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eina (m)
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How much percentage of girls out there would prefer the quiet guys to the loud guys and why?
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tboy1 (m)
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Why will any lady want to date a loud guy?
Maybe because the dude always got something to say!!!
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190 (m)
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well im the quiet type!  |
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sweetpea04 (f)
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I'm trying to figure out my relationship with a quiet guy right now. The only problem is that I have no idea what they want because talking to them about feelings, relationships and plans is often like pulling teeth. Overall, I like the quiet guy more because when they finally open up they produce great thoughts and conversation.
I also feel that I get along better with quiet men because I am outgoing and very intuitive. What I’m learning is that a lot of quiet guys don't fit the "soft" stereotype that is put on them.
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shilling (f)
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I'm into quieter guys
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Igwe.
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well, everything has its own disadvantage.Just a matter of compatibility.
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eina (m)
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I'm trying to figure out my relationship with a quiet guy right now. The only problem is that I have no idea what they want because talking to them about feelings, relationships and plans is often like pulling teeth. Overall, I like the quiet guy more because when they finally open up they produce great thoughts and conversation.
I also feel that I get along better with quiet men because I am outgoing and very intuitive. What I’m learning is that a lot of quiet guys don't fit the "soft" stereotype that is put on them. I'm into quieter guys Thanks to both of you ladies for giving me a new found courage. I have been scared of the loud talking ladies cos I fear the might mistake my quietness for dullness. I prefer the loud ladies cos I believe my quietness combined with there talking nature will make a good communication and understanding better of than when we are both quiet or when we are both loud. |
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y me (f)
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i think i will prefer the not too quiet and not too loud guys  one who is not too quiet to defend himself   |
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harvey (m)
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not all occasion call for loudness and not all action call for quietness, i believe have to know when to talk and how to talk at any point in time. i like people who can air their views and not always sit back and let me take the whole decision, even at work. i love lively ladies cos am lively so is my wife and we are having a great time.
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Pittbaby (f)
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Neither, I like confident men , the ones who are are secure enough not to have to make unneccesary noise to attract attention , and bold enough to speak up when it is warranted.
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*Toyinrayo (f)
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Neither, I like confident men , the ones who are are secure enough not to have to make unneccesary noise to attract attention , and bold enough to speak up when it is warranted.
A quiet man does not necessarily lack confidence. He just knows how to "behave" like a gentleman in public. Which I so adore. Some of these men just can't shut up, everything they do needs to be loud for God knows what reason. |
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davidylan (m)
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Neither, I like confident men , the ones who are are secure enough not to have to make unneccesary noise to attract attention , and bold enough to speak up when it is warranted.
I'm not sure you even understand yourself. Are we to assume that loud or quiet men are not confident of themselves? |
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St☆rStruck (f)
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I'm infatuated the loud ones. Nothing turns me on more than a man who tells the whole world our secrets.
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~Sissy~ (f)
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i prefer the moderate ones, not too loud, not too quite
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Pittbaby (f)
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davilan, or whatever you call yourself , this is a thread that asks for opinions and i dropped my opinion , i did not comment on yours or attack you ,
And you are the one that does not understand , If you have the power of cognitive reasoning , you will understand that what I have simply said is that I will not date a man who is loud for simply being loud ( that shows a look at me attitude). He is not confident enough that people will respect him for who he is without calling attention to it . Neither will I want a wallflower,
Please go and find someone else to harass
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tope2000 (f)
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i prefer the moderate ones, not too loud, not too quiet
I photocopy sissy |
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Treetop20 (m)
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I'm infatuated the loud ones. Nothing turns me on more than a man who tells the whole world our secrets.
your sarcasm is so glaring |
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St☆rStruck (f)
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your sarcasm is so glaring
lol |
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lady bam (f)
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wetin go make me want a loud guy?
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SeXYhOTmOM (f)
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not too quiet and not 2 loud i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet they bore me quickly u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man  |
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davidylan (m)
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davilan, or whatever you call yourself , this is a thread that asks for opinions and i dropped my opinion , i did not comment on yours or attack you ,
And you are the one that does not understand , If you have the power of cognitive reasoning , you will understand that what I have simply said is that I will not date a man who is loud for simply being loud ( that shows a look at me attitude). He is not confident enough that people will respect him for who he is without calling attention to it . Neither will I want a wallflower,
Please go and find someone else to harass
Neither did i attack you, i only expressed on opinion based on what you said . . . not a crime since its a free forum. But what do i expect from airheads anyway. |
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tope2000 (f)
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not too quiet and not 2 loud i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet they bore me quickly u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man u've said it all dear |
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~Sauron~
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i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet
they bore me quickly
u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk
The quiet ones seem to be the intelligent ones in most cases. Empty barrels make the loudest noise. Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man Loud-mouthed ones are irritants. |
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davidylan (m)
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The quiet ones seem to be the intelligent ones in most cases.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
gbam! But i'm not sure girls are really interested in intelligent dudes . . . its all about looks and finance these days. |
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tope2000 (f)
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gbam! But i'm not sure girls are really interested in intelligent dudes . . . its all about looks and finance these days.
Oh pls. . . . quiet dudes bore me to death  Its not only quiet guys that are intelligent  |
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No2Atheism (m)
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not too quiet and not 2 loud i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet
they bore me quickly
u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talkLoud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man @sexuhotmom Ooops , ouch, ich, o ma se o, that means you and I can't hit it off be that ( assuming your husband does not kill me first) ,  , how sad (, dude talking to himself saying: why have you wasted your time scheming knowing that people say you can bore a corpse to death again) |
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davidylan (m)
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Oh pls. . . . quiet dudes bore me to death Its not only quiet guys that are intelligent Have you considered you may be the boring one? Making intelligent conversation is a two-way street not the role of your guy alone. |
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tope2000 (f)
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Have you considered you may be the boring one? Making intelligent conversation is a two-way street not the role of your guy alone.
Lol . . . . u think i want to have a conversation abt his boss at work n the new project he id doing on a date? if we are in serious relationship then yeah . . . but on a date keep your project ideas to urself biko Quiet guys can be BORING . . . . Period  |
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~Sauron~
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Oh pls. . . . quiet dudes bore me to death One can be quiet without boring you to death. Who is a quiet guy? He is the type that doesn't open his mouth unnecessarily and when he decides to talk, he drops science. Of course, being quiet doesn't mean he never talks. . . . . .He is just reserved!!! Its not only quiet guys that are intelligent In most cases, the intelligent ones are often the quiet ones. When u see a dude opening his mouth without fear or fervour, 99% of the things coming out of his mouth is either trash or white elephant lies. Meanwhile, women love the company of the loud mouths, but they rarely date em. |
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SeXYhOTmOM (f)
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gbam! But i'm not sure girls are really interested in intelligent dudes . . . its all about looks and finance these days.
Davo i beg to disagree not all Chic's are interested in just looks and finance i prefer to be with a guy who is very intelligent like u although intelligence and finance go togeda sha ,, than with a rich illiterate The quiet ones seem to be the intelligent ones in most cases.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
Loud-mouthed ones are irritants.
I agree with u here But i kinda blve that guys that are 2 quiet are guys who have no confidence in themselves how can i ggo out with my guy maybe to visit some friends and there is an argument with everybody contributing and he is looking so awkward, Every babe wants a guy dat can take charge which is not a very common attribute among very quiet guys |
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davidylan (m)
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Lol . . . . u think i want to have a conversation abt his boss at work n the new project he id doing on a date? if we are in serious relationship then yeah . . . but on a date keep your project ideas to urself biko Quiet guys can be BORING . . . . Period What are you bringing to the table besides just sitting there waiting for him to chat you up? A lot of you prefer non-quiet guys simply because you cant carry a conversation either. Fact. |
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davidylan (m)
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Davo i beg to disagree not all Chic's are interested in just looks and finance i prefer to be with a guy who is very intelligent although intelligence and finance go togeda sha like u than with a rich illiterate you be correct mama . . . marry me abeg. |
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