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chychy (f)
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bottom line
we should try as much as possible 2 avoid pre-marital sex.
c'est fini.
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macgozy (m)
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Ladies are object of sexual derviation since from inception of a relationship the guys are left to do the contribution in order to build a lasting relationship which takes time, money and ideas and what does the lady have to offer,  ?? this question is thrown to the female folks to answer. Answer: all she could give in the relationship is her body because she believes that's all she's got to offer to make the relation solid. But when the female folks in a relationship starts giving back what they received from their male counterpart, then the issue of sex tend to be abolished. Ask her what she wants from her man all she will say: he must be caring, understanding, loving and always ready to take care of my personal problems. Now ask her what will she give in return for the kind gestures. she remains dumbfounded or not having any concrete answer to such question and that is why sex is the sure way out |
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macgozy (m)
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Ladies are object of sexual derviation since from inception of a relationship the guys are left to do the contribution in order to build a lasting relationship which takes time, money and ideas and what does the lady have to offer, ?? this question is thrown to the female folks to answer. Answer: all she could give in the relationship is her body because she believes that's all she's got to offer to make the relation solid. But when the female folks in a relationship starts giving back what they received from their male counterpart, then the issue of sex tend to be abolished. Ask her what she wants from her man all she will say: he must be caring, understanding, loving and always ready to take care of my personal problems. Now ask her what will she give in return for the kind gestures. she remains dumbfounded or not having any concrete answer to such question and that is why sex is the sure way out |
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osegwu (m)
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All this talk about sex is giving me ideas. Please, stop because my
love is not in the country. Don't want to cheat on her.
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kola oloye (m)
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Sorry o my brother, just move to the Religion`s forum for exaltation.
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bawomolo (m)
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bottom line
we should try as much as possible 2 avoid pre-marital sex.
c'est fini. if u don't give him sex, then he would get it somewhere else. c'est fini |
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PERVERT9
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they need to confirm how good and reliable the "engine" of the car they are buying.
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kola oloye (m)
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@pervert9,
SEX should not be used as a yardstick before marriage.It is possible
for a woman to be excellent in bedmatics and yet does not have
any other quality of a wife.
Just a matter of time you will lose appetite for sex and you won`t
value her again .SO LEAVE STORY.
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chychy (f)
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@pervert9,
SEX should not be used as a yardstick before marriage.It is possible
for a woman to be excellent in bedmatics and yet does not have
any other quality of a wife.
Just a matter of time you will lose appetite for sex and you won`t
value her again .SO LEAVE STORY.
u just earned my respect. |
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Pinkrosey (f)
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All the more reason why I shouldn’t go near such a fraudulent site, with their desperado move… scammers them be , please Seun enough is enough ban this lunatic and his fraudulent site he is so busy advertising ewu  !!!! |
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PurestBoy (m)
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Oga Seun abeg help me warn this Sammy posting same shit everything. Abi the guy na robot ni?
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Gamine (f)
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@Topic Abeg help me ask o As if they go die  |
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amaikama (m)
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First of all, whosoever tasted that fruit knows it is not easy to desist from it, expecially something sweeter than honey (SEX) So, when it comes to sex issue, please, we are not all saint that we should desist from it, since we are not all virgins here. The circumstances did not warrant all or few to explore that animalistic nature of sex in us to prove us guilt as sin.
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ibkaye (f)
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Patinece is a virtue |
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welli (f)
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those who have it are lucky
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t00 cUTE (f)
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the answere is simple, y men don't wait is because they ve somethin in between their legs that can't be controlled and frm time 2 time tyhey need it 2 be lubricated,  |
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tope2000 (f)
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too cute why do u always bring up dead thread how u dey?? |
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MrCrackles (m)
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Because the sperm tank would burst and the man wont be able to hold the sperm for recreation time! |
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MrCrackles (m)
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too cute why do u always bring up dead thread how u dey??she just dey comot for land of the dead! |
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mecussey (m)
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Blame girls, If the man don't do it another man will do it for him. The society is dead already
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topup
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To the OP I completely agree.
At the same time, there are guys who are so used to 'that is the way it works' that they don't see women as anything but sex objects.
In my past relationship. I was almost like my boyfriend's mentor. He'd always tell me his fears and I would always find a way to make him feel like a genius (his exact words) or like he can achieve anything, I think having someone like that in your life is priceless. At the same time, I would offer to pay for parts of our dates, the taxi fare, the takeaway. I would offer to cook, help clean, go to church with him.
Some guys have believed that women are sex objects for so long that anything else is hard to imagine. Some guys get annoyed when you want to pay for part of the date, or when you 'mother' them, or if you're constantly checking up on them, when that is how we women contribute to a relationship without sex.
I have always known how to offer emotional stabilty to all my friends and I am known as the person who anyone can talk to without feeling embarassed or ashamed, yet sometimes if you don't tick the sex box, all your efforts in the other criteria are null,
It's not fair!
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t00 cUTE (f)
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too cute why do u always bring up dead thread how u dey??you are actually lucky its u that is saying this if not am fine and i hope ure kool. what of jennykadry, i vent been seeing her lately. she just dey comot for land of the dead! i hope u wont like 2 xperience what people frm dere do |
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albridge (m)
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personally it think it right proper and to be encouraged that couples wait till marriage before they go into sex. the problem i have with this arrangement though as a man is that while you are busy waiting for marriage she might be busy spreading the good news to other men who are not so patient with her and you would end up being the loser.  |
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syren
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personally it think it right proper and to be encouraged that couples wait till marriage before they go into sex. the problem i have with this arrangement though as a man is that while you are busy waiting for marriage she might be busy spreading the good news to other men who are not so patient with her and you would end up being the loser. men can lie and say they are waiting for marriage when they have already slept with and are still sleeping with many women, so it can happen to anybody. |
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vemon
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for me, i think the reason if, when the man feels he's not getting anything from the relationship and most times doesn't love the girl as much as he should,all he will be looking forward to will be sex. dreamworks4real@yahoo.com |
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Orikinla (m)
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I waited for 10 years.
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t00 cUTE (f)
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.co I waited for 10 years.
i waited 4 18yrs and am still waiting. |
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dudu19 (m)
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@orikinla re u still waiting aswell |
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tammyswits (f)
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Am learning here, In my opinion gals hold the cards , however its very sad that boys can seperate their sexual n emotional feelings i.e he can easily bang sm1 else who he totally feels nothing 4 if hs girl aint helping and still love his girl while 4 mst gals emotional feelings hav to be present!
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topup
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I really enjoy reading the latest replies to this topic, some really great insights too 
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ekong0514 (m)
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What is to be waited for?
As 4 me i still bliv there are human beings (male/female) whom can give mad Sex/ Intimacy + still contribute posetively even mentally to their spouse,
@ post: Speaking about waiting; Is that what u look up to (sex), lest no achievment?, fine!
What a wonderful world.
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cyrusdevir (m)
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relationship to some girls is ''give me give me'' and believe SEX is all dey can offer, for me is not it at all.
Both enjoy the SEX but the question is what else are u contributing to help each other,
Any girls that believes that all she can offer in a relationship is SEX , most of the time ends up heart broken b/c the guy will definetly look out for what else u are made of,
Girls should contribute financially in a relationship even if the guy has the money which goes a long way to prove that you are not tithe fisted and which differentiates you from other girls(not using the money he gave to you to buy something for him) at least to prove that you can scarify for him financially 2(some of your earned money).
IF YOU ARE NOT WORKING OR DOING ANYTHING THAT BRINGS MONEY , KINDLY WAITING TILL U START DOING SOMETHING NOT TO EMBARRASS YOURSELF DURING THE RELATIONSHIP OR A HEART BREAK.
I RATHER PREFER WORKING CLASS,
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