How To End An Affair? (I'm Married)

I choose not to trade words with low minded
brats who think they are saints of some sort.
For all u care those girls could be doing other
women's hussy. But they can claim to be
holier than thou here. For the guys, what can i say?
chew your tongue now.
just dont get what u guys are upto.

Hmmmmm,  you would do the same woman.
Am not as bad as u think.

He means you would do the same thing that he did , assuming you were a guy.

Bob James you are an ingrate. And i hope your wife gets a clue and leave you. You must think we are stupid. Look at what you posted back in 2007, you said the same thing last time about being born again. And you said it again on this thread. You really are something else. Now, Mr. changed man, you have another thread saying you almost did it again, after you got back from working out at the gym. I really pity your wife. Honestly, I don't believe that you have changed, and you deserve everything you get hence forth. Don't be supprised if things don't turn out well for you.

Very simple. Stay out of touch for a while. . .  once she gets desperate(as they all do),start preaching to her from Revelations & 2 Corinthians about the fact that adulterers wil go to hell. Tell her u'll call her back as you are oon your way to evangelism etc. After a few weeks she'll RUN !! Trust me 

You mae her fall by ACTING like you wanted more now you are now whining cos she wont let go?

You're funny. I hope it ends up exactly like Fatal Attractive.

do you by any chance work for the FBI young lady?  you are beginning to scare me now.  this is not some rememberance juju you are using here abi?

TOH, seriously something is wrong with that lovely country of ours. we fill various religious houses every where in that lovely land but cant manage to keep ourselves from this cursed lifestyles.

Bob jones, go and sin no more.  the easiest way to cure this heart ache in the future is travel with your wife as much as possible. it is expensive but only safe cure because the land is full of whores. shameless whores for that matter.  

i have said it here before having stayed in various hotels all over nigeria the land is one big brothel. i am sorry the truth is bitter but has to be said.  our morality threshold is too low.  we are human beings for goodness sake.  the ones without money say they do it for money the ones with money i dont know why they still share it like there is no tomorrow.  can someone tell me?

karma you hear now. make i bring you forms?

1st that u actually sent in this post is a gross insult on your family if u indeed have one.
2nd dat u actually seek pples advise afta indulging and telling it as it is, is a shame on men generally
3rd dat u now feel d oda lady is disturbing is absord.

i really dont know how n y this post was allowed, we shd not encourage shamefully deeds we are africannnnnnns not stupid act of foreign lands shd be lauded, agreed no one is a saint but your case is a shamefull show of manhood, u not only claim to have slept with her, but that both of u have been trooting naija supposedely enjoying shit.

go f, k your mum

leave town or go and hang yourself in the village

   Does someone else not see what i am seeing? Everyone is eating up the guy but what about the lady? Is there nothing wrong with her? You see some one on the plane and the same day you start screwing like rabbits? Is that what morals have metamorphosed to in Nigeria? I see a guy today and i start screwing him? . I really thinks she deserves what she gets. She is just like a toilet where every body goes to empty their bowels.She deserves all the stds in the world because i cant imagine not knowing the person and then getting that intimate with him.Nigeria na wa for una o!

this whole scene  and story reminds of me  JESUS and the woman caught in adultery. The people were all keen to stone her alive. JESUS then gave them a shocker ,'' if any of YOU be without stone let him cast the first stone. the average human are always judgemental , vindictive and hypocritical pious.
     You are all standing there condemning  the penitent man but most of you are white washed tomb stinking terribly inside with lust, masturbation, pornography, lesbianism and other horribly sin
   mr Benson,'' go and sin no more''. 
   most of NL contributors are blinded with vengeance and rage. only few are thinking specially the foreign based nigerian ladies.
 

Look at this irresponsible son of a monkey.

HMmmm.

I have commited a valuable piece of my time to read from gensis of this tread. In all,  wether poster is an idot, lost control, or is a waka about, he has learnt a lesson. You may run or deceive and avoid men/women but not God and certainly not your conscience.

Now the bitter truth.

THE DAY DAUGHTERS OF EVE STOP AND REFRAIN FROM TEMPTING, TASTING, POSSESSING OR TAKING A MARRIED MAN OR DISPOSSESING THEIR FELLOW SISTERS
THAT DAY ALL THESE NONSENSE WOULD END.

THE DAY A GIRL SCENTS A MARRIED MAN AND TELLS THE MAN "NO !!! YOU BELONG TO ANOTHER" IT WILL END

THE DAY A GIRL SCENTS A GUY IS HOOKED OR ASSOCIATED TO HER KIND AND SAYS "NO !!! YOU ARE TAKEN" IT WILL END

As I often say women are the only creatures who hate themselves.

No single girl would wish another girl who sleeps with her man in future well.

It beats me as to why a woman wants to do it to another and why in the world she thinks it would happen to her. The law of karma is real.



hala.

Bob James keep on rocking, sex is just sex man. Who says you can't have sex elsewhere to relieve tension and yet still love your wife? No mind these bad belle people abeg.

GIVE THIS GUY ADVICE, NOT ABUSE. YOU WANNA SHOVEL HIM MORE INTO THE GROUND WHEN WE ARE TRYING TO BRING HIM OUT?
HABA!