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rb (m)
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I don't know how to say this maybe the girls around will come up with ideas that will help me , The guys are not also left out i just need advice on what to do.
Whenever my girlfriend feels like we should have it i am always afraid cause i know i will mess it up, I have this problem of fast coming or should i say fast release.
The last time i tried having sex my privates never even reach my girl lap i don release that bad right help me.
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naija4life (f)
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Medically, its called "premature ejaculation". Most times its psychological and relative with respect to your partner. Its always a problem BUT all hope's not lost. The best way to solve the problem temporarily is by masturbating and releasing at least 10 mins before meeting ur partner. Permanently, you have to go and see a doctor specializing in psychotherapy    Cheers mate, all hope's not lost |
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rb (m)
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Hello naija4life ,
People like you are very scarce ask why anytime i tell this to my friends all they do is laugh and call me names like dull boy and stuffs and that really trouble my mind.
Anyway i've got the same piece of advice from a big bro of mine but the problem is that i need you to explain smthings about masturbating and how i should go about it.
Much Love Bro.
Ola
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drrionelli (m)
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@rb:
Sir, you are very correct. naija4life is, indeed, to be commended for his clear, compassionate posting. I have always found his posts to be well worth reading.
Please allow me to refer you to another thread here called "How To Stop Quick Ejaculate."
I am trusting that you (and your girlfriend) are old enough to engage in sexual activity in a mature and safe manner.
As far as your questions about masturbation, please ask. And, whatever you do, don't let your so-called friends "trouble your mind." They only laugh and call you names because they, themselves, don't know the answers you seek.
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candylips (m)
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Do you havethis premature Ejac each time you want to penetrate. If you do the first time but you don't subsequently, then you can make you girl know that the first time is just for exhibition purpose and that you will be ready for action in the second or third or fourth or n th round  |
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rawlings (m)
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Plz brother to be sincere u need to go and see the doctor.Is a medical problem but i guess we got some doctores in here.Well plz try and don't be shy out just go and see a freindly doctor who will help u out.
Take care man and be fast about it.
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twigblu (f)
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firstly maybe u get too excited and nervous, sex is like a hard rock candy savour it slowly and use ur partner as a yard stick , take ur time and ull be ok, if u can't well see a doc
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candylips (m)
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let him try it out on you  |
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