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nana (f)
He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« on: November 06, 2005, 12:21 AM »

Please Advice Me ...

I met this guy last year in Nigeria while attending a lesson. I only knew him as a friend and when the lesson was coming to an end, we exchanged addy but early last month,this guy started sending me cards though friendship cards but now,he is asking me out despite the fact that we are thousands of miles apart.
Seun (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #1 on: November 06, 2005, 01:02 AM »

Since you were not that close when you knew each other, he might be a gold-digger or someone desperate to travel out of Nigeria. 

He's in Nigeria, and you're in the UK, right?  Can you supply more relevant details?
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #2 on: November 06, 2005, 01:04 AM »

i dont know anything about him and we were not very close back there in Nigeria.
Trooper (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #3 on: November 06, 2005, 02:43 AM »

nana, <snip> Leave it. It makes no sense<snip>!
Seun (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #4 on: November 06, 2005, 02:46 AM »

This seems quite simple - the relationship won't work, so forget about it.  Feel free to remain friends with him until a time when you have cause to live close to him again.  Good luck and thanks for trusting us with your challenge!
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #5 on: November 06, 2005, 11:48 AM »

thanks guys.
kikelomo (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #6 on: November 08, 2005, 02:17 PM »

Em..........Aren't we a lil too blunt seun?
Seun (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #7 on: November 08, 2005, 05:21 PM »

If nana had been offended then I'd have felt that we were too blunt.
michelin89 (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #8 on: November 08, 2005, 06:20 PM »

usually distant relationships don't work! but i think you really make some researche to find out his real intention like seun said earlier. did he start to send you those cards as soon as you got to the U.K.?
nddy (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #9 on: November 08, 2005, 07:16 PM »

give it a shot , you never could tell
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #10 on: November 08, 2005, 10:12 PM »

seun,u guys aren't too blunt.
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #11 on: November 08, 2005, 10:14 PM »

michell,he started sending me d cards after i left Nigeria and he is telling me how much he is missing me.But i guess its all about a foul play jare.
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #12 on: November 09, 2005, 11:02 AM »

He might not be da right guy for ya Smiley
michelin89 (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #13 on: November 09, 2005, 02:29 PM »

you can never say..it isn't so easy to really sya what is on his mind. we might be wrong. try him and see. if he starts to talk about coming to the UK then you're free to tell him fu*k you  Smiley
adesodgi (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #14 on: November 09, 2005, 02:32 PM »

hey not tha f-word!
nan,just sit back and drive im on a cool ride,if you know wot i mean....afterall he cant have sex from there with miya,and i'll advise you not to take im serious if your on the journey.. Wink
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #15 on: November 09, 2005, 03:01 PM »

i understand,my guy. Wink
kenflavor (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #16 on: November 09, 2005, 03:41 PM »

I wonder why Seun is like this this days.  Huh
nana, I will advice u take to adesodgi and michelin89 advice and give him time. The guy might not be a gold digger as seun's thought and he may likely have his own reasons for not communicating with you earlier. Ask him some few questions and after sometime, I am very sure the truth will prevail. (Afterall not all Nigerians love to live/travel to UK)
alheri (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #17 on: November 10, 2005, 01:32 PM »

the guy just wants to put you in bondage. no gree for am jo. but if you like him, you can make him your nja connection so dat anytime youre in nja,u guys can hook up,u know, some1 to be taking you to silverbird galleria!!!hahahahaha
twinkledew (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #18 on: November 10, 2005, 02:58 PM »

Don’t try anything. Long distance relationship is a bad idea. 4get him as if he never existed.  Angry
theffanyi (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #19 on: September 06, 2007, 04:32 PM »

NANA he is asking cos he is seeing u fron a thousand mile.RUN to a million, he wont see u again Grin

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nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #20 on: September 06, 2007, 11:04 PM »

Thanks dude but your advise came too late.
theffanyi (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #21 on: September 07, 2007, 12:01 PM »

ok that means your wit him.but if your not,u can always come and manage me Wink

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trendy (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #22 on: September 07, 2007, 12:47 PM »

Nana listen, from the outside it seems the guy is just after coming abroad like some people suggested.

But you might be wrong about him, from the tone of your post, i can tell you dont dislike him, maybe you even like him?

why do people think, people in Nigeria are gold diggers? most people back home are richer than the so called  nigerians in diaspora, who are they working like slaves in order to meet up with life,

give the guy a chance, and if he tell you anything about you helping him come abroad, then you will know he is really after coming abroad, who knows he might be a good guy Wink
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #23 on: September 07, 2007, 01:04 PM »

Thanks trendy but your advice might have been useful 2yrs ago. 
Quote from: trendy on September 07, 2007, 12:47 PM
Nana listen, from the outside it seems the guy is just after coming abroad like some people suggested.

But you might be wrong about him, from the tone of your post, i can tell you don't dislike him, maybe you even like him?

why do people think, people in Nigeria are gold diggers? most people back home are richer than the so called nigerians in diaspora, who are they working like slaves in order to meet up with life,

give the guy a chance, and if he tell you anything about you helping him come abroad, then you will know he is really after coming abroad, who knows he might be a good guy Wink
I saw him as a friend nuffin more,nuffin less.
I dont think u need to abuse/criticize peeps abroad by saying they work like slaves.
It is too late 'cause i've longed moved on wiv my life.
trendy (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #24 on: September 07, 2007, 01:23 PM »

Good to know you have moved on!
that not withstanding i was stating my view and clearing some facts
not everyone is desperate to travel outside the country
MajestyHRH (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #25 on: September 07, 2007, 05:19 PM »

So nana, do you have any updates for us?

Pls, do tell Grin
nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #26 on: September 07, 2007, 06:38 PM »

U lot are beginning to provoke me on this forum.
MajestyHRH (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #27 on: September 07, 2007, 06:43 PM »

Huh?


Huh
saucekid (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #28 on: September 07, 2007, 06:49 PM »

he's here,you're there                                       blah,blah,blah

 **** picks up ma bag*****
 ****gets on ma bike******
 ****zooms off*****

and never coming back
theffanyi (m)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #29 on: September 10, 2007, 11:01 AM »

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nana (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #30 on: September 10, 2007, 11:26 AM »

Duh!
angelchi (f)
Re: He's Asking Me Out From Thousands of Miles Away!
« #31 on: September 10, 2007, 08:22 PM »

Big deal, u gree abi u no gree? if u no gree den u free d guy joo.
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