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joeiyke
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HELLO MY FELLOW NAIRA LAND, I AM A NEW USER ON THIS FORUM, please I HARD THIS LITTLE PROBLEM THAT IS BOARDRING ME FOR SOME TIME NOW.
I HAVE A GIRL THAT I KNOW FOR THE PAST 6 years NOW BUT, MY PROBLEM WITH HER IS THAT SHE NEVER CARE ABOUT MY RELATIONS, ANY TIME I TALK ABOUT MY FAMILY SHE WILL BE UPSET.
please ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO CONCERNING THIS ISSUE.
JOE.
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naija4life (f)
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See my friend, if u've been going out 4 past 6 years like u said, and she gets her dander up anytime u talk family, then: Either she hates your guts and ur families as well adn doesnt want to associate wit them, let me ask, have u guys got some cash(as in very wealthy) Why i ask is she may like you personally but wont want to have anything to do wit ur family because of, u know  BUT wait, do you think she loves you?  |
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joeiyke
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kudos my friend naija4life , a millions thanks for your respond, is not that we really rich, i know that she love me and i can count on her for that.
but she is a very sturbone girl but she never hide any thing from me, but don't know why she never like to hear any any about my family and some times, if tell her about my friend's case she will say'' there you go again , why can't you leave your problem for them. one day you will land your self into trouble that you can not come out if.
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naija4life (f)
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Joe, listen you have been with her for 6YEARS. Dude that aint 6 days or 6 months, we talking years here,,,feel me?
If she doesnt want to go see ur peeps, then something is seriously wrong somewhere.
BUt let me ask, are you planning on marrying her?
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engr17 (m)
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@ Naija4life
It has not gotten to Marriage but will be as a fact rooming to hatch
@ joe
My guy,you are not the first and cnnot be the last gyno to have a babe that tells you almost everything but can i hint you this ask her "WHy am i with" and pause for 2 minutes , its mainly for stuborn guls and please don't blame her 4 that b/c thats her weapon and u as her gyno with a gentle style got her attention 2ru it. The advice is that she feels 4 you and wants ur uptmost attention not vice versa and until you let her know this frequently,She will neither tuk about them or lease anything about them
Feel me
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naija4life (f)
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@engr17 mmmhhh, "ponders" well "still pondering"
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iice (f)
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Not the first time, one's partner doesnt like or get along with the other partner's family. Well if you are planning to marry this girl, you just have to work round this family thing, if you can't work around the family issue then its best you don't marry the girl because, if in 6yrs she aint feeling the family, she bloody aint going to feel them after marriage. Goodluck
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joeiyke
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happy to hear from you guys, thanks a lot, i appreciate your advice, please (iice) you are a woman at least you should know better on this issue, i most confess, i love this girl but this case has been making me to think nagatively sometimes.
no i never told her to marry me, but i know that we are made to live together, what can i do to change this attitude of her?,
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jas_o (m)
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bobo, that girl did not love you she only like you for a best known to only her and once you started depreciating from that quality the likenes drop. she is not your best to hook with. you also need to ask her why she hate sieng you with your family?
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iice (f)
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Would rather prefer that she pretend to like your family? Or maybe smile and make chit chat but behind your back and their back make comments that you don't necessarily. Or better yet you trying to change her thereby subtely forcing her against her decision (whatever makes her feel that way) and in the end she ends up being spiteful/hateful. I have already given my own thoughts in my first posts. I expire!!
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