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moskey
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Please!!! I need your opinion guys.
Every time am having sex with my gurl, in the next 5min I will release. so I need your advice guys what to use before the sex next time so that I can use upto like 20-30min.
I think u guys understood me.
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nosa101 (m)
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Just stick to wanking  Sex just aint for you |
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drrionelli (m)
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@moskey:
May I ask your age? Or, more pertinently, how long have you been sexually active? I ask not for prurient interest, but rather because often inexperienced people are so caught up in the heat of the passion, they lose control.
Please remember to take your time. Sex is not a race to be won, but rather a shared activity to be enjoyed and savoured by all parties involved. Of course, you might wish to see a doctor just to rule out any potential physical problems.
Consider this as well: If you are planning to have sex, why not masturbate an hour or so before you do? This will help you last longer so you will be comfortable taking the time to explore how you must pace yourself to please your partner as well as yourself.
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segun111 (m)
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@Moskey,
To prevent quick ejaculation I will recommend that you masturbate before intercourse in that way you will last longer because for a man who ejaculates it takes 20 mins to refill the sperm and within that 20 minutes you can do other thing like curesing your partner. Good luck,
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yeankah (m)
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well make use of the stop and start, that works fine.
just as soon as you feel it comming squeeze the top of your d**ck with your finger i.e your thumb and 2nd finger. try that and get back okay.wish you good luck
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drrionelli (m)
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If I might also note that a slight pull of the scrotum will also delay an ejaculation.
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ikamefa (f)
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its all about guys in here!  let me scoot |
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drrionelli (m)
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@ikamefa:
I hope you are not offended by the nature of this topic, my good lady. It is not meant to embarrass you or anyone else for that matter. Rather, this is something that many males do, unfortunately, experience from time to time.
Indeed, if I may ask, do you (or any of you other ladies) have any suggestions as to how this fellow might help alleviate his difficulty? Surely, this affects you as well, so please don't be shy with your comments.
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ikamefa (f)
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@ drrionelli you have given the best post so far on this thread, i would not add or take away from your post, its based on self control @topic should learn to control himself ,  thats all |
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drrionelli (m)
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Why, thank you! Your words are very kind and much appreciated!
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yeankah (m)
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@Moskey, To prevent quick ejaculation I will recommend that you masturbate before intercourse in that way you will last longer because for a man who ejaculates it takes 20 mins to refill the sperm and within that 20 minutes you can do other thing like curesing your partner. Good luck, don't you think if you do such, you won't last a round and your d***ck goes raw like a rotten tomatoe after ejaculation.  think about it okay.  |
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Honey_pot (m)
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guys please i'm so glad to see this topic. i have not been into sex but have been afraid of this pre mature ejaculation after reading so much about it. please does staying long during sex come naturally with experience/practice? please can someone share his experience, like how long it took u to start lasting up to 20 mins or more and what u personally did?
at any time i consider starting an active sex life, will it be better to begin with an inexperienced girl or an experienced girl? please your advice will be highly appreciated
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naija4life (f)
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:-XYouths of nowadays, always talking about sex and sex and SEX!!! 
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Honey_pot (m)
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wetin dey worry u, naija4life, i'm not a youth, i'm in my very late 20's. guys please advice me if u have something to say
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naija4life (f)
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Ok then, temporarily, i think masturbation some minutes before da sex act itself aint bad. That will at lease give yu some time to recuperate and last longer. Again, you may try removing ur mind completely from da act as in start thinking about sumthn eg: You can start composing an essay in ur mind. I don't really knoe because i've never xperienced premature ejaculation before. I always last at 30 mins minCheers mate, all's not lost  |
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Honey_pot (m)
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thanks mate, wow u are the man, 30 mins!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope to come to full speed when i start getting down
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drrionelli (m)
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Really, all of this is somewhat moot when one considers that what primarily matters is that both parties involved are satisfied. That might take two minutes or it might take two hours. Regardless, as long as the participants have enjoyed it and are amenable to it. Remember, sex isn't a sprint, nor is it a marathon. Unless, of course, you and the person(s) with whom you're doing it choose for it to be! |
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sisqology
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Knw how to control yourself! I use to last 40mins on a gurl,
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iz2much (m)
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The advice so far had been the bomb, you have said it all, but you forgot to tell the guy to try some drinks like Horse body, Dion Sepe and Awoka
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ndumart
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Just keep pumping but get ur minds of it
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jp philips (m)
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u dey come like chicken?
sorry o !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u re now a competitor to our
local fowl
anycase pray before fucking , it works for me
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jp philips (m)
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u dey come like chicken?
sorry o !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u re now a competitor to our
local fowl
anycase pray before fucking , it works for me
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lionheart (m)
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Let me add my 2 kobo , While you're having sex with your partner, take a little break just as you're about to reach your "point of no return" and climax. Try to relax for about 20 or 30 seconds, and then start again. Most women don't like the little breaks during 20 to 30 seconds , so you can get creative by playing with her Clit or licking it with your tongue while ur fingers are playing with her nipples , meanwhile u should be ready to go again , then continue your love making .
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Uby40 (m)
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@ Poster.
i hope these answers ur question.
Exercise #1: Squeezing The Tip
During intercourse, take a quick break and squeeze the base of your privates with your thumb and index finger. Maintain the pressure until you feel the impulse to ejaculate has decreased. Then, release the squeeze, wait 10 seconds and resume intercourse. This will train your body to withhold the tendency to ejaculate.
Exercise #2: On Your Back
Many men report that they are able to control their orgasms more effectively by lying on their back while their partner is positioned on top of them. This may reduce the sensitivity in your privates and help to stop premature ejaculation. Every man is different, though. Test different positions with your partner to find the one that works best for you.
Exercise #3: Get A Head Start
If you have the time, masturbate a couple of hours before you expect to have intercourse with your partner. Most men agree that they can last longer after their first orgasm. Reasons vary about why your body has this reaction. Ultimately, the first orgasm dispense much of the built up excitement and anxiety that you may have been feeling prior to having intercourse. After ejaculating through masturbation, you can relax and enjoy intercourse with your partner while maintaining a longer-lasting erection.
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stevemeks
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just pray, because prayers changes situatons
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bob-bobby (m)
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/\ | | DUDE - seems like you ve lost road , you are totally in a wrong side of the forest ! @ poster , this is not a problem but a healthy sign which proves that all your parts are doing well , all very active , sensitive and stimulative to your partners touch and activities . dr indeed very well explained in his post , masturbation is one of the best solution to this but in my opinion if you have time with your partner you must go for a second round . first might be a quicky because of the heat inside , second one you can just chill enjoy each other and take it easy. i enjoy my second round more then my first and don't loose concentration or enjoyment just after you ve ejaculated for the first time. take first as a league and second as a FINAL |
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sistawoman (f)
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My ex-boyfriend told me that he would wait until the tickle man came calling then he would think of something else to make his privates go simi soft and start again. His privates would go from hard hard to simi soft through out the time we were making love. Changing positons is another stalling tactic used by him as well. Also stoping to eat me or telling me to stop moaning. There are also certian triggers that will make a guy come no matter what he tries and when your girl figures that out you are lost you will come no matter what.
There would always come a time about 45 mins that he could not hold off the tickle man but by that time i was fully satisfied and it was all good.
But speaking from a woman's perpective after that long you really don't want to go for round two. So about 20-30 mins for me is great for a first round then i can wait a bit and hit round two, three, four etc.
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maggy69 (f)
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My ex-boyfriend told me that he would wait until the tickle man came calling then he would think of something else to make his privates go simi soft and start again. His privates would go from hard hard to simi soft through out the time we were making love. Changing positons is another stalling tactic used by him as well. Also stoping to eat me or telling me to stop moaning. There are also certian triggers that will make a guy come no matter what he tries and when your girl figures that out you are lost you will come no matter what.
There would always come a time about 45 mins that he could not hold off the tickle man but by that time i was fully satisfied and it was all good.
But speaking from a woman's perpective after that long you really don't want to go for round two. So about 20-30 mins for me is great for a first round then i can wait a bit and hit round two, three, four etc.
i totally agree with these bold italics. because ia practice them like everytime. |
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dialatribe
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Fixating on the problem is a problem in itself - putting pictures in your head of things that turn you off will allow you to pleasure your lady longer.
Many have given you good advice - though no one has mentioned pressing / squeezing the shaft near its root with the scrotum - there are rings to aid erection but also advertise they help with this issue!
I also had a white friend who had this problem and he used hypnosis to cure it!!
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badblood13 (m)
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My ex-boyfriend told me that he would wait until the tickle man came calling then he would think of something else to make his privates go simi soft and start again. His privates would go from hard hard to simi soft through out the time we were making love. Changing positons is another stalling tactic used by him as well. Also stoping to eat me or telling me to stop moaning. There are also certian triggers that will make a guy come no matter what he tries and when your girl figures that out you are lost you will come no matter what.
There would always come a time about 45 mins that he could not hold off the tickle man but by that time i was fully satisfied and it was all good.
But speaking from a woman's perpective after that long you really don't want to go for round two. So about 20-30 mins for me is great for a first round then i can wait a bit and hit round two, three, four etc.
you are correct but a guy suffering from delayed ejaculation problem or one high on viagra wont come till you either have multiple orgasm or start getting dry and hurting |
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PERO79 (m)
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It's a painful experience,& very embarassing,but takig drugs is never the best solution 2 it,
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BangBang! (m)
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how to stop quick ejaculation is to use one's common sense! |
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