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beingme (f)
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Maybe she forgot something there the night before she needed to pick up before heading to her office? Perhaps?  ask the poster not maybe. one thing i hate in most relationships is that girls won't let the guys hv their privacies. everything minute goin and back na wa |
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frank3.16
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@poster
how many boyfrends do u have?
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kshow1 (m)
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Stand up for your right. Afterall you said she was his ex. for its not easy to do away with your ex. especially if she is good at the game.  |
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nethacker (m)
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Stand up for your right. Afterall you said she was his ex. for its not easy to do away with your ex. especially if she is good at the game. U hv spoken well |
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heather (f)
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u going to your man's house that early seems u are lacking one thing in your relationship and that is TRUST, i assume u wanted to see something for your self , u should always bear in mind that no matter how much a man loves u he still cheats on u, but in your case it is his ex gurl. I'LL Say GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE.
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nethacker (m)
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u going to your man's house that early seems u are lacking one thing in your relationship and that is TRUST, i assume u wanted to see something for your self , u should always bear in mind that no matter how much a man loves u he still cheats on u, but in your case it is his ex gurl. I'LL Say GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE.
@^ this is impressive.I can't believe a lady could say this.@poster,learn from ^ and stop crying over wat u actually expected that day  |
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boy1 (m)
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u should always bear in mind that no matter how much a man loves u he still cheats on u, but in your case it is his ex gurl. I'LL Say GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE.
is this how u reason? if u truly love a woman,y must u cheat. D poster should "move on" cos he'll cheat on her again. Don't be a fool 4 love, cos u can get someone better than him. |
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nethacker (m)
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is this how u reason?
if u truly love a woman,y must u cheat.
D poster should "move on" cos he'll cheat on her again.
Don't be a fool 4 love, cos u can get someone better than him.
@^ r u telling us now that u hv nvr cheated on your girlfriend or u hv nt slept with some1 else apart frm your partner?  we knw your type. Abeg leave that side and let's face reality 2face don talk am finish, some pple do like say them know it all, if u want to criticise,do am small small.u no holy past my brother |
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pinky lady (f)
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ask the poster not maybe. one thing i hate in most relationships is that girls won't let the guys hv their privacies. everything minute goin and back
na wa
may be u didn't read the part where she said she went to get some of stuff inorder to catch up the morning flight, and what has privacy got to do with the fact that he's cheating on her? |
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izeek (m)
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may be u didn't read the part where she said she went to get some of stuff inorder to catch up the morning flight, and what has privacy got to do with the fact that he's cheating on her? if she was going to pick stuff for her flight, she shud have called oga before time. or intimated him the previous day. my take is she had he own motive for going there that early. am not supporting cheating, but when u think of something too much, it comes to pass. |
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pinky lady (f)
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if she was going to pick stuff for her flight, she shud have called oga before time. or intimated him the previous day.
my take is she had he own motive for going there that early.
am not supporting cheating, but when u think of something too much, it comes to pass.
either she thinks of it or not doesn't change anything. i think its even gud she got 2 find out early, who knows for how long he would have continued cheating on her without her knowledge and she eventually finds out when its rather 2 late  |
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Fowobi
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It's a pity that it happens like that. That is why you need to open your eyes wide so that after failling in love you are not burried in love.
Bye the way is it no too early to go to man house 5.30am ? na so the thing dey do you?
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biola44 (m)
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yori yori!  |
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JJYOU
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ask the poster not maybe. one thing i hate in most relationships is that girls won't let the guys hv their privacies. everything minute goin and back
na wa
does that justify cheating sister? relationships should be for only 9am -5pm hours in your book. am i right? |
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michelin89 (f)
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To those asking what she was going at the boy's house at 5:30 am read carefully. You are all so stupid for passing judgements before knowing the facts. Just because you mess around at 5:30am doesn't mean everybody does the same. Rotten minded adults! Not dat i don't have an office, but why i decided going so early, so i can pick some of my belonging as to enable me catch my flight by 7am. to collect my NYSC cert.
you said my issues are always damn funny, it this an advise or curse? |
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sexybabes (f)
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does that justify cheating sister? relationships should be for only 9am -5pm hours in your book. am i right?
Gud question. It dsnt matter even if it was 3am, still dsnt change the fact that he was screwing someone else other than her. @Poster It depends on you. If you love the guy enough to be able to forgive and forget what he has done, then do it. But just bare in mind that he will do it again. Can you be able to live with it? If so, forgive him & take him back. |
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michelin89 (f)
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I did, yes, after they accused someone of being promiscuous without any reason. These Nigerians and their hypocrisy. They are disgusting. |
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nethacker (m)
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c women ooo .But really she doesnt need any advise again cos she has already made up her mind.Dont let us 4get that sometimes "SHIT HAPPENS especially from we MEN" and again cutting off the head is not the best solution to solving headache @poster think thrice . |
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michelin89 (f)
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c women ooo .But really she doesnt need any advise again cos she has already made up her mind.Dont let us 4get that sometimes "SHIT HAPPENS especially from we MEN" and again cutting off the head is not the best solution to solving headache @poster think thrice . You are right. She should cut his *** |
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spikedcylinder
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Yet, if it was a woman that was found cheating now, all of them will be running their filthy mouths.
Even if she didn't go to pick something up in his house at that time, whats wrong with going there unannounced? If not that your dating culture is fucked up, an average person shouldn't have to worry about their partner cheating every darn time. 
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peelovee (f)
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ask the poster not maybe. one thing i hate in most relationships is that girls won't let the guys hv their privacies. everything minute goin and back
na wa
I belive say, na guy like you dey what make girl call u before u approve him arrival, so as to sanitize your did. ( NO BE CURSE, BUT NA REAL FACT. because if to say i tell lam say i dey come very early,him for don sanitize the house and see her off before i arrive, then i go just be noviz, i believe say no be first time be that, na God way just won show me something. abeg i need una advise, watin i go do now? |
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izeek (m)
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hey ladies,
no one is in support of the guys deeds oohh!!
we simply saying the lady had motives for going there so early other than what she stated.
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pinky lady (f)
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hey ladies,
no one is in support of the guys deeds oohh!!
we simply saying the lady had motives for going there so early other than what she stated.
and so even if she has motives nko, abeg poster 4get the guy and movew on jare |
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izeek (m)
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nah wah oohh!!!
we no say make she no go,
we just dey analyse the tory!
niways poster abeg MOVE ON
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DDMoses (m)
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@izeek
you with this your funny but cunny replies to people's issue, beware
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suchislife
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It is one of those things that normally happen in the relationship. Relationship is for maturity pple who belief that it is not every relationship will end up in marriage. Everybody has his/her own story to tell, but the solution depend on each individual experience, exposure, thinking and reasoning and enviroment. Anyway, either to give him a second chance or not will determine by what you have been experience from him in the past and the future both of you have. I wish u the best.
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declem
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how do u know that he had sex with her.are u there. may be u dont normaly give him that thing ,that y he went 4his ex.cheer up
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beingme (f)
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may be u didn't read the part where she said she went to get some of stuff inorder to catch up the morning flight, and what has privacy got to do with the fact that he's cheating on her? cheating? oh! morning flight? funny comments so far |
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finemocha (f)
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dump him and move on
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godonz.oki
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@ Peelove, is'nt it obvious? Cant u c dat u had not even left he had already started having fun wit his so called "EX" wat makes u bliv dat they even quitted? He was'nt expectin u dat mornin else he wud have guided his loins. Its rather very unfortunate dat u want 2 shadow d truth with luv. Gurl, open your eyes, there is nothing in this world dat can b said dat he didnt have sex except she wz on of which she wud not have honoured his invitation.
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