Maturity And Romance

my policy has always being 'i don't suffer fools'

thus i quit this thread(romance) for over a year

once in a while i skim through and i see the same ol bullshit

my question is this? when are we going to grow up? when are we going

to learn respect? if women aren't bashing men its the men calling the women bitches

the internet might be a faceless community but the way we relate here goes a long way

with regards to how we relate in real life. . . .a man opened up a thread to take on over 10women

calling them names and stuff haba! and we shamelessly cheered on, am quite sure he must be feeling 'the man' now

its sad, for its such a fellow is in the lowest form of cluelessness and should be pitied

for the rebuttal threads . . . .you are just slightly different even though you somewhat stem from the same base levels


we irrespective of our genders are different

we as a race should celebrate this difference

where the differences means we can relate

respect from afar comes into place

and clashes should be avoided. . . .i know it takes effort

but at the end of the day we know we are better for it

i aint preaching. . . . .and as started i dont suffer fools

so make your replies if any sensible

tpiah

you do have a point there

with particularly in support of any gender

i say both parties are to blame

those same women call them men names too

i in no way imply the men should resort to calling em bitches








ps: every clown's mother is an angel . . . . . . . . . . .lol

@ poster

well, in this case, some males took it on themselves to start a thread asking if/why women get angry at being called bitches.

Some women (including myself), gave their opinions, which didnt reflect what some males wanted to hear. Namely,  that women are bitches and shouldnt mind being called so regardless of the actual context of discussion.

Another male then took up the cause by calling out particular women and labelling them bitches for various reasons which made sense to him and other weirdos. He was cheered on and encouraged by some other males who shared his views on the status of women.


So I would say the attacks were unprovoked and a blatant attempt to use derogation, discrimination and gender profiling in an attempt to intimidate and oppress a certain minority.

Assuming there'd been a definite reason such as a recent fight or exchange of words, then one could overlook the incidents. However, there wasnt.

Now, if I hear any of this coming back to me outside of this thread there will be a problem.

Not to mention at the same time there were other attacks in other sections.

Wonder if you don't have too much time on your hands opening a thread to discuss Adam B, the numpty with internet werepe

He is a classic textbook case of "Were dun wo loja, . . ." And what do you do with people like that? Is there any point losing your rags with such people, to the extent that people would not be able to differentiate between the two of you Owitshiwitshi

Leave my husband Adamu alone if you don't want to see my red eye oh

is just abt mischief!

this is a reason to ponder


but then again,women have never really being a minority have they?

maybe a small percentage of women just realize the full extent of their rights

but i daresay the few that know it abuse it to such extent that the world wont miss it

if the remaining set of women continue to remain oblivious of this privilege

i.e a woman knows she can 80% of the time slap a man and get away with it

thus she would abuse it, some are so quick at emptying their drinks

i have being known to empty my beer too on such. . . i don't suffer fools

acting in a huff isnt in anyway going to bring your point home to me


note am not saying men aren't mostly guilty of beating down women not subservient to them

am just saying the coin has a flip side too

we should thus observe both sides

who is the so-called adam?

tpiah you are beginning to fall back into that trend

the santa's helpers comment. . . .

are you talking about  a particular set of people?

busybody  i don't quite get your angle here

i for one cited examples of threads i read

the filth and cancer that has eaten through us

this isnt about tackling a particular person

but more of curbing a particular trend via collective effort/force if required





with respect to thread hijacking

i aint a newbie i can always get my trend back

no that's the problem it aint funny

its an ugly trend . . . .believe me read through

this and you will realize the line between fun and rubbish was crossed years ago

i am not claiming sainthood. . . . .i daresay i am crazier than the average

but some lines should always be respected

speak for yourself plz.

If you dont want to "take things personally" then good for you. As long as no one mentions your name you're free to shrug it off.


However, you cant dictate to others what they can or cant take personally.

Facing adam leads nowhere as he's said times withuot number that his sole purpose is to abuse women for whatever reason. That's his handle for that particular moniker and he doesnt hide it.


His helpers are more interesting to me because they want to straddle both sides of the fence at the same time ie appear as "good guys" while egging on adam to do their dirty work for them.

I'm not engaging in debate with his helpers- I'm only expressing my views on this matter.







adam brody.

he has many other user ids. I think you started this thread after seeing one of them.

its quite a good feeling knowing not all of the men on here have been poisoned by their childishness
God bless u blaze

are you complaining on based on others or you are speaking for yaself
i don't think its anything serious jor
we all know that some people come across others as rude
they might not even know they are being rude
just try and tolerate it, its not big deal
na Internet be this jare
stop getting stress over notting
no matter how many thread like this being open
some people would still be seen as insulting/rude

if you dont think its anything serious then why not leave the thread for those of us who want to take it serious.

Unless you know adam or have a crush on him, its not like you're his mouthpiece. Or are you?

lol

how come you are the only one generalizing ?