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cuddle (f)
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Hi guys, please i need your views on whether its REALLY possible for a young unmarried lady to fall in love with a married? your sincere views will really be appreciated. thanks u all
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Free (f)
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yea is possible but hun hes married  |
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krudol (m)
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Young ladies do fall in love with married men but it's deviation from what is right to most people.
The `word' right is a relative term though, pending on subjective opinions of different people @ a given point in time
But a lady has got to consider the society she lives in
because most societies frown on such relationships
If the love is true,from both parties involved in the relationship
Something might come out of it
Most men will talk about getting a divorce
but girl,love with your eyes wide open
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candylips (m)
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its very possible if you are blind
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fresh-B
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to be honest, lady. you sound like your question. its like askin; does a complete blind person need electricity?
would you not be fair if you said you wanted sex not lov? can a man be pregnant?
if a man can be pregnant
if a hen can have teeth
if snakes can hav legs
then you can lov a second hand tokumbu husband. my sister you need help - it is lust.
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Busta (f)
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even if u are, u gotta erase that love from your HEAD because HE'S MARRIED.
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naijacutee (f)
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It's ok to love but not okay to LUST him. In fact, it would be very stupid to Lust a married man.
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candylips (m)
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ha easier said then done.just pray you don't fall into that kind of situation
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soulchild1 (f)
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Definitely it is possible to love a married man, but you have to ask yourself to which extent. Mostly the partner outside is the one loosing the game. Even if he promises to leave his wife, because they have been facing some problems and he will finally divorce her to marry you. You have to realize some things:
1. The man crossed already the limits of being faithful to his wife "at least" once to date you. So who will promise you, he won't and can't do it another time again when he has decided to stay with you and gets tired of you as he got tired of his wife.
2. Then the second question you have to ask yourself is: How would you feel as a married woman noticing that a young lady outside is trying to destroy your home. I guess, you don't want something like that to happen to you, then don't do it to others.
3. Temptation is always there and mostly sweet and to resist is quite hard, but I assume you havent found the love of your life or the kind of guy you want to get married to. So just ask yourself, can you find your luck with somebody, when you know exactly you are building it upon the unluck and unhappiness of others?
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fresh-B
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candylips abi?
did you mean easier said than done?
sorry if thas what you meant - tha means am suspectin you could be one. if you arent married, becareful of paedohilia
ladies please there are 1001 young sweet cynosural ready men out there lookin for ladies like you. you got potentials - talents and visions, goals an destinies tha you can't waste please.
a second hand tokumbu car can only take you to few miles with the help of mechanic but becomes the bane of your life - no life, no love, no tree to lean on, no one to comfort, , emmm, no future but then its too late while the old man got all - reunion with wifey, reunion with matured children, happiness an what next
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candylips (m)
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oga pastor . we don hear you  |
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Radiant (f)
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Hi guys! Una don come again o  Neway, I think it's very possible to love a married man. Why not? Is it all married men that love their wives? Radiant don come again  What of the hausas? the 2/3/4 wives don't they love the man before they get married to him? Or that wan na religion? The fact we don't advice such, doesn't mean it's not possible. It's very possible to love a married man even if you don't marry him. Yes!!! I said it. Cheers! lol |
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twinkledew (f)
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it is very possible but hey married men don't have anything to offer me. sounds gross, thinking about it now having sex with a married man.ewwwwwwwwwwwww
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naija4life (f)
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Meen, its ok for you to love the man whether married or not. And keep your options open because he may not really be in good terms wit da wife. It may be one of those forced or arranged marriages. They may divorce 2mr and phiam you're on   |
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fresh-B
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real pities for africa. sorry madam africa as your children don become promiscuous all becuz them mi wan claim oyibosick.
atleast, i don't argue on meaninless matas - got no time to waste.
whoever wants to do it - go ahead! whoever is weak, feeble, malleable, gullible, supple, bendy and plastic can be - go ahead an be deceived by some agents of enemies of progress. remember tha more will be your misery an divorce than the woman you first drove.
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ladynoni (f)
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I am exceedinly happy and proud with all the morally upright contributions of virtually all of you on this subject. Bravo!
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naija4life (f)
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actually, its not. Its kind of kinky, lol Ladies, hold onto ya hussies, snatchers on the prowl |
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kimba (m)
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@cuddle Hi guys, please i need your views on whether its REALLY possible for a young unmarried lady to fall in love with a married? your sincere views will really be appreciated. thanks u all Yes you can love a married man, but you can't marry him, unless you'll become a home-wrecker. And note: what goes around, comes around. |
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rudeboy (m)
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WONDER SHALL NEVER END, do you know, that some babes will want to love a married men just to BEAR their SURNAME?  ??after the ATROCITies, probably, in their UNIVERSITIES,when NEMESIS will now fall on them, they will be looking for any man to TRAP him down,his an advise 4 all ya GALS N BABES,loving a married man,IS LIKE STANDING ON TWO OBJECTS WITH UR TWO LEGS,ONE AT SOUTH,THE OTHER AT WEST. |
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bimby18 (f)
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its possible.
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rudeboy (m)
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Hey,B.B18,what do you mean,its possible?can you do that? ? :oXPLAIN |
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bumbaby (f)
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Well maybe it is possible but i think it isnt wise at all. I mean don't you want your own family abi you want to become 2nd wife? Only if u know in your heart that it is a temporary thing and you do not expect to marry him if not, leave him fast oh
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zarah (f)
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But of course, Done it be4. Still doing it. and am going to do it again  |
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Radiant (f)
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But of course, Done it be4. Still doing it. and am going to do it again Case closed! Zarah, stop am o. You might wreck some homes and it won't be good.  |
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abbey02 (f)
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well it very right,but ask if his ready to take a second wife , are you willing to get marry to him?
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naija4life (f)
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But of course, Done it be4. Still doing it. and am going to do it again Go zarah go zarah Its your life we going to party like its your life Way to go girl, nuthn de happin |
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crazykid (m)
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It's not proper for a woman to date or love a married man.
you can have feelings for him, it's natural. you might be attracted to him somehow, it's also natural. it happens. but you must remember that he's married.
and also you can't bring yourself so low to the extent of sharing someone else's husband.
it's bad.
the best thing is to bury all your "so called romantic feelings" in the depths of your heart in other to avoid any unnecessary heart break
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