How To Correct The Impression That You're A Desperate Man

When a man gets Desperate

I have a question for you guys out there. Supposing you acted desperate ones to a lady and you want to correct that impression, what are the safest methods to do that. Lets for example, you just met a lady and called her immediately maybe two or three times and she already feels you are desperate and she started behaving in that line, you know now, shakara stuff.  What can you do to correct this and what should one really do in order to gain her confidence.

Thank you.

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