Got Married To Him And Discovered He's Hermaphrodite

You are a serious and highly commited born again christian that keeps afar from sin, here is a situation of a man you love with all your heart and promised each other of a great and intensed sex just after the wedding reception.

You discovered his uncontrollably nervousness during the wedding reception but you thought he cant just wait to pounce on you on that honeymoon bed.

Here comes the hour in the hotel room, you quickly rushed off your wedding dress, bra and g-string after a long romance but he couldn't pull off his boxers, again you rushed to pull it off and saw a male and partly female organ what will you do.

I understand your dissapointment though that he/she could not trust you enough to tell you, but think about what he/she has gone through in his life too, it can't have been easy at all

Now considering the fact that you just made a for better for worse vow, you can't ditch him/her, it is not his/her fault that he was born that way. Work with each other, and even if you have to dissolve the marriage based on deception, don't leave him/her in the lurch please

So if you a lady you wont mind, nice one.

  Thought we were talking about you

Rubbish, that means you dont love him in the first place hermaphrodite can be dealt with i beg what about this AMERICAN STAR =emm forgotten her name.


very shallow of you, must you have sex before marriage ehh

well as per me i pray and sort it him cos i love him gbam.

senseless talk, so because he's an hermaphrodite it means the end of the world jissss

^^^ O ga o Omotorewa, na luxoire you wake up see this morning

Busy body

which one be your own o,

Pls christian on this forum i beg

if you only wnated Christian view points why didn't you say so to start with?

if you opena  forum you throw an idea out there for discussion - and unless you specify what kind of reactions you want - you will get all types - mine included

abi ohh


I am not shallow, but i am one of those ppl that do not LIKE SUPRISES - i like to know what i am dealing with from day one - you dont wait until you have signed up for life to discover details like that - and who said PHYSICAL IMTIMACY = SEX?
if you showered with him, watched him dress / undress sleep in same house/ same bed - chances are you would have known this before marrying him

and if you didnt do all of that HE should have been open and honest enough about his condition with you and give you the choice to love him as he is or walk - not wait until you comit to him before God and man to discover it

I am a Christian - albeit a liberal xtian and not as conservative as some ppl - but i also think Christianity should find ways of dealing with modern day society and humanity

Stop deceiving yourself girl that's called oral sex and it's sin.


Let me help you, you are a proper fake christian and Jesus call people like you hypocrites, let's have some dignity

errmmm do you know the definition of oral sex?: it is defined as;
noun: sexual contact between the mouth and the genitals or anus; fellatio, cunnilingus, or anilingus.
Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs.
so how was what i said oral sex? na wah ohh - som ppl sef just dey use words

and you who passes judgment so freely on others is the TRUE christian yes? - no wonder some ppl feel they can not relate with christians any more when you have people that are willing to make you feel like the biggest sinner for expressing your view - fundamentalist to a degree

A SIN IS A SIN in the eyes of God no one is greater than the other - so you who tells a LIE is seen as an equal SINNER as the next person who practices sex before mariage or even a murder - MORALLY THEY ARE OF DIFFERENT DEGREES of course but in God's eyes we are all SINNERS to same degree and in need of absolution in the eyes of HE who matters most God

so you may feel you are 'better' christian than me, and stay on your high horse - but WE ARE ALL SINNERS IN GOD's eyes and in need of absolution - so quit trying to deceive yourself and make yourself feel better

The operation is quite dangerous as you are dealing with two private and different organ system and could cost life

However hope you are not marrying a man because of wealth, just a warning

 hermaphrodites need love too.


honestly i dotn know what to say, follow your heart

Pele o, I did not know I mistakenly clicked on the christian only section of the forum, sorry, my bad

Madam Christianity, i am sorry for you if that's how you can transelate the words of wisdom in your bible and numerous wise words from your pastor.
Just another deluded human being prowling the web with zero % functioning brain whatsoever.

na wa o oyinbo problem i said prabably of your nature or do you have those character.

Now what about if you are born Hermaphrodite for goodness sake what will you do, kill yourself.