well! t start with this./
love is about having deep feelings that comes from within that when u see that person there is this peace of mind and urge to be with that person all day long ,you don't even want to leave that person's side for a second.
Now comnig to you, you have to love yourself first before you can love anyone, check deep within your heart, there is an hetared you have for ladies, check deep within your heart if any lady has done anything worng to you? then it has originated from that and if not, u are scared of been commited to a lady, heartbreak and ETC. except if you can create that space for love you cannot let your wife enjoy marrige,marriage is to be enjoyed not endured ok. don't do what u will have to regret because onces you are in you can't come out,its like a sting for a life time, u might get in and see someone you love and wnat to run out and make the lady miserable. if you hhave more questiond mail me
blackberry2regulate2@yahoo.com.i will reply you. i don't come into narialnad always.
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[b][/ b]Can somebody explain to me what is love. I asked this question simply because i'm a guy of 28years and i've never feel for any girl all my life despite the fact that i've been with not less than 15 girls. Personally, i don't read meaning to marriage. All we need in life is money and freedom. Right now i'm planning to go into contract marriage just for 5years; without 'issue'. Can somebody please tell me why we should create unnecesary borden for urselves. To me, i think is time for us in Africa to free urselves from slavery. waitin 4 ur reply please.
