Guys: Can You Cry In Front Of Yours Girlfriend.

Can you cry in Front of your Girlfriend If she Hurt you so deeply and tears just drop from your eyes in front of your girlfriend and she walk away from you.

I don't know any guys that cry that easily, but when they do it's often about something deep. !! (like the death of a loved one-which makes sense)! 


Gets to you like how hun? 

awwww, I know what you mean. Especially when it's not something they do often. 

if he cries cause i hurt him
ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thats not good
i will feel sooooooo sad
wait a min this applies to both male or female
infact this thread isnt meant for the babes but guys
am out of here

Oh hellllll nooooooooooooooooo

say wetin happen?
I never cry since my JSS days. e be like say water don finis 4 ma eye

lol whaaaaT ? lol _{you got that right}

Yes I did once but that was about 6yrs ago, when I was a fresherman in the University .

She really hurt me and the tears kept flowing and she was moved emotionally and had to hold me tightly and sincerely begged for 4giveness.

That nite we had it(S*x)like never b4.

But , Guys b4 u cry b4 your GF make sure she loves u deeply else, If u cry in front of her, she may slap u on top of it.

So be aware!!!!!!!!!

Never cried since i started showering myself, belonged to the Man-Chester-11 group in school where we used to chest the flogging punishments. Didnt cry when i lost family, Money, or even babes. Honestly, i dont think i'm capable of crying!

I want to post topic can any one give me clue or prosidure

Never!

by cry , wat do u mean?? just tear drops from your eyes, or you doing  that baa-baaa-baa-boo-boo-booo thing. If you mean tear drops, i can do that in front of anybody, even my kids (coz i am human), but that baa-baaa-baa-boo-boo-booo thing --NEVER, not in the presence of anybody,

Cry ke, on top wetin, ko jo!

And what planet are you from!!!

I have heard it all,  a man who feels that he couldnt cry in front of a lady would always live on his ego such person would always feel insecure about himself and such person would live a life of bragging or bravado,  a man who can cry (not a cry baby) shows a sensitive side of himself! in Africa we were brain-washed that crying is a sign of weakness, most ladies feel that a weak man normally cries, such lady would always falls into the hands of a guy who would beat the living daylight out her,  Men are known as the less emotional sex; they are bastions of stability; the rock in the middle of a storm; unflappably cool no matter what the circumstance. Of course, it’s not wrong for men to get emotional. It’s unhealthy to keep one’s feelings bottled up and shoved deep down inside. But when is it okay for a man to display his emotions through crying?


Medieval Japanese and European epics are chock full of male crying. The great warriors in both Beowulf and the Tale of Heiki cry buckets over both great spiritual questions and the death of comrades. The warriors in such stories are expected to cry about issues of war, peace, and ideals, while the women weep over romantic and platonic relationships or out of general sadness, loneliness, or frustration.

Up through the Romantic Era, a permissive, even celebratory attitude toward male crying prevailed. Popular culture was of full of sentimental literature and art featuring men and women falling into each other’s arms and bathing one another with their tears. Tears were seen as proof of a man’s sincerity, honesty, and integrity. The Enlightenment ushered in a more rational ideal of manhood. Tears came to be seen not as an unmitigated virtue, but as sometimes manipulative, illogical, and false.

During the Victorian Era, those virtues thought to be exclusively feminine in nature were celebrated. Women were seen as dainty and fragile, full or emotion and love. Tears have always had a vulnerable and submissive quality to them, and began to be seen as more befitting a man than a woman. As the 20th century emerged, the ideal of the tearless male emerged with it.