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nalijah07 (f)
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Are you expressive in your relationships with the opposite sex? Do you have a hard time expressing your feelings to just anybody or have you found that it's been only one person (past or present) that you felt comfortable expressing yourself to?
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luxoire (f)
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i always feel like ppl are always going to use my shit against me in the future - so i keep ma shit closely guarded only open up rarely!!
its been an experience and learning curve - to realise i am that sort of perosn - for a while i was in denial, thought i was open and free like that - but i am not, and now that i have realised and accepted it, i deal with it better
still dont open up to just anybody bf or not - only my mama knows me THAT well
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nalijah07 (f)
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@ luxoire
You are not alone. I have heard a lot of people say the same thing.
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ibkaye
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Never express yourself too much, got to be on guard  |
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bluespice (f)
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no one knows me 'that well' twice bittten how many times shy?  |
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luxoire (f)
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by God's grace my husband will know me fully and vice versa - at the minute my bf is restoring my faith in men and the human race generally  he is soo open and honest i feel bad for not being same - but i'm gettiing there - after knowing his earnings for a long time - i finally told him mine - and he laughed and said slowly but surely we will get there - hopefully before we get married (by God's grace)   |
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nalijah07 (f)
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Isn't it sad that people feel that they have to hold back. How can you ever experience true love if you dont take the risk of putting yourself out there and being vulnerable to someone else?  |
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van der jo (m)
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i understand most people use it against when you do open up but eventually you will open up to someone who understands you.but right now never seen anyone who i will open up to
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luxoire (f)
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Isn't it sad that people feel that they have to hold back. How can you ever experience true love if you dont take the risk of putting yourself out there and being vulnerable to someone else? some ppl make you feel comofrtable enough to open up and after a while you have no qualms doing it - you even do it before thinking about - but other ppl you just know!!! theya re snidy lil f*ckers i understand most people use it against when you do open up but eventually you will open up to someone who understands you.but right now never seen anyone who i will open up to i am sure you will soon - its just a matter of time, and trusting a good thing to be a good thing when you see it |
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edogram (m)
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just open up, i find it hard dating girls who dont opened up.
u mint miss a chance with a good dude.
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luxoire (f)
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just open up, i find it hard dating girls who dont opened up.
u mint miss a chance with a good dude.
ture - but is he isnt patient enough and understanding wiht me - then maybe it wouldnt have owrked out long term any way  |
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biola44 (m)
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if she can make me do it |
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iice (f)
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some ppl make you feel comofrtable enough to open up and after a while you have no qualms doing it - you even do it before thinking about - but other ppl you just know!!! theya re snidy lil f*ckers
So trueAre you expressive in your relationships with the opposite sex? Do you have a hard time expressing your feelings to just anybody or have you found that it's been only one person (past or present) that you felt comfortable expressing yourself to? My feelings are frozen Yes i can be open with some people and some things. If it's about feelings, i have no probs voicing them out. . .infact i make it a point to drive the point home each time - but people can be really dense sometimes, they don't actually hear you. . .they 'assume' or they hear what they want to hear cuckoo land
But then again, i'm not that easy to understand. So i don't bother sometimes to express myself. . .they wont even understand a lil part of it, not to mention the whole thing |
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