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Uclaw
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It was a hard decision at 1st but with time i got over it but it is so hard keeping to it because of de kind of friends i move with i thank god i come over friends treet and i want de first girl in my life how do i go about it i have a girl at sight now and i have started a preliminary talk but i don't no how to let de cat out of bag please i need an advice
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dominobaby (f)
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Dude, are you posting this from a phone or a pc?
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dominobaby (f)
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Dude, are you posting this from a phone or a pc?
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naijacutee (f)
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You have posted the same topic about 4 times.
Back to your question, I don't see what the big deal about sex - or the lack of it is. I mean, sex shouldn't be such a big factor in ones life. In my opinion, (correct me if I'm wrong) - and I know the aethists would have a go at me for this one, but In my opinion, the main purpose for sex would be "To be fruitful and mulitply". The pleasure in the act would just be something, God in his infinite wisdom put in sex to make it desirable. Our very anatomy and body mechanics undeniably testifies to this. Now, it seems that pleasure, the "extra" is what people are making their sole purpose in the act. Thanks to the media propaganda (e.g using sex to sell toothpaste) for so many people, sex is just like getting high, the highest point of it representing their highest point of the day. I believe that there are many other things in life that would give the same "high" as sex. We just kep letting ourselves get fooled by the media and everything we see, fooled out of the real meaning of life.
Please girl, sex isn't that important. You sound like if you lose your virginity now, you'll be doing it to mix in with your friends or to gain respect from them. I don't think you are missing out on anything. Just wait till lthe time is right and till you are ready to handle all the responsibilities that come with sex : be it a relationship, a baby or a disease depending on how you like to roll. You have come so far and I respect you for that, why give up now?
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Uclaw
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Naijacutee to me sex realy means alot to u it may be all about fun to me is not
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naijacutee (f)
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Ok, tell me: what does sex mean to you?
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dominobaby (f)
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Little wonder, i often fall victim of network problems like this from my phone too.
Now to your question, i'll like to ask you one question, what has been the reason or purpose for the 21 years of your life for being a virgin? Like i always say, when purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. Being a virgin is NOT something to be ashamed of, its a virtue.
Now, when you want to tell her, do so proudly and not fearing that you will be mocked.
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Uclaw
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I think it goes a long way in determining your future in diferent ways
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dominobaby (f)
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How do you mean by your last post?
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Uclaw
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To me i don't see sex as a pleasure
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naijacutee (f)
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So what does it mean then?
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