Can You Love A Married Man?

Since the status of the married man is not known from your question and that is, if he is still married, a widow, etc l support the fact that there is nothing wrong in a young lady falling in love with a married man.

you all, don't you think it is dangerous for a lady to love a married man.
Here the thread is     'Can you love a married man'     not   can you love a widower' it is not easy at all to go for a married man you ladies,  And i would really advice ladies to stay crystal clear out of married men.

and so my Bible looked from the Hill towards the lazy man and said; go to the ant's house and learn how the little thing knows how to work for food for feed family for winter.

and so I look from the hill toward the foolish people who think it is adventurous and fun to sleep around with other peoples spouses and say; "if your married, giv your wifey or husbandy to another person for test. if your single ask your mum to sleep with your boy friendz. this will help you learn the best answer to your foolishness

It is foolish the way we lie to ourselves and expect others to believe the same lie.  I cannot change the way any one thinks therefore I won't try.  What I will do is speak on the facts.  Love is an act of SELFLESSNESS that requires a person to constantly do what is undesirable to him or her for the sake of the one he or she loves.  Like a mother dieing for a daughter to survive.  A father going hungry to see that his family is fed. This is the basis of true love and is the type of love it takes to make a relationship work.  This is something that you have a choice over.  You choose who you love.  Love doesn't come up to you with a gun demanding that you love this person.  Love is a choice.  Everything in life is.  Choosing to attempt to love a married man does not mean that you have successfully done that.  There is nothing that a single woman can offer a married man except sex and sex is not love.  When he is done busting his nuts, he still has to go home to his wife and kids.  He won't leave them for you.  This saga has continued for centuries and the wife and kids always win the man over and the single lady's life is always messed up.  The single lady goes into deep depression when she realizes that she was only being used.  The women in Nigeria are somewhat lucky because there is a chance that man will marry her as a second wife if he gets her in a family way.  In America, a man can only marry one woman and if a woman finds her husband cheating she can kill him and the woman he's cheating with.  I think that you can love a married man if you are his wife.

it's possible though even when it's not right,i am married but met a lady who knew i was married infact she met me at the pool side with my wife and kid and we dated for about 2 yrs,she loved me so much and it took the grace of God for me to make her understand i had to call it quit,it was difficult though because infact friends told me it was because of money but sincerely and deep down she wasn't even asking anything from me until i do force it on her maybe because she is working but i know friends who have girlfriends who are working and who still milk them flat.

@gamine,my name says the truth in fairness and sincerity,atleast we are here to share our experience and i just did but i hope that isn't too much?

@gamine,i want to state categorically here that alot of guys come and share false information, maybe to show themslf as been good or something close to that but for me i believe this is a forum where we should learn something concrete from one another and as such i try as much as possible to relay true and sincere experience,atleast am sure other might have learnt something from me not matter how horrible.

To put the record straight,i have a wonderful wife in all ramification from ibo tribe even though i am yoruba,she is sweet and ever wonderful but sometimes "men would be men" if you know what i mean.

Can You Love A Married Man?

it possible, but I will never see my self loving a married man expect circumstances put me in that stituation

lol old thread for you not me

Yeah, I think it's very possible to love a married man and for a married man to love another woman.  Prince Charles' relationship with Carmela is the perfect example. 

They fell in love while he was still married to Diana.  Several years after Diana's death, they are now married.   So yes, it happens all the time, but alot of men will not act out on their love for the mistress if children are involved.

are u for real? even if hes loaded with cash

iya, i don hear u