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endure (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #224 on: June 28, 2007, 01:05 PM »

Hey Sueme, u must be a hard type then. But do u consider what happens if u should slap him especially when both of u are alone?
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #225 on: June 28, 2007, 05:20 PM »

Slap who Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked me LMFAO not in this lifetime

My guy respect so much Wink Wink Wink, so slapping is one thing he will never.

toyee
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #226 on: June 28, 2007, 05:54 PM »

what did u just say slap; did i hear say slap.offcourse u slap your own back.what nonsense.do it and he will never try its again Angry Angry Angry Grin
Vicjustice (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #227 on: July 08, 2007, 08:01 PM »

 Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Vicjustice (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #228 on: July 08, 2007, 08:04 PM »

Quote from: endure on June 26, 2007, 05:13 PM
@nyabinghi
Are u a male or female? or better still, are u a female in male clothings
or a gay in female apparel? Which?

The point of hitting and slapping back to me seem a barbaric act; how then
would u define fighting if u would have to respond by slapping or spike back?

Fighting is animalistic and allien in a relationship, people who do that are considered
irresponsible; remember, two wrongs nevr makes a ryt. To me, one party should be calm
so that the temper of the other can be calmed too.

How do u see this; when she slaps u, look straight to her eyes, pull her close and give her
a deep kiss;  Tongue what do u think will happen? Wink

Endure, you're a man, if i had a sister, i would have given her to you, you're a real dude, not like the barbaric Nyabinghi who doesn't understand things. But what do you expect from someone who sees his father regularly beating the shit out of his mother?
  I was compelled to check his profile for his photo to see if he actually looks the barbaric guy in appearance, but sure, he'd be too ashamed to display his photo.
  People should understand that a woman who slaps a man did so out of frustrations, not because she can physically beat him up. So, whoever revenges and hit back is not a real man: a real man should hold his peace and understand her feelings.
  He who physically beats a woman abuses his physical features: You've been made physically stronger than your woman so that you may protect her, not to beat her.
wifeypenth (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #229 on: July 08, 2007, 09:29 PM »

I USED to be a very stuborn persn and if he slaps me,then i must av provokd hm,we girls cud b naggy at times.we even hit first and when d guy raises his fist we say "HE SLAPPED ME!"
if i boyfrend slaps me,which i don't pray 4 oooh! Its no big deal
wifeypenth (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #230 on: July 08, 2007, 09:31 PM »

I USED to be a very stuborn persn and if he slaps me,then i must av provokd hm,we girls cud b naggy at times.we even hit first and when d guy raises his fist we say "HE SLAPPED ME!"
if i boyfrend slaps me,which i don't pray 4 oooh! Its no big deal
Esss (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #231 on: July 08, 2007, 09:38 PM »

WETIN!! She slap who??  She dey crase?? She smoke winch??  Na ehn be say she get power. I go fight am like say we be age mate.
Vicjustice (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #232 on: July 08, 2007, 11:07 PM »

wifeypenth, are you the one on the photo? You're sooooo cool, what a sweetie Wink
N-joy (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #233 on: July 09, 2007, 06:16 AM »

I can't speak from experience, but if my man slaps me during a heated argument I sure will walk out on him. It's only a weak man that lashes out at a woman. Nag or no nag no one has the right to slap the other. It's all about control. No be every little thing the man/woman go sey i go slap some sense into head.
dwed
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #234 on: August 22, 2007, 06:31 AM »

i will definitely return it with 21 slaps. why should he slap me in the first place, we saod argument not physical punch
Nella (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #235 on: August 26, 2007, 01:26 PM »

OMO! I go kill am!!!!! no wasting of time!! say na who born am?Huh!
toplass (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #236 on: August 26, 2007, 10:44 PM »

my lover slaps me over an argument, i am gone for good Cry
GoodFairy (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #237 on: August 26, 2007, 11:31 PM »

I have zero tolerance for physical or emotional abuse!  Slapping is physical abuse and is violent behavior. If a man ever did this to me. That would be the end of the relationship. I would walk-away/ran away wihtout a moment of hestitation!

If he does it once you can bet he'll do it again and again no matter how much he may apoligize.

There is never/ever an excuse for physical violence.
yewa-man (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #238 on: August 27, 2007, 01:17 PM »

sinning a song

hit the road jill and donot you come back no more x 4
hit the road jill and donot you come back no more
yewa-man (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #239 on: August 27, 2007, 01:20 PM »

singing a song

hit the road jill and donot you come back no more x 4
hit the road jill and donot you come back no more 


theffanyi (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #240 on: September 07, 2007, 03:30 PM »

       aaaaaa, Angry lai lai lai, Angry never, never Angry, me i go RAPE AM.

ITS ME
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bjcisse
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #241 on: November 06, 2007, 05:14 PM »

oga legry!!!!!!!!

e bi like say you don dey watch too much of American films.

Na naija we dey,  be more original

for me, most guys up said what i'll do already. 
mekoyo (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #242 on: March 12, 2008, 09:45 AM »

Walk out of the place immediately without a word.
mekoyo (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #243 on: March 12, 2008, 10:01 AM »

Quote
Endure, you're a man, if i had a sister, i would have given her to you, you're a real dude, not like the barbaric Nyabinghi who doesn't understand things. But what do you expect from someone who sees his father regularly beating the shit out of his mother?
  I was compelled to check his profile for his photo to see if he actually looks the barbaric guy in appearance, but sure, he'd be too ashamed to display his photo.
  People should understand that a woman who slaps a man did so out of frustrations, not because she can physically beat him up. So, whoever revenges and hit back is not a real man: a real man should hold his peace and understand her feelings.
  He who physically beats a woman abuses his physical features: You've been made physically stronger than your woman so that you may protect her, not to beat her.

I feel you!!!
PurestBoy (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #244 on: March 12, 2008, 03:01 PM »

If she slapped me once, I'll give her two so that next time she dare not try it.
PERVERT9
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #245 on: March 12, 2008, 08:58 PM »

i will do as we were told in the bible TURN THE OTHER CHEEK
chamotex (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #246 on: March 13, 2008, 12:10 AM »

Gongo Aso
zheroes (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #247 on: March 13, 2008, 09:30 AM »

A lot of people said they will walk away, i guess that is easier said considering the reactions we get here over minor issues, its the most appropriate thing to do anyway, and that is exactly what i will do , but in the first instance i cannot be with any animal that can slap.
zheroes (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #248 on: March 13, 2008, 09:37 AM »

i recall a similar incidence when i went to a restaurant some two years ago, a guy and his girlfriend walked in arguing, before those of us standing in the queue could comprehend why any decent fellow should be yelling in public, the girlfriend gave the boyfriend a good slap, guess what happened? the boyfriend started crying, i guess it wasn't because of the pain but because his girl could do this in public, not long after that she too started crying and they both held themselves and left the restaurant, it was the greatest LIVE DRAMA i I've ever witnessed, it became the talk in the restaurant for a week.
cixluv (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #249 on: March 20, 2008, 11:44 AM »

TO COOL OFF, WE WILL HAVE HOT SEX

Cool Cool Cool Grin
tulk2mi
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #250 on: April 10, 2008, 03:32 PM »

make I look well evrybody just dey walk away,  4 naija na lie, truth no dey here.
Unless we don kolonise , or  our pally them be oyinbo all of us no fit walk away.

For me i no be gentleman go reach that level, though i never slap woman before seriously against and believe  say when d thing wey dey sweet us come begin bitter like this it is time to move on so,

 I go make sure say she prefer say trailer jam am for the beating wey she go recieve so that when she meet small boy sef she go think twice be she attempt not to talk of slap. no nonsense. Shocked Sad
ashe2 (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #251 on: April 10, 2008, 04:15 PM »

Endure, Mekoyo and Vicjustice u guys are the bomb i just de feel una words from he re
ibkaye (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #252 on: April 10, 2008, 04:17 PM »

Is he INSANE? Slap who? The way my legs would just stretch towards that exit door, it's bye bye loser!  Shocked
$$Rhino
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #253 on: April 10, 2008, 04:18 PM »

Then bang your head against the wall and cry, because if have no idea what to do when slapped during an arguement with your mate, then, u are not old enough to even use the computer.
Sweet T (m)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #254 on: April 10, 2008, 04:33 PM »

@Ibkaye

If any Negro slaps you, call me. He will regret ever been born.  Cool
ibkaye (f)
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument
« #255 on: April 10, 2008, 04:33 PM »

Quote from: Sweet T on April 10, 2008, 04:33 PM
@Ibkaye

If any Negro slaps you, call me. He will regret ever been born. Cool
lol definately will  Wink Grin Cool
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