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lauryn (f)
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Suggest wetin? I was just watching my girl do her thing on d dance floor. Hey, I don't mind a girl grinding up on me, it's kind of hot to perverts  , I don't consider myself one though  . I'm just a tease! |
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ugodaniel (m)
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Oh! what a relief! ka chineke mezie okwu |
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cutiee_xx (f)
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 going all IBO on the poor girl doesnt help issues settle down!! well,  she's finally gav in,  not that we didnt know before 
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lauryn (f)
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Oh! what a relief! ka chineke mezie okwu nna bros, how ur own no come be naw, Y U feel sey me no fit claim virgin, ehn?. Biko just leave me to my claims, aiight, haterade sipper!! |
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ebos (m)
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What a hell do u blame ladies for your inability to control yourselves. You have a sex with a lady because you simply want to. I know you may be put in a mood that will make it difficult to control yourself. It's nature but the blame is till on you, infact on both.
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jaybaby (f)
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wHAT IF IT'S A CASE - D LADY IS D 1 SPENDING ---THAT MEANS THE MAN IS USELESS---ALL HE CAN CONTRIBUTES IS SEX
& IF THAT THEY R MARRIED ALL HE would B CONTRIBUTING IS HIS SPERM--SO IT'S WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
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ebos (m)
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@jababy: In this case, both accept whatever each other offers. There is an offer, and there is an acceptance. It simply means both willingly choose and value what is offered. Because no one accepts what he or she does not like. If you think giving sperm is a contribution then it is what you called it. That is Positive contribution
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ebos (m)
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Truly, sperm is a positive contribution that makes us human beings today.
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cutiee_xx (f)
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Truly, sperm is a positive contribution that makes us human beings today.
oh yeah n we ladies have to carry the product for 9 months huh? |
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ebos (m)
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@cutie_xx, the seeds (sperm) are planted and watered by men n ladies lookout the seeds. Still good job from them. So, both genders contribute significantly in the relationship, only that the larger contribution comes from the gender I belong, no doubt.
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cutiee_xx (f)
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hmm, no doubt!!
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adeboo (f)
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Contribute?
Thanks foranswering the age old question that has been bothering ma mind.
At least now i know.
I acyually used to think that it was cause they only think with their 'thing' and once they see a girl they just want to 'poke' her but thanks for clarifying the koko.
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kmohawk
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who cares why men don't wait for sex, men love sex just as much as women, well at least i love sex, i would prefer a man who don't want to wait
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cutiee_xx (f)
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what would happen if both couple were virgins when hey got married? is that too much a badthing? |
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ebos (m)
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When both couple are virgins and get married, it will mean practicing something they are not good at, and they will consider how they can put their new skill to good use of something that makes them prolific, in leaping into the future, go so far, far, far ahead that they shoot clean out of time and right into Eternity what God has blessed – what a happy marriage! Thank God I’m still a virgin. Eternity in heaven is where I belong.
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ebos (m)
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once they see a girl they just want to 'poke' her Please, what is the meaning of poke? |
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kateflow (f)
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once they see a girl they just want to 'poke' her
Please, what is the meaning of poke?
what a question |
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ebos (m)
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what a question
A question that begs for answer. When faced with a problem you do not understand, you ask a question, that is the only way you can learn. So, what is the meaning of poke? |
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samsilo (m)
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I believe we need to be realistic. The quest for sex (through no fault of their's) drives most of the action of a man.Testostorone and the drive to propagate his genes rules the life of most male mammals.The only difference is that as humans we try to mask the crudeness (imagine a he goat asking a she goat out for dinner).So as humans strive to succeed ,make money and polish our act in order to attract the opposite sex.
Think about this they say" money can't buy you love" but good clothes, a nice house and car can make thing happen a lot quicker.
Bottom line, some guys just try to lull the ladies in to a sense of security by not rushing her, but they all have knocking boots on the brain. Those will not admit it are hypocrites
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chioma j (f)
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anyone who cares to know that is whot waiting for
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candylips (m)
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men alwasy want to know the KOKO
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Nite Angel (m)
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And the koko of the mata is most men think of today, what if she leaves me tomorrow.
Doing it now or later does not determine the length of the relationship. Doing it later just helps you trust the person more. Waiting and waiting sincerely does signify that one can comport oneself in the face of dire need. You probably won't lose sleep when a spouse who waited travels.
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Eclairs
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@ poster, not far from the truth but its not alwz so, sm girls contribute more thn just Sex especially when they make you whole. would be happy to wait but I think some men don't wait bcs, after sex, the power in the relationship, swings to the man and the girl is more reluctant to quit the relationship as she'D feel used and cheated.
I'm only sayin this out of experience. Girls tend to be in power and would readily quit the relationship if you're yet to have sex. When you've been dumped by a girl like that, the last thing you want is for it to repeat it self and so, all you do in your next relationship is to strike before you are dumped again which may explain why some men can't wait but then, you may be right to suggest that for most relationships, the only thing the girl contribute is sex. Not in all relationships.
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Eclairs
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I believe we need to be realistic. The quest for sex (through no fault of their's) drives most of the action of a man.Testostorone and the drive to propagate his genes rules the life of most male mammals.The only difference is that as humans we try to mask the crudeness (imagine a he goat asking a she goat out for dinner).So as humans strive to succeed ,make money and polish our act in order to attract the opposite sex.
Think about this they say" money can't buy you love" but good clothes, a nice house and car can make thing happen a lot quicker.
Bottom line, some guys just try to lull the ladies in to a sense of security by not rushing her, but they all have knocking boots on the brain. Those will not admit it are hypocrites
I guess you hv a point but to many, sex is secondary and so if you have a football boot knockin on your brain, that doesnt mean its same for others. There's more to a relationship than sex and so, if the reason why you wldnt lull a lady into sex is just to giv her a sense of security, be aware that to sm girls, it doenst mk any difference. Was dumped by a girl after 3yrs despite not pushin for sex, and was simply bcs I felt it will alwz happen when we get married. if its all about security why then did she dump me, even though I was nice to her. Omon guy, speak for yourself. |
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jasmine23
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yeah women truly contribute in relationships. i for one concur. when i started dating my guy he had no car. that didn't stop me from dating him. . i was always there for him, cooking and allowing him drive my car wherever we went. he never bought me gifts in the relationship, but that didn't stop me from loving me. i wasn't there in the relationship for what i would gain. i was just there because i loved and admired him.it really bothers me that real men thin women are just fro sex objects. that is such a wrong thot cause i guess u guys must not met the real ones.
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squirrel20 (f)
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most men feel without sex then what;s the point of being in a relationship.
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