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Sam Milla (m)
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When husbands become unfaithful most wives find it very hard to stomach such betrayal. They go to any length to restore their homes which they guide so jealously. So, what solution would you proffer to a girl friend that snatches your husband?
Would you just watch and let her take away what rightly belongs to you so there would be peace? Or would you fight her with everything within your reach? Or would you rather pay her off, if only she can name the price? Well, if you are caught in this web, what would you do?
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ezinne1212 (f)
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I will let the man know that if he has decided to disgrace me and himself then he is not worth getting a headache over. Pay her off indeed, I've better things to do with my money!
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Gabry (f)
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Rightly belongs to me? Why does this sound like a product?  Common now. I dont like to treat my bf / husband like a product because he is not and he will never be and I would expect him to do the same. When a bf/husband cheated on you, there obviously must be some problem with you yourself or he has an attitude problem. But anyways, it all depends on the situation. So. . . . I wont pay her and infact Ill let him make his own decison as Im not his motha. He can go with that girl or he could leave her and say sorry I will forgive him but if he does it for 3 times, mehnnn. . . its over (SHIT! I hate the word divorce as its not in my dictionary!)  |
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Secretz (f)
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YES!!! I will pay her with the biggest slap of her life! And no refunds!!  No, but seriously. I wouldn't wast my money, it could be spent on better things and what's to say that if I did and he did it again? Would I have to pay that one off tooo? Until when? |
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michelin89 (f)
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This topic is so so pathetic!
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Fhemmmy
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This is very interesting and i will follow it
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Sam Milla (m)
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Why wont some people just give their opinions here instead of condemning the topic.
Or atleast leave the topic alone ?
Wont you pay off this girlfriend if you believe beyond doubt that she will leave your husband alone?
Yes or no, With reasons , not calling the topic names like pathetic.
Or you think pulling your husbands girlfriend's hair or tearing her cloth in the public will solve the problem?
Huh!!
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michelin89 (f)
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Why wont some people just give their opinions here instead of condemning the topic.
Or atleast leave the topic alone ?
Wont you pay off this girlfriend if you believe beyond doubt that she will leave your husband alone?
Yes or know, With reasons , not calling the topic names like pathetic.
Or you think pulling your husbands girlfriend's hair or tearing her cloth in the public will solve the problem?
Huh!!
My bad! |
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pek (m)
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know one thing about blackmailers? they keep coming back for more.
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Fhemmmy
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know one thing about blackmailers? they keep coming back for more.
true dat |
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beingme (f)
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funny topic
payoff
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sistawoman
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If he was mine in the first place he would not have cheated.
So if he cheats he is not mine but hers.
Good riddence to bad rubbish.
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ifyalways (f)
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Never say never.
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beingme (f)
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paying off indeed.
u will talk of pay off if uwere the one that got the woman for your husband. these re mistakes we make that crash our homes (women).
what happens if the man is taking a second wife? kill him?
come on women we ought think well in order not to make mistakes in our homes.
if uhusband s cheats on u u ve to lay low and be faithful to urself not nagging, disrespecting or confronting him, but wit time u will discuss wit him making sure u know why he's cheating on u
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michelin89 (f)
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paying off indeed.
u will talk of pay off if uwere the one that got the woman for your husband. these re mistakes we make that crash our homes (women).
what happens if the man is taking a second wife? kill him?
come on women we ought think well in order not to make mistakes in our homes.
if uhusband s cheats on u u ve to lay low and be faithful to urself not nagging, disrespecting or confronting him, but wit time u will discuss wit him making sure u know why he's cheating on u
Ogini? Na god? Nor worry. Male users are coming to tell you you are a heavenly sent wife!  |
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JJYOU
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Never say never.
it is amazing what over opiniated people would do when faced with real life situations and choices. it is so easy to call people names on NL. if there is anything life teaches it is never say never becos u never know. |
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Fhemmmy
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it is amazing what over opiniated people would do when faced with real life situations and choices. it is so easy to call people names on NL. if there is anything life teaches it is never say never becos u never know.
Very true. |
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mama-gee (f)
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It's not right.
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kay9 (m)
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Now, let me say it straight: I wouldn't dream of cheating on my wife. If i love her enough to marry her, wtf am i looking for fooling around like that? Shit happens, yes, but i think a good percentage of the required self-control is up to me. Ok, having said that, lemme now talk objectively. If i did cheat on my wife and she's dense enough to pay off the girl, i shall without much ado, proceed to commit the said cheating again - and split the money 50-50 with the girl!! Easy dough! |
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Fhemmmy
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Now, let me say it straight: I wouldn't dream of cheating on my wife. If i love her enough to marry her, wtf am i looking for fooling around like that? Shit happens, yes, but i think a good percentage of the required self-control is up to me. Ok, having said that, lemme now talk objectively. If i did cheat on my wife and she's dense enough to pay off the girl, i shall without much ado, proceed to commit the said cheating again - and split the money 50-50 with the girl!! Easy dough! hahahahahahaha. You must be a comedian. A woman pay off the babe off your back and you think she wont have her own idea of what she will do to you? Get real. |
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~Sissy~ (f)
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if i pay her off, how am i sure she's not going to blackmail me with that |
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beingme (f)
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whn u re paying off be ready 4 wateva follows
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spoilt (f)
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Pay who off? You couldnt have cracked a worse joke.
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*dhtml
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Now this is interesting. I think those that are married are the ones that should reply this topic (at least they are more sensible).
Meanwhile, some of these not-married(single does not describe everyone) that are shouting here now that never! never!! never!!!
when they marry now, don carry belle. . .deliver one, two, three. . .ballooned up. . . .pathetic looking *Not all of them sha*
They will use anything to beg their husbands to stay at home. I see a couple of those kinda couples all the time. . . . .
The hubby comes back from work, and goes to the beer pallor. . . .house of the gf. . . . .comes back 2:59pm, leaves work 5am. . . . .
And of course, those wives will pay off their hubby's gf. I even remember a couple that could not have children, and when the gf got pregnant. . . .
Of course I am not married yet, but these are real-life events that people should consider before posting. . . .you will not always retain your current
looks and all that. . . .
By the way, no offence to anyone (and i did not mention names? or did I?). . .just being myself as always. . .
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SeanT21 (f)
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When husbands become unfaithful most wives find it very hard to stomach such betrayal. They go to any length to restore their homes which they guide so jealously. So, what solution would you proffer to a girl friend that snatches your husband?
Would you just watch and let her take away what rightly belongs to you so there would be peace? Or would you fight her with everything within your reach? Or would you rather pay her off, if only she can name the price? Well, if you are caught in this web, what would you do?
Snatches my husband??? He is a grown man.He choose to leave with her. If he wanna leave with her, so be it.I am not gonna fight over someone that leaves with another woman. |
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*dhtml
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I dunno why SeanT, but from what i have seen, no matter how bad the man becomes, most women seem to want their husband back.
I think marriage is deeper (possibly to women) than when they are just dating free-style, at least from what i have seen. . . . . . . . . . .
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sistawoman
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I dunno why SeanT, but from what i have seen, no matter how bad the man becomes, most women seem to want their husband back.
I think marriage is deeper (possibly to women) than when they are just dating free-style, at least from what i have seen. . . . . . . . . . .
I stand in the group that says if he cheats he can stay with her. If he is stupid enough to give up his 80 for her 20 then go be with her, i dont want him back. |
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SeanT21 (f)
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I stand in the group that says if he cheats he can stay with her.
If he is stupid enough to give up his 80 for her 20 then go be with her, i dont want him back.
CO-SIGN!!  |
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