What Should A Good Wife Do With Her Earnings?

How is all these different from the role of a housewife?

helpmate and housemaid is the same thing

Work on your English.

"treat him like you would a baby". Rofl. I knew pedophilia was rampant in Naija but I didnt know it has gotten to this extent 

You are very correct Madam. You really a role model in contemporary Nigeria. And I assure you, you will always have a blissful, blessed and happy home. Children reared in homes like this are always different from children reared in homes where there are arguments.

Keep it up

Hand it over to her husband like the good wife she is.

thanks JJYOU,

i am not bluffing here, God knows i am saying the truth. In my present parish, by the grace of God started the single sisters' forum where they will be taught on how to handle their home and there will be peace.

Is not as if my husband and i dont quarell atleast we are not saints, but we settle our differences.

What i am saying a nut shell is that young ladies (both married and yet to be married) the secret of a good marriage are

i.   set you home on the solid rock (Jesus)

ii.  Submit to your husband in every way

God bless you.  happy/ blessed are you for knowing this.  my ma inlaw says only mad people argue against themselves. Christ is always the rock with fresh waters that never fails

i cant remember the thread exactly but i remember a lady here being attacked for saying she set up the kitchen in her home. i dont know any sensible man who knows is back is fully covered by the wife that wont let her be the queen of her castle.  like your hubby the mrs runs everything in the house/ family that is becos i trust her with my life.  she is a blessing and good team player.  

if most women know how important and easy it is to get your man as your best friend they would stop all the   unnecesary & unhealthy craving for controversy and  quarrels some enjoy so much.  the danish say "Wise men do not quarrel with each other".  that is wisdom.

the ability and power of strife to ruin a good family has not been well explored by many.  if you can avoid quarrels and strife in your home you are almost gauranteed to achieve whatever you set out to do by Gods grace. the psalms said violence and noise should not be in our street let alone home.  relationships dont have to be nightmares and battle ground.  it is always a place to relate, share and not divide or go soloand lonely as some have made it.

i know we come from background where we have to fight to survive but we must come to the stage where we learn it is wrong and begin not to tolerate it especially in our family and relationships because the main looser is always you and your partner. thanks you make great sense. you give us hope that there are sensible minority still amongst us. God bless you and the continue to help you find peace and grace for yourself and family.

Osisi is pretty much the only wife on Nairaland that doesnt make me sick and Im sure she's happier than most of these loudmouths

Yes, but if the man is not responsible and wanna kill you, pls, dont submit to the face of the gun oh, run for your life, cos even God will call you stupid at the pearl's gate

i think there is a need of re-educating the mind of the women.

Women are supporters to men, so pls  nairalandergilrs, kindly be a supporter to your husbands.
Someone said they both should share the family expenses equally- why can't they also share the house keeping, laundry,cooking, taking care of the children.

men=80% or 70%
women=20% or 30%

thanks

@benedict
i so pity u. when it clears from your eye i hope its not too late.

a woman is not meant to provide for the family, it is the man's duty and the bible did not say the woman shold bring what she earns into the hose she is meant to submit not provide
women that have goone the way of benedict usually regret itFOR EXAMPLE  ask the women selling akara on the street what really happened
WOMEN BE WISE