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CimonJorr (m)
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Ain't no Nigga gon raise his hands up on me. Infact raise your voice, and heaven will know some people are fighting. Seriously it's just total abuse when someone raises his hands on someone else. Personally, if a guy raises his hands on me (better yet, not my husband..just a fucking lover), OH me gosh, he's gon regret doing that (Noo....noo, I ain't gon beat him back, I am not as strong as that). When he slaps me, I will look at him and walk out of his house, pick up my cellphone and dial 911. The police will come and get him, and then he can start bailing himself out. Between that's the end of me and him. (I could go behind him and break the galsses of his car)  . americana....   |
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Greatpeter (m)
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No, Great Peter! The right man has not showed up yet o! Join me and fast Abi you no be my brother in Christ and for Nairaland. Dont worry! When he shows up, rice and stew will be too much for every member of the forum, including 'take-away' I pray Mr Right will come it could even be on this forum. Me too still dey shine my eyes ooo. So we be same same. Dablessed God dey. |
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dablessed (f)
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Thanks Greatpeter,
Abeg shine those eyes well well o! Its worth the wait! Certainly, God dey!
Did I hear anyone's AMEN?
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pkrix (m)
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If she does? That will be fantastic unless I do not love her. I will simply tell her to do it again because I love it.
But subsequently, I will go on pouncing strike until she apologizes with a sincerity as true as tears rolling down her chicks
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dominobaby (f)
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Did I hear anyone's AMEN?
A M E N |
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love4ever (f)
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na what are you guys saying amen that was the truth
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IAH (f)
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If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
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legry (m)
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tell her ,o freakkyy baybeee gee mee some more of that sugar hit
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IAH (f)
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tell her ,o freakkyy baybeee gee mee some more of that sugar hit
You remind me of somebody that said he finds it "sexy" to be slapped by his girlfriend. Imagine that! |
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Pinky (f)
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If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
if u can do this to him then he was probably nevr your boyfriend or u never felt a thing for him...girlie, wrong+wrong=very wrong don't try such a thing my dear, & if he's a guy u love, if he comes begging for forgiveness i bet u will forgive him unless u've been looking for excuses to drop him off sinceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee |
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mamba (m)
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If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
if you can do this to him then he was probably nevr your boyfriend or you never felt a thing for him...girlie, wrong+wrong=very wrong don't try such a thing my dear, & if he's a guy you love, if he comes begging for forgiveness I bet you will forgive him unless you've been looking for excuses to drop him off sinceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Most people, after realizing that it was wrong to have slapped their lover will come back to plead for forgiveness. If it's a first slap then it's worth forgiving. |
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Pinky (f)
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If it's a first slap then it's worth forgiving.
so mamba, what if its the 3rd? |
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IAH (f)
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But really there are times when you men deserve to be slapped.
Yes, this is very true. Some men deserve to be slapped hard! I'm not talking about your boyfriend o, but some men other than one's lover really do deserve it. For ladies who say they can never slap a guy, just put yourself in a situation where the nastiest and most disgusting guy on this planet taps your ass with his rotten hand. What would you do? Won't you give him that resounding slap and let your fingers mark his face? @Pinky, My love no dey tey. If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit. |
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mamba (m)
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so mamba, what if its the 3rd?
I don't expect anybody to wait for a 3rd slap. After the 2nd one just bail..... |
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bolasho (m)
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@Pinky, My love no dey tey. If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit. Ha! IAH, well its obvious that you have not been inlove before. And lets put it this way, you guys are married with kids, you will leave him(pack out of the house) and still arrange thugs to beat him (the father of your kid(s)). Lets be more realistic here ooooo |
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tayotina (f)
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@Pinky, My love no dey tey. If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit.
IAH, then you don't know what love means. I tell you, even if he beats you to a pulp and later begs for forgiveness, if you truly love him, I tell you, you would forgive him and forget it. That is how love works. It's like magic. |
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IAH (f)
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Not everybody is capable of falling MADLY in love. Especially people that their hearts have been broken before.
Gone are the days when love used to be blind, now Love has eyes, nose and mouth. It sees, smells and tastes the stuff.
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tayotina (f)
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Then maybe you can just say, when you like somebody. Don't call it love because love forgives. I have ever been heart broken. It was so serious girl, I thought I was going to die. But that doesn't mean when my boyfriend slaps me now, I have to develop a strong hatred for him. Then I don't love him at all. Am I making a point?
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legs (f)
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love doesn't dish out slaps very easily either so maybe we should check the boyfriend [or girlfriend... ] that appears to have such brutish tendencies! |
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IAH (f)
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love doesn't dish out slaps very easily either so maybe we should check the boyfriend [or girlfriend... ] that appears to have such brutish tendencies! Thank you! Great point! @tayotina, maybe you didn't learn from the previous heartbreak. If you learnt, you won't take nonsense from any boy again EVER! |
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tayotina (f)
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C'mon let's get real here, it might not be a deliberate act. I mean no man in his right senses would lift up his hand to strike a woman. It could be a mistake. Anything could have led to that slap. It could even be that the lady pushed him so hard.
Do you think it's easy for a man to slap his woman just like that? You tell me.
IAH, I have never been slapped by a man and what actually led to our break up, you don't know.
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bolasho (m)
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C'mon let's get real here, it might not be a deliberate act. I mean no man in his right senses would lift up his hand to strike a woman. It could be a mistake. Anything could have led to that slap. It could even be that the lady pushed him so hard.
Do you think it's easy for a man to slap his woman just like that? You tell me.
IAH, I have never been slapped by a man and what actually led to our break up, you don't know.
Thank you so much Tayo, I have said it before Life is not a play/film where there is script whereby everybody plays to the words in the script. He/she may never had dreamt of slaping you before but as human as we can be we can do things we never thought of doing. so if he realised he's done something wrong he should be forgiven. I have seen couple (married) who were best of friends and something lead to an arguement between them and the wife slaps the guy, somehow they settled the issue and they have been living together (stonger than before). |
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Motee (f)
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Well if that is the way to shut you up then not too bad but it is wrong men.. Watch your temperament. Do not give what you wont take
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nike4luv (f)
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i think evry1 is walking away and i agree that that is how it should be because if u fight back its gon lead to another violent encounter
if my lover slaps me in which he would never think about doing, i'm going to hold the spot for about 20secons and am out of his face
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angelmike (m)
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Allah kiayie! i will so abandon her that even the sovereign national conference will not be able to come to a compromise over the matter....seriously speaking it will take more than "I'm sorry" to bring me back to my normal self.
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Greatpeter (m)
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So what will bring you back?
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Latoya (f)
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haha,i dey like this type of trouble.u slap me,i will turn around and slap u twice that is left and right and harder,that is it.
I wont take shit from a so called lover.That doesnt mean we will braek up,it was just a misunderstanding,when we get together again and he repeats the same thing then i will give him an everlasting mark,i will make sure he always remembers me and he will learn never to hit a woman again,that is just the final stage of our relationship.We just going to break up.
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gina34 (f)
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well if mu guy slaps me .
i will sipmle walk away.
and i will never go back to him unless he apologies to me.
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tega4tj (m)
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Dis on strong oo!!! Wel if my partner slaps me due to lack of self control, do you know what I'll do??? I'll remain motionless for some minutes, smile the devil out of me and leave immediately, for the devil in me, might come back to take charge. For the next few weeks, I'll be a spirit before her as I'll ignore her every move, but then she has to pay the ultimate price for reconciliation......  |
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layi (m)
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I've said this in a previous thread. My lover slaps me. Men the love isnt there. I'll simply walk away.
Argument is just misunderstanding.It doesnt warrants slaps for heaven sake.
Once that happens. I'm off for good. i don't need to slap her back. Its achieves nothing.
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spicy4real (f)
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if he should slap me over an arguement i would use that opportunity to leave him alone because if we finally tie the knots he would use me as a punching bag and it won't be nice
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twinkledew (f)
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slap him back Just kidding |
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