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crazykid (m)
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Men don't wait for sex because their women demand a lot from them.
that's why they have to get something back for their hard spendings.
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rudeboy (m)
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CRAZY,na the K-O-K-O, be that.
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ajiboyet (m)
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if he loves you he'll wait
otherwise, forget it. he might even rape you.
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marlet01 (m)
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hhhhhhhhmmmm i don hear gist for here.
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comchi (f)
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i see alot of shallow minded guys here through their replies to this topic.mind you,its not all girls that have nothing to contribute to a relationship.i have girlfriends who have contributed their money,time and intellect to their relationship.the ones that did not involve sex are the ones that are altar bound while the ones that included sex,hit the rocks long before the 3rd month of the relationship.i have this girlfriend that believes that sex shouldnt be delayed because if tis bound to happen ,why delay it?well,she's crying her heart out now because the last time she counted her ex boyfriends, they amounted to 63! am not joking or exagerating,its a fact.
i think we should all change our opinion of what a relationship entails.Jehovah created sex ONLY for MARRIAGE but because we are in the jet age,its being practiced indiscriminately.no wonder there's HIV
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rudeboy (m)
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COMCHI,where can i see you,you seem to have a PERFECT DEFINITION of what good relationship is all about,   8)let rub mind together. |
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twinkledew (f)
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Modern Life or not. Sex is not very very important. don't get sex twisted with mordern age. yes the world has changed but we still have virgins.
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omot208 (f)
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see these people. after all that the ladies go through to ensure a relationship works, they say all she contributes is sex.
that's totally silly. most ladies, once they've fallen for the guy, go to extreme measures to satisfy him. this may include sex, but isnt that just part of it? they're there to complain to, they sacrifice time with their girlfriends to hang out with u. some girls pay for dinner when they go out with guys, and i'm totally sure of this. i know a girl who sends her guy credit, takes him out when he's broke, refuses to spend his money unless she really needs it, and she still sleeps with him. guys call girls at night when they're lonely. girls provide a listenin ear, sometimes cook and do some washing, exchange intellectual discussions, look fine for ur friends, abandon everything to spend time with u and u say she contributes nothing. what else do u want her to do? go to work while u sleep? most guys are even too proud to take money or anything from girls. so why all the fuss about providing the money, isnt that what makes u feel like men?
most of the money guys spend, isn't it the only contribution they make? apart from their privates when the time comes, and that is the ultimate goal of their spending the moneyanyway. so please remove the log from ur eyes first so u can see clearly to blow at the dust in ours.
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sage (m)
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y wait for something u can have now, and something somebody else can come in and take away while u are acting like a moron?   |
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Tomme (f)
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Well,well, Looking at all your views about waitingfor sex, i tend to agree with both parties.
When a girl comes into arelationship full of demands on the guy, she shouldn't expect anything less.
But when a guyprofesses to love agirl, he should have prepared himself to carry all her burdens and problems at the same time, or what really does he profess to love about her.
I think our problem in this present age is thatsex has been so trivalised. In the sense that we all see sex as something that is so ordinary and that's y we have it with all levity.
Any way, guys who are really interested in a long- lasting relationship should look for love in the right places.
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waffistyle (m)
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why are you spending money?, why areyou so intersted?.what actually caught your eyes the first time, you met the woman, or when you decided to chase her?, look let us be straight, a mans firat goal most cases is to lay the girl first, all a mans thoughts is how to do get her laid first, |
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waffistyle (m)
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@omot208, i completely agree with you, |
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omot208 (f)
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thanks waffistyle. it's just the truth.
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kbone (m)
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funny thread, lol, but enough candid yarns all the way
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kimba (m)
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In addition to what ive said before:
I read some replies where some peeps said for a girl to have sex with a guy is the way she can show the guy that she loves him? the question is what does the guy have to do to show he loves his girl. If its not sex, then what? and why can't the girl do the same.
RATHER THAN ASK THE QUESTION WHY MEN DON'T WAIT FOR SEX, LET ME ASK: GIRLS, WHY DO YOU GIVE IT UP SO SOON?
forget about the idea, my guy wants to, if he wants to and you don't want to, as long as you arent married, a discussion about the refusal is not mandated. Abe, be ko?
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krdea (m)
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Men don't wait for sex because they don't want to , lets face it . Girls on the other hand who give it , give because they want it . its not that they can't at least be creative outside the sheets.  |
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rb (m)
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W T F : How the hell on heart will you have the thought that the only thing girls offer is sex , That sucks . You guy's had better erased that thought or it's going to lead to smthing bad later in the future.
V'e seen and dated girls who helps a lot apart from sex.
You guy's had better wake - up.
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katherinae (f)
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cheavori
has it ever occured to u that maybe women want only sex too, i mean after all women are human beings not planks of wood, the way i see it a woman who wants to be a sex object to a guy gets the better half. its her business. see she gets the sex and the cash and all u guys get is sex and maybe an std or two.
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divadarlin (f)
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How many men will be comfortable in a relationship where the woman is paying for everything? How many men will to be the stay-at-home-daddy? Not too many.
I notice the men in this forum seem always talk about "spending their money on their woman and assuming its the ultimate thing to give in a relationship" There are lots of unhappy women married to very rich men, and there are lots of women happily married to average income men. Money never bought happiness, and it doesn't bring contentment(you can always have more).
I for one value companionship and, the most important thing to me is the quality of the time spent with my guy. Maybe some of the guys in this forum don't have much to offer in that aspect, and so throw money at their ladies to make up for it, and expect sex in return.(what ladies like that?gold diggers.) Believe it or not some guys prefer to go out with golddiggers b'because they can't handle a relationship based on quality time, they don't get it.I believe the woman in ur life is a reflexion of yourself&vice versa. When I buy stuff for my boyfriend, I do it to make him smile. Everybody likes pampered once in a while. Besides a lot women give up their dreams to make sure their husband is well-cared for.
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Uche2nna (m)
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@ Divadarling The men are spending their hearts out to impress their ladies because it is the impression the ladies are giving to them.If you say u love me then you gotta spend.Many women do not play with their comfort and security ( and I would not blame them)!If u doubt me go take a look at the topic "Would you marry a poor man"!
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twinkledew (f)
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guy(s) and the money they thinking they are spending. what money?  . if u think u have to shag a girl because of the money u spend on her, sry but u are a wanker and a big time jerk. |
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hannydarl (f)
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I advise ladies to be careful i don't know what a guy expects his undergrad girlfriend to contribute in their relationship. to say the truth most guys take advantage of the fact that women at a particular age want someone to love and cherish them to toast a babe knowing fully well that all they want is to make the babe love them and do whatever it takes to keep the relationship going even if it means allowing them have SEX. What can a girl in SS3 or in the university contribute? a guy who wants contribution should join a credit society or date the presidents daughter and forget toying with the hearts of young naive girls. i believe guys know what they want from the start before they approach a girl.As ussual the woman is blamed for everywrong in the society from a broken home , Rape, bad children,to reasons for armed robbery. What can we say its a mans world. i am waiting for Heaven to Enjoy life.
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mochafella (m)
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What can we say its a mans world. i am waiting for Heaven to Enjoy life.
Ahhhh, mba, no do that wan ooo. If you no come reach heaven nko?  |
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comchi (f)
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@ rude boy as you can see,i stay in surulere.if you want to rub minds with me regarding this topic,be ready to get an opinion thats quite different from yours because am a bornagain christian,get it? |
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marlet01 (m)
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@comchi
apologising for rudeboy
sorry he is already like his name a rude boy so please don't mind him,
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hannydarl (f)
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mochafela na only for heaven woman fit get pure enjoyment o wey no man go come put rules say woman too mess or shit, woman no dey donate to mans charity fund and woman naim make man want sex not because man like am. wetin you expect me to say i pray say i make heaven if not i go come as man for next world if no next world then woman don suffer for man hand shekina. |
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candylips (m)
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thanks waffistyle. it's just the truth.
Welcome back omot |
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sammyjl (f)
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 Let us not insult each others here brother.
[td]My my. you have some nerve bringing this up. Where you born by a man. Go back to the day you were born dude. Who opened her legs??? Do not insult us dear.[/td]A woman cannot only contribute sex and besides there is no way you have sex on your own even if you are gay. Are you stupid?? I believe you are. A woman who comes to you and you spend all your effort and money on her is the wrong one for you brother, so if you see them coming to you, run and don't look back. The only one who wont do this to you is one who truelly loves you and cares about you. This I believe. But I am still disappointed with that topic of yours  
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candylips (m)
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make i dey laugh |
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