care for her, i was everything to her, i satisfied her so well in bed, and now am quitting.
Its not going to be easy for her i know but hey, its a mistake.
Guys, i face a lot of temptation. Thats the truth.
Iknow a number of guys do. Even the so-called saints who have timelessly hung me on the cross have done worse.
Even pastors have come face to face with issues like this. Some fell but they got up, picked up the bits and pieces and moved on with God.
I have moved on. Thats my joy now.
wat kind of crappy statement is that?  seems to me like ure not apologetic at all & u do deserve all the negative comments you've received here! i satisfied her so well in bed and now am quitting, that statement just ticks me off & not in a good way  WTF!!! |
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George_D (m)
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mr loverman could only be having a hang over-that's why he made that statement.
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rickie4us (m)
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can you listen to yourself, poster?
i was everything to her, i satisfied her so well in bed, and now am quitting
the least I can say is that you are unrepentant ,
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megtin (f)
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:o :o :o :okai!!! notin person no go c n hear.ahmmmm, y is dat most men cant just see a beautiful lady n comot eye?d tin dat baffles me most is dat its d so cald married ones dat do it.i mean y get married in d 1st place?how can u love sm1 n cheat on d person?how wld u feel if u found out your wife cheated?its not fair u no. sotey u led her on wit your texts n all.agbaya niye since u cant control dat tin between your legs.learn to control it n ul earn respect.c as u r lookin stupid now.
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George_D (m)
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are we still on this crap? i thought loverman has since moved on? |
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GOD,S DELI
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I must tell you, you have disappointed God and your spouse, the first step is to confess your sins to God and ask for forgiveness after having realized that u made a mistake, promise never to repeat such,you may need to confess and ask for your wife,s 4givness too because u just failed her and God.
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denny4ril
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can u just imagine a married man saying this?
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Anabel (f)
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just tell her you are not interested, its as simple as that and if she begins to threaten you, tell your wife
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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I hope she collaborates with your wife to castrate your errant dickolo  |
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clem2love
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HELLO HOUSE,
ONE THING LEAD TO ANOTHER, BEFORE YOU PEOPLE WILL JUDGE HIM WE SHOULD ASK HIM SO QUESTION LIKE
1. HAVE YOU EVER FIND YOUR WIFE PLAYING ARROUND?
2. DO YOU SEE ANYTHINK LIKE FUNNY GAMES?
3. IS SHE NOT GOOD ON BED?
IS SHE NOT SATISFYING YOU ENOUGH?
IF YOU CAN ANSWER ALL THESE THEN YOU CAN NOW JUDGE.
BUT AS FOR ME YOU ARE GOING TO PAY FOR IT. EITHER YOU LOSS THE NEW ONE QUITELLY OR LOSS YOUR WIFE SHAMEFULLY SO THE CHOICE IS YOURS. ALSO TRY CALL YOUR WIFE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NITE AND ASK HER FOR FORGIVENESS BEFORE YOU TELL HER ANYTHING IF SHE OPEN THAT SHE AS FORGIVEING YOU. YOU THEN TELL HER EVERYTHING THAT AS HAPPEN, THEN ASK HER HOW DO WE FIGHT IT TOGETHER IN PEACE AND NOT WAR.
WHY AM SAYING THIS IS THAT I HAVE GONE THROW THIS STAG ASWELL IN LIFE.
PLAY SAVE NOT TO LOSS YOUR WIFE.
MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU AND GOD HELP YOU
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Pharisee
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If your wife would understand tell her, then tell the woman about your family.But better end it now
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zuuby (m)
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You did the right thing by bringing up the matter.
Shows u are ready to quit.
THEN QUIT and stop thinking about her.
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Yoighaman (m)
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y do u want to tell your wife?
Ask God for forgiveness and quit seeing the chick, it's time to be a real actor, d deed has been done.
I doubt if u'd ever escape reaping what u av sown though, remember David in the bible?
Good luck
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bomakris (f)
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I know is not your intention. Sometimes it happen before we realise that it has happened and it can happen to anybody.
You repent sincerely and ask for your forgiveness, if she is an understanding woman am sure she will forgive u.
for the new girl involve let her know how special she is and tell her to understand with dat it can't work between u both. She is human with feelings so, do not hurt her by handling d issue in uncivil way.
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bomakris (f)
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I know is not your intention. Sometimes it happen before we realise that it has happened and it can happen to anybody.
You repent sincerely and ask for your wife forgiveness, if she is an understanding woman am sure she will forgive u.
for the new girl involve let her know how special she is and tell her to understand with u, dat it can't work between u both. She is human with feelings so, do not hurt her by handling d issue in an uncivil way.
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OYINBOGOJU
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IT IS OVER
SAYS THE LORD GOD OF HOST.
JUST LIKE THAT.
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