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sweetlove (m)
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he doesnt want sex before marriage!
what do you all think? my best friend is dating a guy,she really likes him alot. it hasnt been a long time but they have been intimate but he has issues with it. everytime they have sex he feels guilty and feels that it is wrong. he wants to stop and wait for them to get to know each other better. shes ok with it but is confused by it. the sex is great she says very passionate and loving. i told her if he wants to wait and hes worth it do it what do you all think?
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Amobi 1 (m)
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well,let her find a guy like me to keep her on till they get married,
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kimba (m)
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@sweetlove he doesnt want sex before marriage!
what do you all think? my best friend is dating a guy,she really likes him alot. it hasnt been a long time but they have been intimate but he has issues with it. everytime they have sex he feels guilty and feels that it is wrong. he wants to stop and wait for them to get to know each other better. shes ok with it but is confused by it. the sex is great she says very passionate and loving. i told her if he wants to wait and hes worth it do it what do you all think?
hhmm, O Boy, You are confusing me, o. your best friend is the girl. Fine, thats Ok. But you mean she(your best friend) discusses her sex life with her boyfriend with you? i told her if he wants to wait and hes worth it do it what do you all think? Serious? I'm just surprised o, its a new dimension of information. |
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osegwu (m)
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The first question is, is the guy religious?
if yes then let him be sexless and the lady
wait if he is worth waiting. And i am surprised,
the lady ought to have been glad. And why is she
discussing her relationship with you?
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dollie-pie (f)
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lol. if that is what he wants ,well makes my job so easy,personally i think sex before marriage is really wrong,i don't go to that lengtn and i wont for a couple of years.kissin ,cuddlin and holdn hands is sooooooooo okay enough.
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Amobi 1 (m)
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lol. if that is what he wants ,well makes my job so easy,personally i think sex before marriage is really wrong,i don't go to that lengtn and i wont for a couple of years.kissin ,cuddlin and holdn hands is sooooooooo okay enough.
Dolly if i kiss u and hold your hand, shhh you go turn wet right away. sex is very important in marriage, so should i test the car b/4 i buy am? |
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dollie-pie (f)
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how u no I'm gon turn wet? want to no when i had my 1st kiss,want to try me?what u mean I'm gon wet shewwwwwwwwwww!!! doesnt get me freaked or u want to bet?
even if u kiss my , my no is no and my yes is yes.
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Amobi 1 (m)
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how u no I'm gon turn wet? want to no when i had my 1st kiss,want to try me?what u mean I'm gon wet shewwwwwwwwwww!!! doesnt get me freaked or u want to bet?
even if u kiss my , my no is no and my yes is yes.
i know but the fact that you can have a romantic kiss without sex is b/c u haven't try a guy like me!!! |
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dollie-pie (f)
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really ? show mii what u gat.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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so whats wrong with that?  |
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OpeLovely (f)
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@ Thoniaslim,
i've seen ur pix somewhere in facebook. Not bad, though.
@ poster,
So its wrong, after has had sex, a couple of times? I think he's trying to use that as an excuse to bail. If it was wrong, he should have set the recors straight from the beginning and stuck with it. Even if it happens unconsciously, it should be done with a certain level of maturity. As for the girl, is she for the sex or for the guy? Because if she loves him, she should be understanding and be ready to compromise.
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Busta (f)
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In a way its good that he wants sex after marriage but then again, the fact that the apple has already been tested and then u want to starve me all in the name of feeling guilty that it ain't right? It is a different case if we haven't had sex the whole relationship and just wait till after the wedding but the fact that we've done it over and over and then u want to hold back now? . . . men e go worry oh!
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Easybaby (f)
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@poster,
That is medicine after death  
The dude has gotten enough of her honey pot and wanted to dump her
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NiyiRocks! (m)
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In a way its good that he wants sex after marriage but then again, the fact that the apple has already been tested and then u want to starve me all in the name of feeling guilty that it ain't right? It is a different case if we haven't had sex the whole relationship and just wait till after the wedding but the fact that we've done it over and over and then u want to hold back now? . . . men e go worry oh! I'm just a telephone call away baby.   |
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hammers (m)
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I bet the guy will always feel sorry.but will never stop enjoyin this sex of a thing till thy kingdom come. Once u pop it u can never stop popping  |
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mmonwuba (m)
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I bet the guy will always feel sorry.but will never stop enjoyin this sex of a thing till thy kingdom come. Once u pop it u can never stop popping thats really true. Well said. After drilling orange you want it to still be full? |
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spoilt (f)
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you think only women feel guilty?
why make him do what he doesnt really want to do?
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michelin89 (f)
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Look for someone to give it to you and continue professing your undying love for him.
What else can I say?
This, girl why are you bothering yourself about a guy who doesn't want sex?
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