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graciella (f)
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@ Sistawoman
There was no fight. I just sent him a mail. Thanks for your help so far; i also sent u a mail
God bless u
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dabriggs (m)
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He wants to start missiing you before you leave for school so that when you finally leave, he would have gotten used to you not being around thats all. Some guys think like this and they actually think this works. But at the end it hurts the lady who doesnt know what on earth she did to make him avoid her/treat her so! So I still think sistawoman is right and talking from experience too. Tell him how you feel without hurting his feelings. Tell him if it was an emergency that concerned him so much you would not have been able to get accross to him beacuse he was avoiding you etc etc. You are a lady you know what he likes to hear when he comes around. Weave your case around him but never blaming him or accusing him of not carring.  |
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alfchye (m)
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Just cut his privates and that will be all.No more trouble
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Sasha009 (f)
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You dont need to punish a guy for not doing the things he promised to do, like not calling you when he said he will. Give it time, and if he breaks his promises consistently, you have to understand that he may be busy depending on his job, if that's not the case, talk to him one on one, and let him know gently how you feel, make your concerns knwn to him, if after all these he doesn't change, then maybe he's not the one for you my friend. Move on.
Remember punishment/revenge backfires. it may come back to bite you in the ass, so stay clear of it, and move on to someone who will appreciate you better, its his loss!
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Sasha009 (f)
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@sistawoman, you re kinda wise. How old re you if i may ask  |
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izeek (m)
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@SAHSA,
she's in her mid 30's.
its all about maturity not age.
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queen01 (f)
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i like her, i mean sistawoman, d way she replies n everything bout her is just (maturity),  |
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saintauch (m)
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Superwoman, oh sorry sistawoman; hope the way u talk also connotes the way u act!!!
Just wondering.
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sistawoman
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@sistawoman, you re kinda wise. How old re you if i may ask 34 Superwoman, oh sorry sistawoman; hope the way u talk also connotes the way u act!!!
Just wondering.
I walk the walk as good as I talk the talk. But that is now with years of experience and trail and error under my belt. I have the war scars to prove it. |
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harddrive (m)
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sistawoman, you are a blessing to this forum but so many in here do not know. for me my advice is that you just learn to communicate with him,if he does not not know how to then teach him and and if you would ask me,it will even make him love you the more i, i wish you good luck in your r/s. You don't need to punish a guy for not doing the things he promised to do, like not calling you when he said he will. Give it time, and if he breaks his promises consistently, you have to understand that he may be busy depending on his job, if that's not the case, talk to him one on one, and let him know gently how you feel, make your concerns know to him, if after all these he doesn't change, then maybe he's not the one for you my friend. Move on.
Remember punishment/revenge backfires. it may come back to bite you in the ass, so stay clear of it, and move on to someone who will appreciate you better, its his loss!
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