How Can I Stop Choosing The Wrong Men

I used to think age mattered, but now i'm at a loss. I've met two guys 29/30 that were just sad. I didnt see it, until i interacted with them and i wished  we'd neva crossed paths.

Guy one claims to have quit his job cos he was tired and didn't get along with his boss, has his Masters and plays a guitar(not a pro). He believes that collecting money from his dad at his age is his dads way of looking after him   . He claims to be caring, but is really quite a sadistic prick who believes that a wife is there to make his meals, have his babies and sit back while he makes decisions for them as a family, basically taking on responsibility without ever being responsible .

Guy two  doesn't have a post WAEC qualification, believes that life dealt him a bitter hand, is bitter towards anyone successful and bad mouths them as his way of payback. Mind you, he was sent abroad to study and went there to get into scuffles and looking for get rich quick methods. Comes from a polygamous home, but his mum did so well. People who meet him, describe him as silly, cause his jokes are crude so it's all good fun. He's a bad egg and a leech, who will try and cling to you while being abusive and if you disintangle by some miracle, he'll go about telling tales. Recent one i heard was from the dentist, who claimed he tried to pull a fast one by insisting i refered him to them. The dentist, who only knew me by name wasn't impressed and told me that if that was a friend, he wasn't a good friend, i didn't want to delve any further.

I wasn't brought up to believe that guys with flashy cars and big words are the way to go, but some of these men/boys, supposedly educated or exposed are a complete nightmare and turn a sane individual into a frustrated bitch! I want peace i'm not looking for anything right now, but God help me, how do i know who the sensible guys are so i don't push them away for these losers anymore!

the problem is that the aren't many good guys left. you have to look look before you find one. my advice, do not
just go for the wealth and their look.

so wise that they are going insane

@ poster,

To get the 'right' guy, learn how to get your thighs/legs closed. 

to be honest? stop searching.
No matter how old you re. Just believe, be yourself and focus on your life goals.
The right guy will come along sooner or later,

A lot of good guys are around. Look well before you leap. Dont get carried away by physical attractions and wealth. Having come this far now, I assume you know what you want in a relationship so you must be careful.

Past experiences should not make you wary of the next guy that comes. Give it your all and you get all. Dont be judgemental and no comparisons.

Bear in mind no guy is perfect. You have to learn as well to be patient

And dont even think of pretending about it

Or perhaps, something in u that drives the good men away

Look into yourself and see if you can make some adjustments that will allow you to accommodate some negativities.
You must remember that you are dealing with other human beings.
You must learn to tolerate, exercise patience, teach, learn and accept things that you cant change.
There is nothing like prince charming out there.
There are always faults.

So, like someone said up there, dont look for Brad Pitts and Boy Georges alone.
Create  a room inside your mind for the likes of MR IBU .

Like sasha said, stop searching!

There's loads to do than search for a man. Focus on your goals and career/education. Improve on yourself. Its the man's job to search and when he does find you, don't push him away.

whatever,

Girls in Nigeria are too damn materialistic!!!!!, 

I am a good guy with good intentions, and I don't even want any of them!!!!,  cos I get to pay for everything,  screw dat, I am on my own,  don't need no stress,

I like that bolded sentences, They sound spiritual and yet true

@topic

more like how can the right men stop choosing you(the wrong woman)

I think u need to losen up abit, no one is perfect we all work towards perfection.
I would advise that u try another approach, i.e. friendship first then u can take it to any level u want after assessing the guy but it doesn't imply that u know everything about him.

So all u need is just be focused and i believe your dream guy is out there waiting to meet.
Oh and pray about it first before committing urself and its lovely that u know who u what as a partner.

I wish u all the best.

lol, if they are your definition of right men, goodluck, u'll need it.