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haroldpatt (m)
What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« on: June 21, 2009, 01:26 PM »

Dating can be just as difficult for men as it can be for women. So whether it is online or offline, one thing that men should bear in mind is that they may never get a second chance to leave a good impression.  It’s often a one time deal and you need to make the most of that first impression.  Before you start getting nervous about dating online, there are some things that you can do to make your dating experience a success.

Firstly, the most important thing to do is be on time for the date.  If you arrive late, you will be sending out the message that you don’t really care enough about the date to be there on time.  Lateness is a good indication to ladies that you are not reliable and that you can’t be depended upon.  Try to arrive a few minutes early so that you look as if you are eager for the outing to begin.

Secondly, take some time to prepare for your date and focus on your outlook.  You must not arrive to your first date looking unshaven and unkempt.  Women appreciate and admire men who take care of themselves.  Do everything that you would do if this date was a second or third and you really want to leave a good impression.  If your appearance is in question the woman won’t be able to see past your looks to the person you are inside.

Thirdly, consider arriving with a small gift.  Women love the thoughtfulness of a date that arrives with a little something such as flowers or a box of chocolates or ice-cream pack.  You don’t want to over –impress but at least show that you appreciate the chance to go out with her.  You want to be a gentleman whenever possible.  Women enjoy the feeling of being pampered and respected.  And just think, it might lead to a second date.

Fourthly, practice good listening skills on your first date.  No woman wants to spend time with a man who spends the whole time talking about himself.  The goal of a first date is to get to know each other so that you can decide if you have enough in common and enough attraction to start a serious relationship.  Women are attracted to men who are interested in what they have to say.

Lastly, use your intuition when it comes to that first date.  Be honest about what you are thinking and feeling at the end of it.  Don’t promise that you will call when you have no intention of contacting her again.  It’s good you display honesty even if it hurts.


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iice (f)
Re: What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« #1 on: June 21, 2009, 05:14 PM »

And the ones dating but have yet to meet nko? Huh
ifyalways (f)
Re: What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« #2 on: June 21, 2009, 05:38 PM »

Oga OP,be on time,look your best and come with a gift na for online dating abi wetin  Huh
Thought u were an apostle of online dating?which ones your epistle come dey yarn anoda thing?  Undecided
proudly9ja (m)
Re: What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« #3 on: June 21, 2009, 06:02 PM »

Be on time? for wat? meeting on YIM?

be well shaven? well unless there's a cam involved, how she wan take know I look well kept?

come with a gift and send it via file sharing???


abi no be onloine dating you dey talk about again?
iice (f)
Re: What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« #4 on: June 21, 2009, 06:14 PM »

Quote from: proudly9ja on June 21, 2009, 06:02 PM
Be on time? for wat? meeting on YIM?

be well shaven? well unless there's a cam involved, how she wan take know I look well kept?

come with a gift and send it via file sharing???


abi no be onloine dating you dey talk about again?

 Grin Grin Grin
walestar (m)
Re: What Men Should Know In Online Dating
« #5 on: June 21, 2009, 06:20 PM »

Online dating can be dangerous and even real dating self are dangerous because both men and women are players , Na God go save us
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