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zig $ zag (f)
How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« on: November 02, 2005, 01:08 PM »

pleaze give me advice
adesodgi (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #1 on: November 02, 2005, 02:15 PM »

just take them as they come thats if u dont have one
Seun (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #2 on: November 03, 2005, 01:58 PM »

The fewer the better.
skima (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #3 on: November 03, 2005, 02:22 PM »

Its not how much but how well and fast u are able to learn.

If u need many then u dont wanna learn. Cos having one shouldnt make u go for anoda... unless u wanna be a player.

Player doesnt pay.
nferyn (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #4 on: November 03, 2005, 02:45 PM »

Quote from: Seun on November 03, 2005, 01:58 PM
The fewer the better.
Why?
nferyn (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #5 on: November 03, 2005, 02:46 PM »

As many as she's comfortable with
icingbaby (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #6 on: November 12, 2005, 12:57 AM »

as many that comes her way, before she get marry
allonym
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #7 on: November 15, 2005, 03:55 AM »

she should have as many as it takes to find someone she feels ready to spend the rest of her life with (if that is her goal).  It is the hope of most people that this number will be small because

1) The girl should be learning more about what she wants and how to find it each time
2) If the girl is discarding guys left and right, her goal isn't quite to find someone she is ready, or she has really strict requirements that make it hard for guys to measure up
3) Stupid societal views on women
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #8 on: November 15, 2005, 09:48 AM »

depends
alheri (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #9 on: November 15, 2005, 09:59 AM »

on what?
eveseh (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #10 on: April 25, 2006, 05:36 PM »

for me she must have like 4 Tongue
deb (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #11 on: April 19, 2007, 05:07 PM »

I think 50 will be ok Shocked Cheesy
As long as she does not go past that figure.
I'll be fine
U1 (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #12 on: April 22, 2007, 12:58 PM »

What do you mean?Are you encouraging the ladies to go on f**king spree.Abeg,no spread
AIDS come this side oo.
osegwu (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #13 on: April 22, 2007, 01:02 PM »

The more the merrier
dodowaski (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #14 on: April 22, 2007, 02:37 PM »

One
adeboo (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #15 on: April 22, 2007, 04:00 PM »

Like Seun said, as little as possible.

Its really tempting and we kinda get caught up in being young that we forget that we have a future ahead of us and unfortunately the things we do in our young life kinda has a way of catching up with us.



hot chic (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #16 on: April 22, 2007, 04:41 PM »

Quote from: Seun on November 03, 2005, 01:58 PM
The fewer the better.

I really agree with Seun on this,its makes life easier for you when you settle,you can always open up to your guy and remember guys will keep saying those stuffs even though they are gone,your man will always refer to it,if possible,dont start dating untill you think you are ready for it and make sure that you find out a lot of things about any guy you want to go out with.
kingkams (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #17 on: April 22, 2007, 05:11 PM »

Quote from: adeboo on April 22, 2007, 04:00 PM
Like Seun said, as little as possible.

Its really tempting and we kind of get caught up in being young that we forget that we have a future ahead of us and unfortunately the things we do in our young life kind of has a way of catching up with us.







Talking from experience?
dremoney (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #18 on: May 02, 2007, 02:11 PM »

Quote from: adeboo on April 22, 2007, 04:00 PM
Like Seun said, as little as possible.

Its really tempting and we kind of get caught up in being young that we forget that we have a future ahead of us and unfortunately the things we do in our young life kind of has a way of catching up with us.

wonder d kindda xperience u had.

@topic
30 mayb!!!!
e no dey read metre now Grin


soulpatrol (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #19 on: May 02, 2007, 04:01 PM »

not to promote promiscuity or anything like that  Cool, but i think that when a girl dates different guys, she learns a lot of things not just about the opposite sex, but even about herself, what she wants from a man, how to tolerate things from him etc. i find that when a girl ends up marrying maybe her first love or boyfriend, she ends up with little or no experience about men (and their madness and manipulation Grin), so she may end up being frustrated and bored after a while and looking for something new and fresh. better to have experienced the best of the best. and by no means am i encouraging looseness o.  Cool
hot chic (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #20 on: May 02, 2007, 07:07 PM »

I am going with Seun,the fewer the better.
Ralvy (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #21 on: August 02, 2007, 06:05 PM »

402 :p
Chidi-O (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #22 on: August 03, 2007, 03:42 AM »

As many as it takes her to realize that she can't be on and off with guys the rest of her life. Or until she finds the right guy. Hopefully not just mess around.  Tongue

And yes the fewer the better. Rather have less break-ups then more.
Easybaby (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #23 on: August 03, 2007, 12:22 PM »

I think ,  one . . . . . . . . . .if you know your onions! Cheesy Grin Grin Grin Tongue
jayvin01
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #24 on: August 03, 2007, 12:27 PM »

exact number is 101 thats what the elders says, then u take the 1 ontop as your partner,could be me who knows  Grin Grin


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E-Jaja (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #25 on: August 03, 2007, 01:15 PM »

there is no award for highest no of boyfriends but the questio is wat name come after u have datedmore than 50 boy b4 age 30 and when u get married  most of the boys u dated now are your husband friends how would u feel

so be cuatious when it come to dating max should be 10
delegirl (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #26 on: August 03, 2007, 03:29 PM »

hello girl
as many as u can, since u can keep them u don't have any problem keep it up    Cry
Chidi-O (m)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #27 on: August 03, 2007, 03:32 PM »

Quote from: delegirl on August 03, 2007, 03:29 PM
hello girl
as many as u can, since u can keep them u don't have any problem keep it up    Cry

I don't think "as many as you can" is a good advice alone.  Tongue
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #28 on: August 03, 2007, 03:44 PM »

If you dont aim to learn from your relationships, you will have a lot of boyfriends. After the first 2 or 3 proper relationships, you should have a very/fairly good idea of what you want from a man. That way you know how to take your pick from all the guys that come your way.

Good luck babe.
faa (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #29 on: August 03, 2007, 03:46 PM »

I'll go with seun on this one.
soulpatrol (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #30 on: August 04, 2007, 03:04 PM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on August 03, 2007, 03:44 PM
If you don't aim to learn from your relationships, you will have a lot of boyfriends. After the first 2 or 3 proper relationships, you should have a very/fairly good idea of what you want from a man. That way you know how to take your pick from all the guys that come your way.

Good luck babe.

na the same thing wey i dey talk be dat, thank u jare. after a couple of relationships, at least a girl would realize what she wants, what she can't/shouldn't tolerate, and from there she can narrow down all the losers that may come her way.
angelchi (f)
Re: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage?
« #31 on: August 04, 2007, 07:17 PM »

As many as u can handle Grin n remember 2 protect urself.
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