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tommy2k2 (m)
Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« on: June 17, 2009, 04:07 PM »

Most at-times, in the begining of a relationship it starts with good repects from both parties,.later on, the guys always lost their respect, is it because of the intimacy or it just happened normally like, (me and my gurl still dey respect each other till now),
ladies lets no why u re so quick to loose your respect??
sistawoman
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #1 on: June 17, 2009, 04:29 PM »

Do you mean why we so quickly loose respect for our men?

If so the answer is simple you have done something to no longer deserve it.

Respect is earned and once earned you must keep it or you will loose it.
chaircover (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #2 on: June 17, 2009, 04:38 PM »

Thank you o my sister. You don talk am well well.
MRbrownJAY (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #3 on: June 17, 2009, 04:43 PM »

not all men deserve respect. some loose it along the way and some shouldnt have gotten it at the first place(some ignorant woman are kind enough to give it away freely).
respect is earned and should always be a reward to good deeds, not just given away because you are together.

if you pay the rent for the family but beat your woman black and blue, there is no respect for you.
if you take good care of your wife but yet, fool around with ashawos in plain view of the whole world then there is no respect for you.


biola44 (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #4 on: June 17, 2009, 04:46 PM »

Quote from: sistawoman on June 17, 2009, 04:29 PM
Do you mean why we so quickly loose respect for our men?

If so the answer is simple you have done something to no longer deserve it.

Respect is earned and once earned you must keep it or you will loose it.

just like dat?
beingme (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #5 on: June 17, 2009, 04:48 PM »

wetin b that one?
if ladies no respect u, u no get respect for ladies be dat
ibkaye
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #6 on: June 17, 2009, 04:48 PM »

Quote from: biola44 on June 17, 2009, 04:46 PM
just like dat?
Just like that.
tommy2k2 (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #7 on: June 17, 2009, 04:49 PM »

does sex cause its??
izeek (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #8 on: June 17, 2009, 04:51 PM »

@ op,
 guess its cos they have the same opportunities as men have.
simply put, u got phd, they got it too.
so no more shakara.
tpiah
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #9 on: June 17, 2009, 04:53 PM »

because they've seen you at your **weak** moments?

Weak as in after release. Your achilles heel.
luxoire (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #10 on: June 17, 2009, 05:06 PM »

what i find is a lot of men mistake curtesy for respect!

it is only naturally that when you meet someone you are overly cuterous and polite etc,  however as you become fond of each other and more relaxed you settle into a routine and some of those initial efforts are done away with.

doesn't mean she doesnt respect you any more it just means she is fond of you like that and feels you can both share a joke in certain tones etc,  without feeling the need to constantly impress or walking on egg shells

it only becomes a problem when this exceeds a limit and ppl start feeling taken for granted - familiarity can breed contempt
beingme (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #11 on: June 17, 2009, 05:16 PM »

its not true guys. u guys re just saying it to make u (men) feel better
Feelitx (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #12 on: June 17, 2009, 05:26 PM »

Sistawoman had said it all. Respect is earned.You must work to earn it.
Feelitx (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #13 on: June 17, 2009, 05:27 PM »

Sistawoman had said it all. Respect is earned.You must work to earn it.
teissys (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #14 on: June 18, 2009, 12:03 PM »

Funny thread Grin
chiejik (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #15 on: June 18, 2009, 12:47 PM »

i think sex contribute oh
patwhizkid (f)
Re
« #16 on: June 18, 2009, 12:50 PM »

~ respect is reciprocal ~
Lexiwhite (m)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #17 on: June 18, 2009, 12:53 PM »

Quote from: luxoire on June 17, 2009, 05:06 PM
what i find is a lot of men mistake curtesy for respect!

it is only naturally that when you meet someone you are overly cuterous and polite etc, however as you become fond of each other and more relaxed you settle into a routine and some of those initial efforts are done away with.

doesn't mean she doesnt respect you any more it just means she is fond of you like that and feels you can both share a joke in certain tones etc, without feeling the need to constantly impress or walking on egg shells

it only becomes a problem when this exceeds a limit and ppl start feeling taken for granted - familiarity can breed contempt

Wise words.


@Topic: Respect comes in a number of ways, but respect, as we used to know it in the days of old, is dead!  It died with the introduction of equal rights Grin Grin
Eaglebabe
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #18 on: October 26, 2009, 12:11 PM »

You earn your respect.When u don't earn it,u will never have it.Cause whoever it is to respect u.
degreat23
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #19 on: October 26, 2009, 12:39 PM »

how that chick go respect you since she don see your prick and touch it ,u no sey respect na that mess wey una have as u pour na so u pour your respect
Anabel (f)
Re: Ladies: Why Una No Dey Respect Men
« #20 on: October 26, 2009, 12:47 PM »

i believe its the way you place yourself for the girl or you have done some really silly things that made the girl see how stupid the guy is.
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