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MyAfriplac
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The question you should ask yourself is "Love or lust". I do not believe it is possible for a woman to be emotionally involved with two men. A woman usually will give her heart to one man and could lust after another but love 2 men, tsk, tsk, tsk. You are with the new guy because he satisfies you emotionally since the other one is not there to satisfy your needs.
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arianne (f)
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Babes, it has everything to do with morals.
Where is the self-control?
Are u saying there is an excuse for a woman to sleep with a man because she is at her lowest ebb?
What's that excuse?
my dear, read my post again. i never said its an excuse and i never said being vunerable makes it right. am only highlighting the tendency to feel that way as possible as against ur comment. |
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adex285 (m)
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Yeah.to come to think of it,adetutu how come you got yo self innvolved in thie kind of situation.firstly you ve been with a guy for the past 4-5 years as it was stated.tell me don't you think thatz a cheat on you many years boy.for the 2nd guy i guess it lust not really love.is jst for that fact that you are seeing him and probably is always around you when you needed him doesn't mean he loves you like the other guy.i believe if you can give your self a good thought/thinking the first don't really derserve what you are doing to him.any way i can chooose for ya that all i could say.jst keep yo head straight and wish best of luck,
But girls shaaaaaaaaaaaa,
Shhhhhhhhhh, shut up bro don't make her feel bad.
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kufreabasi (m)
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Adetutu 21,you are the cause of your problems, you are a home braker? why didn't you maintained your first boyfriend? how old are you?
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smooooooth
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@post a confirmation that girls are as horny and as much a cheat as guys, after 4yrs, just when the boyfriend can't give the usual attention,probably because he is making money for both of then, they run around looking for any loose privates, just to satisfy their lust,and they think they are in love  .pity! a guy will do same but wont mix his feelings,now who's better. My advise,please leave your old boyfriend,guy's too good for ya, because when married,while he gets busier because the kids start arriving, you may find the attention u seek in OKON, the houseboy |
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Debbito (m)
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Here the problem lies in between both parties. Well i think she might want to compare both  |
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fsudoka
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well adetutu,u case is same s mine, my girl was d one having two guys, but if i were to b a girl,i wuld always love d ist guy i have met before anyoda guy,he will always b d 1st and no one should b compared wit him, so my advice to u now is that u kip ur head straight and always go 4 ur 1st guy ok? takiaaaaaa
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hardknocks (m)
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With our Nigerian ladies. Its very possible. Love one 4 his wits, another for his looks, the third for his money,Another for his sexuality etc. |
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babalola s (m)
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what ever good your hand findeth do it, i just hope you will not dig your grave yourself
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jkpretty (f)
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Hell yeah, its possible to have deep feelings for two people, which could possibly be termed as love. But the truth is one will definitely have some qualities which outshines the other.
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Cayon (f)
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You are living dangerously. But the only honorable thing to do is to break it off with both of them, and then examine yourself. Why did you do this? When you figure that out you might be ready to try to find love again. But you are obviously not ready
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Udode (f)
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if you think you love two guys at the same time, you should start looking for a new one. cause 4 neither one of them you have enought love to let the other one goe!!! there is more than two men in this world, so just don't satisfy yourself too quick! there is a cover for every bottle, if you know what I'm trying to say!
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Mesmerize (f)
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. . .and with this post, why do we still wonder why some relationships dnt last long?  |
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francessby (f)
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There,s no way you can love the two guys equally so choose the one you love and stick your fucking ass with him  |
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nekkyo (f)
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i think ur paying for ur lack of faithfullness and concentration on ur fisrt relationship, because no two persons are the same u must find something different with another person and the feeling too. u can't also love them equally. get busy so u won't be demanding all the time in the world from ur man because marriage is for serious minded ladies. also pray to God because marriage is not about chosing the one u prefer amongst ur numerous lovers but about god's choice for u. maybe none of them is ur husband from God's record.
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everchris (m)
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Well you are wrong. Its possible to be in love with two people. A lot of people refuse to accept this, but its possible. Though everyone is unique and special in their own ways. They must be something spectacular u love most about one of them, so, go for the one that facsinates u more than the other. |
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