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Uche2nna (m)
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Well, at least U are man enough to own up, some will not even when caught with thier pants down!!!! It wasn't me  Anyways, the most important thing is to reconcile with your wife and hope U dont ever go down that road again. |
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St☆rStruck (f)
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It didn't hit you as you were screwing her that you were married with kids? There is nothing anyone can say that would be of importance now. I do hope your wife finds out the truth.
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Uche2nna (m)
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It didn't hit you as you were screwing her that you were married with kids? There is nothing anyone can say that would be of importance now. I do hope your wife finds out the truth. She already did |
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DOUBLE-O-H (m)
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PLAIN AND SIMPLE; THE MUMU MAN WAS JUST TOO HORNY AND SELFISH HE HAD TO DO A QUICKY WHICH TURNED INTO A SHARP-SHARP AND NOW HE WANTS THE LADY TO JUST TAKE OFF LIKE THAT. IF I WERE THE SMALL GURL YOU WANT TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, 2ND WIFE GO SHOW FOR YOUR DOOR STEP.
E.O.D.
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Pittbaby (f)
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jeez , this is scary , so if I fight with my husband that is the excuse for him to go out and sleep with someone else. Pls men remeber that you loved your wife when you married her , please for her sake stop sleeping with everything that moves, dont go and infect her with something. If you want to sleep around DONT GET MARRIED!!!! it is not by force .
Please women bear enough in life they dont also have to bear the price of your indiscretions. I still dont understand why in this day and age some men still dont get it , AIDS IS REAL !!!! and a condom is not a 100% protection . Monogamy is the only protection for a married couple.
I dont advocate you telling your wife , why harm her , (also pray that the other lady does not have a mean streak or you are in for pepper)
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St☆rStruck (f)
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She already did
Oh yeah, I just saw that |
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Czarskit (m)
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~ Good News ~ *clap clap clap* ~
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dae (f)
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It takes two to tango. He was dishonest with her at first, later told her the truth, but she still wants more. Would she tolerate it if another woman is disturbing her own man if she later on get married? Some women and some men are just plain devils in human form.
for real?!?!Maybe i am not reading something right. I dont see where he typed "I TOLD HER I AM A MARRIED MAN WITH 2 KIDS"   |
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Uche2nna (m)
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Go back and re-read. May it would be a good idea to do it slowly this time |
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dae (f)
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Go back and re-read. May it would be a good idea to do it slowly this time
ummmmm, nah thanks, i'm good - i think i'll recommend same thing to you though. But thanks anyways. |
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tkb417 (m)
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It's not a curse
It simply means, you get what you ask for. . .
Na wah for translation hehehehe i no understand english na but why wish the guy whats hes sown when u know hes not sown a good seed? u wicked small sha |
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Uche2nna (m)
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For the benefit of dae
i didnt tell her i was married initially because we didnt discuss that and she never asked.
I thot she should know cos i am in my mid thirties.
she was devastated when i told her but she didnt call it quit.
I feel very gulty and wished i never allowed it in the first place.
She is a good person but i love my family.
The above was from the poster.
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Pataki
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Na wa o! Did you miss this adjoining post from the poster? i didnt tell her i was married initially because we didnt discuss that and she never asked.
I thot she should know cos i am in my mid thirties.
she was devastated when i told her but she didnt call it quit.
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dae (f)
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Hisssssss -- so he even told her and he's still wit her despite having a family. Oh well, men will always be men and women will always be women.
I'm out o jare!
Thanks my extra eyes (uche and pataki) -- dont do what your fellow man did oh! ehen.
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Bob James (m)
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I didnt expect not to be castigated.
I just felt i got myself in a fix and needed
a very genuine help. Its not been easy for me
putting a lady thru all that. During our discussions, she told me she just got jilted
by a guy she loved so much. So when we met, it was like she has met someone
who will wipe away her tears. But the mistake at the begining was, i should have told her in clear terms that i was married.
I just thot we could be friends but things turned otherwise and we got involved. Everything happenend within 2 months.
Though she is devastated, i need her forgiveness. Like i said, i ve learnt my lessons.
As for my wife, we are best of friends now inspite of that. She gives me evry reason to be faithful.
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Pataki
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Thanks my extra eyes (uche and pataki) -- dont do what your fellow man did oh! ehen.
Funny woman. Long Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss You too, do not do what your fellow woman is doing oh! Leave another woman's property alone! ehen. |
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lady bam (f)
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@poster
gini di.
jesus christ.
*****sighs**** rubbish
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Bob James (m)
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@ @poster
gini di.
jesus christ. infact your a very stupid married man. i hope your female children get screwed by strangers, or worst still marry a very unfaithful man like deir father. yeye, *****sighs**** rubbish
This is not fair. Why play God here. Haba!! Put urself in my shoes and be realistic. i hate hypocrisy. Not gud. |
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lady bam (f)
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This is not fair. Why play God here. Haba!!
Put urself in my shoes and be realistic. i hate hypocrisy. Not gud.
first of all i cant be in your shoe. secondly, stop screwing around. your a "MARRIED" man for christ sakes. do u eva pity ya wife. JEzzzzzzzzzz |
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lady bam (f)
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well. it seems u did learn your lesson. plz, dont go back 2ur vomit. i beg.
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stillwater (f)
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Since you don't have self will and self control you would be seduced over and over again if she knows how to play her cards right.  Yeye man. It's your wife I pity. You have the audacity to create some love triangle because you were having problems and you were "pushed"? You as a man are the problem!!! Deal with your principles FIRST because no amount of advice on how to get rid of the pest of a woman would keep Mr John Thomas from making the same mistakes over and over and over again. |
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Bob James (m)
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Pls be polite and stop cursing.
Dont condemn all menfolk cos ihad a challenge.
Some ladies speak as if their guys are saints.
If only u knew. Have an open mind. Temptations are everywhere.
Even my wife's friends' sisters wants me to lay them.
I mean it takes the fear of God to resist. Atleast they
are aware am married.
Pls lets not play God here. I have heard very decent married women caught
in this web. Its a mistake or a fall. But i hve to get up and move on.
Haba pls instead of cursing, ask for forgivenness for me. That will
be your seed of a blessed future.
Thank you.
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stillwater (f)
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Pls be polite and stop cursing.
Dont condemn all menfolk cos ihad a challenge.
Some ladies speak as if their guys are saints.
If only u knew. Have an open mind. Temptations are everywhere.
Even my wife's friends' sisters wants me to lay them.
I mean it takes the fear of God to resist. Atleast they
are aware am married.
Pls lets not play God here. I have heard very decent married women caught
in this web. Its a mistake or a fall. But i hve to get up and move on.
Haba pls instead of cursing, ask for forgivenness for me. That will
be your seed of a blessed future.
Thank you.
How do you want us to ask forgiveness for you? I would expect the same castigation if I were in your position. Not scared by it either. I really don't call it castigation anyway but tough love.  What would be your reaction if your wife boards a plane and has a fling with whomever she pleases. Would you forgive her? |
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tkb417 (m)
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Pls be polite and stop cursing.
Dont condemn all menfolk cos ihad a challenge.
Some ladies speak as if their guys are saints.
If only u knew. Have an open mind. Temptations are everywhere.
Even my wife's friends' sisters wants me to lay them.
I mean it takes the fear of God to resist. Atleast they
are aware am married.
Pls lets not play God here. I have heard very decent married women caught
in this web. Its a mistake or a fall. But i hve to get up and move on.
Haba pls instead of cursing, ask for forgivenness for me. That will
be your seed of a blessed future.
Thank you. let dem curse na, na 9ja people be dat no be u carry your wahala come jam dem? take whatever they hurl at u |
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debosky (m)
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let dem curse na, na 9ja people be dat
no be u carry your wahala come jam dem? take whatever they hurl at u
Exactly - don't expect sympathy from most people. Most would regard what you did as abominable (even if it has even happened to them) I pray God and your wife forgive you, but seriously dude - it almost sounds like you're bragging that women want to shag you. At your age you should know that it is meaningless. At some point even the ugliest man will have women chasing him to shag him - be it for his money or something they can get from him. Just make sure that you deal with YOURSELF and forget what anyone else out there is doing. If you keep yourself away from these people, no amount of 'temptation' will make you fall. |
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Bob James (m)
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How do you want us to ask forgiveness for you? I would expect the same castigation if I were in your position. Not scared by it either. I really don't call it castigation anyway but tough love. What would be your reaction if your wife boards a plane and has a fling with whomever she pleases. Would you forgive her? If its tough love, its ok. Na wah for 9ja o. SOme people sha!!! Anyway, its not a gud place to be- I mean adultery. Not gud at all. God help us. But why would a girl chase after a married man sef. i come across so many of them and i often wonder. maybe its because am young and dont have a wedding ring. My church does not encourage that at joining. Hope i dot get castigated for this. God help us all. Amen |
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Bob James (m)
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Exactly - don't expect sympathy from most people. Most would regard what you did as abominable (even if it has even happened to them)
I pray God and your wife forgive you, but seriously dude - it almost sounds like you're bragging that women want to shag you. At your age you should know that it is meaningless.
At some point even the ugliest man will have women chasing him to shag him - be it for his money or something they can get from him. Just make sure that you deal with YOURSELF and forget what anyone else out there is doing. If you keep yourself away from these people, no amount of 'temptation' will make you fall.
You are the best man. But not that am boasting here. just the plain truth. However, i appreciate your kind and honest advice. Thanks. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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The only answer to your quest for help is to cut your manhood off.
I mean you are obviously not using it right so might as well. . . . . . snip snip.
You put your family endanger by exposing them to horrendous diseases from your airplane fling and you come here to seek forgiveness and a pat on the back?
Ekwensu.
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stillwater (f)
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If its tough love, its ok. Na wah for 9ja o. SOme people sha!!!
Anyway, its not a gud place to be- I mean adultery. Not gud at all.
God help us. But why would a girl chase after a married man sef.
i come across so many of them and i often wonder.
maybe its because am young and dont have a wedding ring. My church does not
encourage that at joining.
Hope i dot get castigated for this.
God help us all. Amen
I will castigate you. Calling God up and down will not save you either. Not wearing a wedding ring does not mean you have a padlock on your mouth that prevents you from saying "I'm married", does it? A girl will chase a married man the same way married men won't let single/married women rest. Stop trying to make it one sided. |
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*Toyinrayo (f)
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Some of these men are just ridiculously unbelievable.
The audacity!
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stillwater (f)
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You still did not answer my question? What would be your reaction if your wife boards a plane and has a fling with whomever she pleases. Would you forgive her? |
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